Topic: What's with women
BettyB's photo
Sat 06/18/11 07:59 AM
I bet after reading this thread there are a lot of women shaking their heads and losing respect for some men too, and with good reason.

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:33 PM




People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves.

Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason.

Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility.

And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT!

Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one.

People are too screwed up on false morality.


abstinence is merely The fact or practice of restraining oneself from indulging in something

so ABSTAINING from sex, if you are not already pregnant,,,does work in preventing pregnancy,,,
I have been in a forced abstinence for so long as long as she is not fat, pissed off, and ugly and wanted some strange I probably would be all over that action! I am at a point in my life right now I am treading very carefully becasue I can and will make relationship mistakes. Like I said, abstinence doesn't work well when you had sex! The motivation for it will drive a normal person insane and I am surprised I have not gone over the bridge yet myself!

Sorry but I like sex WAY too much to abstain and will not endure a relationship based on that thinking. If she ran out of the pill and we were out of the backup plan, (Condoms at least help cut down ion the chances of pregnancy!) then yes I can put it off for a night or two, even more if there were other factors like she was sick, both of us are too busy with work and too worn out, etc., there are good reasons why not to have sex but to avoid it all together?

HELL NO!

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:36 PM





People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves.

Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason.

Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility.

And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT!

Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one.

People are too screwed up on false morality.


abstinence is merely The fact or practice of restraining oneself from indulging in something

so ABSTAINING from sex, if you are not already pregnant,,,does work in preventing pregnancy,,,
I have been in a forced abstinence for so long as long as she is not fat, pissed off, and ugly and wanted some strange I probably would be all over that action! I am at a point in my life right now I am treading very carefully becasue I can and will make relationship mistakes. Like I said, abstinence doesn't work well when you had sex! The motivation for it will drive a normal person insane and I am surprised I have not gone over the bridge yet myself!

Sorry but I like sex WAY too much to abstain and will not endure a relationship based on that thinking. If she ran out of the pill and we were out of the backup plan, (Condoms at least help cut down ion the chances of pregnancy!) then yes I can put it off for a night or two, even more if there were other factors like she was sick, both of us are too busy with work and too worn out, etc., there are good reasons why not to have sex but to avoid it all together?

HELL NO!


there is a slight difference between whether one is WILLING TO BE abstinent and whether abstinence works to prevent pregnancy

if one is not able/wiling to be abstinent, than NON ABSTINENCE would be an unproductive way of trying to prevent pregnancy

RKISIT's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:39 PM
theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:43 PM

theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....



but everyone 'needs' air

not everyone 'needs' sex

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:47 PM


theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....



but everyone 'needs' air

not everyone 'needs' sex


yeah we do

there are numerous health benefits to sex also

one more reason to have more sex : )


no photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:47 PM

I bet after reading this thread there are a lot of women shaking their heads and losing respect for some men too, and with good reason.


don't worry betty, if i got you in a family way, i would do right by you and make you an honest woman

no photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:48 PM


theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....



but everyone 'needs' air

not everyone 'needs' sex


True! ^_^

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:50 PM



theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....



but everyone 'needs' air

not everyone 'needs' sex


yeah we do

there are numerous health benefits to sex also

one more reason to have more sex : )





there is no physical/individual NEED for sex, benefits or no


BettyB's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:51 PM


I bet after reading this thread there are a lot of women shaking their heads and losing respect for some men too, and with good reason.


don't worry betty, if i got you in a family way, i would do right by you and make you an honest woman

laugh laugh laugh if you were able to get me in the "family Way" you would go down in history.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:52 PM
Edited by RKISIT on Sat 06/18/11 02:56 PM
i bet if you made a poll on the top 5 things adults need,the majority of them will have sex as one of them

hell let me fix this between the ages of 18 and 60,i raised it to 60 cause of there being viagra now....lol

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:53 PM




theres an old saying "sex is like air,it's not important til you need it" so i guess i need some air....



but everyone 'needs' air

not everyone 'needs' sex


yeah we do

there are numerous health benefits to sex also

one more reason to have more sex : )





there is no physical/individual NEED for sex, benefits or no




speak for yourself :tongue: laugh

Teditis's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:53 PM
Edited by Teditis on Sat 06/18/11 02:55 PM

using pregnancy as a weapon in their arsenal? If things aren't working with a man, how does getting/pretending to be pregnant help anything?

I'm only talking about purposefully doing this, not accidents.


Seems like it might keep a conversation rolling...

Weapons imply a certain ugliness... perhaps though, it was wielded in self-defense.

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 06/18/11 02:57 PM






People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves.

Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason.

Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility.

And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT!

Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one.

People are too screwed up on false morality.


abstinence is merely The fact or practice of restraining oneself from indulging in something

so ABSTAINING from sex, if you are not already pregnant,,,does work in preventing pregnancy,,,
I have been in a forced abstinence for so long as long as she is not fat, pissed off, and ugly and wanted some strange I probably would be all over that action! I am at a point in my life right now I am treading very carefully becasue I can and will make relationship mistakes. Like I said, abstinence doesn't work well when you had sex! The motivation for it will drive a normal person insane and I am surprised I have not gone over the bridge yet myself!

Sorry but I like sex WAY too much to abstain and will not endure a relationship based on that thinking. If she ran out of the pill and we were out of the backup plan, (Condoms at least help cut down ion the chances of pregnancy!) then yes I can put it off for a night or two, even more if there were other factors like she was sick, both of us are too busy with work and too worn out, etc., there are good reasons why not to have sex but to avoid it all together?

HELL NO!


there is a slight difference between whether one is WILLING TO BE abstinent and whether abstinence works to prevent pregnancy

if one is not able/wiling to be abstinent, than NON ABSTINENCE would be an unproductive way of trying to prevent pregnancy


Now I can live with that! THANK YOU!

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:00 PM

i bet if you made a poll on the top 5 things adults need,the majority of them will have sex as one of them



yeah, many have a broader definition of a 'need', to include things we 'enjoy and want alot'


for sake of this discussion a need is something that, without it, we would 'literally' die


I havent heard of people dying from not having sex
I have heard of them dying from 'thirst', 'hunger' , and sleep deprivation and the elements


needs: water, food, rest, shelter


no photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:01 PM
All I can say is, you are all very horny people! laugh

no photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:11 PM

All I can say is, you are all very horny people! laugh


Nothing wrong with that. laugh

no photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:12 PM


i bet if you made a poll on the top 5 things adults need,the majority of them will have sex as one of them



yeah, many have a broader definition of a 'need', to include things we 'enjoy and want alot'


for sake of this discussion a need is something that, without it, we would 'literally' die


I havent heard of people dying from not having sex
I have heard of them dying from 'thirst', 'hunger' , and sleep deprivation and the elements


needs: water, food, rest, shelter




If you don't need sex, that's fine. But why judge others who enjoy it a lot and would rather have it, whether you think they need it or not?

no photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:13 PM


All I can say is, you are all very horny people! laugh


Nothing wrong with that. laugh


You'd better believe it baby winking laugh

no photo
Sat 06/18/11 03:13 PM



I bet after reading this thread there are a lot of women shaking their heads and losing respect for some men too, and with good reason.


don't worry betty, if i got you in a family way, i would do right by you and make you an honest woman

laugh laugh laugh if you were able to get me in the "family Way" you would go down in history.


grrr baby, very grrr. shall we shag now, or shag later