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Edited by
singmesweet
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You're not taking responsibility for what you chose not to do. If she told you she was on birth control and wasn't, that's a sh*tty situation. But, you're able to prevent the pregnancy from happening if you take responsibility into your own hands by wearing a condom. If you don't, then it's the fault of both of you. Everyone eventually stops using condoms. They get a little expensive when you are having sex with the same person on a semi-daily basis for an extended period of time. She took the responsibility of maintaining birth control to prevent pregnancy, then she chose to stop taking it. I don't see where anything changed on my part to stop her from taking her birth control and preventing the pregnancy. You're still not taking any responsibility for yourself. You said in the beginning it isn't hard for a woman to talk a man out of wearing a condom. If you're unable to take responsibility for something like this that you chose not to do, perhaps you aren't ready to be having sex. |
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Edited by
BettyB
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Fri 06/17/11 08:34 AM
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No form of BC is 100% effective including the use of condoms.
They can , rip slip have a hole or whatever. Both male and female should use protection that way you double you chances of no pregnancy. Any woman that uses a false pregnancy to "Trap" a man is wrong on so many levels. However if a true pregnancy does result, then its both of your reponsbility. Just because it grows in the woman's body does mean its all on her, and should never be assumed that it is. |
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People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves.
Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason. Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility. And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT! Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one. People are too screwed up on false morality. |
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No form of BC is 100% effective including the use of condoms. They can , rip slip have a hole or whatever. Both male and female should use protection that way you double you chances of no pregnancy. Any woman that uses a false pregnancy to "Trap" a man is wrong on so many levels. However if a true pregnancy does result, then its both of your reponsbility. Just because it grows in the woman's body does mean its all on her, and should never be assumed that it is. is abstinence still a form of BC? |
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People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves. Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason. Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility. And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT! Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one. People are too screwed up on false morality. abstinence is merely The fact or practice of restraining oneself from indulging in something so ABSTAINING from sex, if you are not already pregnant,,,does work in preventing pregnancy,,, |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Fri 06/17/11 11:05 AM
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some women are so dam fertile they get pregnant from swallowing,nothing is a 100% proof against pregnancy except abstinence and seriously this is a joke,abstinence is. so basically everytime you have sex it's a gamble.
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WOW.....
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some women are so dam fertile they get pregnant from swallowing,nothing is a 100% proof against pregnancy except abstinence and seriously this is a joke,abstinence is. so basically everytime you have sex it's a gamble. you dont get pregnant swallowing, im sure that must be sarcasm though abstinence is a joke to many, and those are the ones worrying about having their cake without gaining weight,,so to speak the ones who want the privileges of sex without responsibility after are the ones who laugh at abstinence and the ones much more likely to have unwanted pregnancy than those who DONT laugh at abstinence |
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You're not taking responsibility for what you chose not to do. If she told you she was on birth control and wasn't, that's a sh*tty situation. But, you're able to prevent the pregnancy from happening if you take responsibility into your own hands by wearing a condom. If you don't, then it's the fault of both of you. Everyone eventually stops using condoms. They get a little expensive when you are having sex with the same person on a semi-daily basis for an extended period of time. She took the responsibility of maintaining birth control to prevent pregnancy, then she chose to stop taking it. I don't see where anything changed on my part to stop her from taking her birth control and preventing the pregnancy. Birth control as in the Pill runs everywhere from $20.00 a month to $75.00 a month depending on the kind one is taking. So, espenses as an excuse are out. |
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some women are so dam fertile they get pregnant from swallowing,nothing is a 100% proof against pregnancy except abstinence and seriously this is a joke,abstinence is. so basically everytime you have sex it's a gamble. you dont get pregnant swallowing, im sure that must be sarcasm though abstinence is a joke to many, and those are the ones worrying about having their cake without gaining weight,,so to speak the ones who want the privileges of sex without responsibility after are the ones who laugh at abstinence and the ones much more likely to have unwanted pregnancy than those who DONT laugh at abstinence I'm glad to see that there's at least one other person who sees things the way I do. |
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Cute pic Totage
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some women are so dam fertile they get pregnant from swallowing,nothing is a 100% proof against pregnancy except abstinence and seriously this is a joke,abstinence is. so basically everytime you have sex it's a gamble. you dont get pregnant swallowing, im sure that must be sarcasm though abstinence is a joke to many, and those are the ones worrying about having their cake without gaining weight,,so to speak the ones who want the privileges of sex without responsibility after are the ones who laugh at abstinence and the ones much more likely to have unwanted pregnancy than those who DONT laugh at abstinence |
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TY 2Kids
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Edited by
BettyB
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Fri 06/17/11 04:05 PM
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No form of BC is 100% effective including the use of condoms. They can , rip slip have a hole or whatever. Both male and female should use protection that way you double you chances of no pregnancy. Any woman that uses a false pregnancy to "Trap" a man is wrong on so many levels. However if a true pregnancy does result, then its both of your reponsbility. Just because it grows in the woman's body does mean its all on her, and should never be assumed that it is. is abstinence still a form of BC? I was talking about pills, condoms and the like. And No absitence is not A Form of BC..it is BC. |
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^^^^^^^ Please, please, please people. I have heard quiet enough!
Everyone knows how persuasive a Lady can be. She can take the candy right out of your fingers, if she wants too. If she's already gotten you into bed, then you've already lost to her. It's you're own damn fault, so suck it up! 
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^^^^^^^ Please, please, please people. I have heard quiet enough! Everyone knows how persuasive a Lady can be. She can take the candy right out of your fingers, if she wants too. If she's already gotten you into bed, then you've already lost to her. It's you're own damn fault, so suck it up! What's with the spineless men here? So not attractive.
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I can't help wonder if Men got pregnant if they would still be thinking this way.
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^^^^^^^ Please, please, please people. I have heard quiet enough! Everyone knows how persuasive a Lady can be. She can take the candy right out of your fingers, if she wants too. If she's already gotten you into bed, then you've already lost to her. It's you're own damn fault, so suck it up! What's with the spineless men here? So not attractive. I thought women liked jellyfish. 
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I can't help wonder if Men got pregnant if they would still be thinking this way. Of course not. |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Fri 06/17/11 06:52 PM
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People don't have to get married to have kids. I know people who are not married but happily committed to each other and they have kids. I also know people who live apart, have kids, and manage to make good lives for themselves. Getting married becasue of pregnancy is a lie and a sham too! I will NEVER EVER marry for that reason. Also just becasue I am having sex with a woman means nothing to me. It is the underlying relationship that means something to me. A pregnancy resulting from a casual encounter (casual sex or FWB) does not entitle anyone to exclusive rights to me. It isn't my responsibility when she was out for her gratification with no intention of a relationship to me. Trying to dump a pregnancy on me after a casual encounter is BS and I will not be forced into accepting any responsibility what so ever. I would be very resistant to being forced to pay child support in a case like that. For all I care she should pull the plug and not dump a responsibility like that on me. If I was committed to a woman and she turned up pregnant we will figure out what we will do when that happens and there I would accept responsibility. And far too many people are under the impression that birth control protects from STDs. NOT! Also Abstinence does not work when you already had sex before! I can't buy that one. People are too screwed up on false morality. So, if you got someone pregnant and it was a result of casual sex, you'd have nothing to do with it? Even if it was proven to be your baby? Do you tell this to women up front? I hope you use condoms at all times. Based on some things you've said recently, you don't seem to have a lot of respect for women. |
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