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Topic: Never Thought I'd Say This
MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 01/21/12 11:37 AM




yeah, gotta admit he looked good...but he's a friend. i don't sleep with friends, its like a rule i have.
ohhhhhhhh i dont sleep with friends either:angel:


and i never actually slept with him before. we weren't all that sexual as a couple. we always just hung out.

laugh
noway


seriously, bigsmile i never did dat with him. we were friends a lot longer than being together.

irisheyes79's photo
Sat 01/21/12 11:38 AM





yeah, gotta admit he looked good...but he's a friend. i don't sleep with friends, its like a rule i have.
ohhhhhhhh i dont sleep with friends either:angel:


and i never actually slept with him before. we weren't all that sexual as a couple. we always just hung out.

laugh
noway


seriously, bigsmile i never did dat with him. we were friends a lot longer than being together.
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

krupa's photo
Sat 01/21/12 11:42 AM
He got his foot in the door ...
You are comfortable with it...

....I got $10 that says you will end up regrettng it.

I got nothing to gain or lose by saying this honey. You are a cool chick and it sucks to watch a friend screw themselves over.

I do hope it pans out the way you are approching it.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 01/21/12 11:59 AM

He got his foot in the door ...
You are comfortable with it...

....I got $10 that says you will end up regretting it.

I got nothing to gain or lose by saying this honey. You are a cool chick and it sucks to watch a friend screw themselves over.

I do hope it pans out the way you are approaching it.


Yeah...well, it didn't feel wrong just hanging out. Been a while since I've been outside and hung out with cool folks. I did miss him. We were so close and last night it was like I got him back as a friend.

I don't regret this...not now at least. This hit so true to me, yet, I feel like what I'm doing is the right thing here. There wasn't any sweet talk last night. In fact, the entire thing was pretty fun. I can be someone's friend. I can. I don't know what else to do. I've made the decision to do this and I'm going to keep my promise. I don't let my friends down. Not ever. I haven't got two to rub together. ohwell

krupa's photo
Sat 01/21/12 12:32 PM
I actaully do completey understand the concept that some times it is obvious when you ar better friends than lovers. Just like some people are great lovers but, not really much of a friend.

I hope it works out good for ya. A girl who I dated for a very short while...she and I knew it would never work. We both agreed. But, we both knew the other would be a great friend for life. That was 18 years ago. I just went to San Antonio last weekend to celebrate her 15th anniversary to her husband. I introduced them and was best man at thier wedding.

Friendships with ex's CAN happen......but, they are RARE.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 01/22/12 08:20 AM
Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 01/22/12 12:01 PM

Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

i thought the sayin was as queer as a $3 bill

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 01/22/12 12:37 PM


Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

i thought the sayin was as queer as a $3 bill


Was it? Dang, I'm so not cool anymore

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 01/22/12 12:41 PM



Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

i thought the sayin was as queer as a $3 bill


Was it? Dang, I'm so not cool anymore
your cool in my book flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 01/22/12 03:45 PM




Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

i thought the sayin was as queer as a $3 bill


Was it? Dang, I'm so not cool anymore
your cool in my book flowerforyou


I'd be a lot cooler if I knew I wasn't "in limbo" with this guy.....but I'm cool here iz all that mattas.

irisheyes79's photo
Mon 01/23/12 07:54 AM





Right, I just feel like its easier to understand it that way. I never considered him my lover, it had never gotten to that point.

What a great story. People are just better off as friends. But in this case, I'm not so sure. I'd be lying to myself if I didn't have any feelings for him, least more than friendly. So, in guarding myself a little, I have to do what's right for this situation.

As rare as a $3 bill.

i thought the sayin was as queer as a $3 bill


Was it? Dang, I'm so not cool anymore
your cool in my book flowerforyou


I'd be a lot cooler if I knew I wasn't "in limbo" with this guy.....but I'm cool here iz all that mattas.
:thumbsup: smooched flowerforyou

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