Topic: Rate?
BossLady111's photo
Sat 01/07/12 06:26 AM
I felt like it was clear that I didn't want booty-call-type responses. I think I'm much more intelligent than I am physically attractive, but in life and online, I only get approached by those looking for fluff. Maybe I'm fluff? Go ahead, be honest, I'm thick-skinned.

patsfan64's photo
Sat 01/07/12 06:32 AM
There is absolutely nothing in your profile thatwould give anyone any idea that you are "fluff". Your pictures are very pretty and that is probably why you're getting all that unwanted male mail. Hopefully with all the "junk" mail you get, one of them might be a nice guy for you. Good luck.

BossLady111's photo
Sat 01/07/12 06:56 AM
Thank you, that's very nice of you to say. I'll just wait then.:smile:
Anything negative from anyone? Really, I'm ready...happy

no photo
Sat 01/07/12 07:40 AM
Pay no mind to the "fluff"...hit the block button and remove them from your mind. You are going to get all kinds of remarks on dating sites, from sweet to disgusting. Just remain the person you are and realize that if someone can't appreciate that, then they aren't worth your timeflowerforyou

BossLady111's photo
Sun 01/08/12 06:28 AM
Thank you, I finally understand how to block those people, I'm hoping that in their absence, I will still get messages. huh

no photo
Sun 01/08/12 07:11 AM
I think you have a very intersting profile and you are a good looking female so you should expect any type of comments.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 01/08/12 09:27 AM
You're a good looking girl with a good looking picture. But I'm sure you already know that. You put up a photo on the internet and you are going to all kinds of responses. You just have to sort out the wheat from the chaff.

BossLady111's photo
Sun 01/08/12 03:09 PM
Thank you. The issue is that I've realized that I am doing something wrong, but I'm not certain what it is, and it's difficult to be objective about oneself. I thought that maybe a stranger who wouldn't feel bad about hurting my feelings could see what it is and be honest. It must be something deeper, thanks to everyone for your input.
flowerforyou

chefvince12345's photo
Sun 01/08/12 03:42 PM
beautiful smile :)

scottnky2003's photo
Sun 01/08/12 07:01 PM
Well I have to say that if I lived anywhere near Florida, I would be trying to get your attention for sure. You are gorgeous and according to your profile we would probably connect very easily. I give you an A+. Sorry, I know that you think there has to be something negative about you, but I don't have anything for that.