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Topic: Never Thought I'd Say This
Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 01/18/12 11:58 AM
My curiousity gets me into trouble. If he asks me directly I'll think of it. Not promising anything. Hell so does mine. . That's why i try not to go along with it before knowing what's right. I know it's confusing when an ex just suddenly turns up out of the blue. You don't know how to react.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 12:00 PM
My curiousity gets me into trouble. If he asks me directly I'll think of it. Not promising anything. Hell so does mine. . That's why i try not to go along with it before knowing what's right. I know it's confusing when an ex just suddenly turns up out of the blue. You don't know how to react. I guess being my extra crazy self should be enough of a red flag. I have more doubts than good thoughts. But damn my heart to hell for caring. I wish I could be a bish about it. Be an easier option.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 01/18/12 12:06 PM
I guess being my extra crazy self should be enough of a red flag. I have more doubts than good thoughts. But damn my heart to hell for caring. I wish I could be a bish about it. Be an easier option. Not sure what you mean about the red flag part. You seem pretty together anywho. Love is confusing.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 12:09 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 01/18/12 12:09 PM
I have more doubts than good thoughts. Well that won't help for a start. lol.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 01/18/12 12:14 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Love your new pic btw. I'm not sure what else to say about the matter. Think it's cos i'm tired. I always go quiet when i get tired. lol. I'm gonna go try and have a sleep. Hope you can come to some sort of decision about it. Ok, well see you soon, girl, take care :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/18/12 12:17 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Why read into things and what may or may not be there rather than discuss them with him?

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Wed 01/18/12 12:28 PM
It seems to me he has a history with ex's.....it may be an issue with him....maybe she broke it off with him and now he's sorry.....and trying to finagle himself back into your life again.....hope your door doesn't become revolving....JMO

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 03:16 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Love your new pic btw. I'm not sure what else to say about the matter. Think it's cos i'm tired. I always go quiet when i get tired. lol. I'm gonna go try and have a sleep. Hope you can come to some sort of decision about it. Ok, well see you soon, girl, take care :) 8 years old x-mas 1992. Thanks Let's not burn ourselves out on this. I think I just need to figure some things out. I appreciate the advice though. I think I need to go with my head on this one. Chats again!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 03:18 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Why read into things and what may or may not be there rather than discuss them with him? Because he's going through a tough time. Would you bring up something like this if one of your exes were going through a family illness? I just couldn't.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 03:23 PM
It seems to me he has a history with ex's.....it may be an issue with him....maybe she broke it off with him and now he's sorry.....and trying to finagle himself back into your life again.....hope your door doesn't become revolving....JMO That's what I feel a little. I like that word lol Could be? I don't know. I'll try not to be retarded about this. Keyword: try.

mickev Joined Wed 07/20/11 Posts: 8	Wed 01/18/12 03:46 PM
When you broke up he went back to his ex and now he comes back to you.the guy is a player and since maybe he knows you care he comes to you with his burden to lean on you at the moment(and as we are,we go for it)you will pity him and all those feelings will resurface. So if am to advice you,i would just say make a wise decision.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/18/12 04:00 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Why read into things and what may or may not be there rather than discuss them with him? Because he's going through a tough time. Would you bring up something like this if one of your exes were going through a family illness? I just couldn't. That would be the exact reason not to read into things.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 04:02 PM
I read into things more than what they are. Especially when I feel for someone. It confuses both them and me. We both seem "together" I guess. I'm just crazy/stupid for love. Why read into things and what may or may not be there rather than discuss them with him? Because he's going through a tough time. Would you bring up something like this if one of your exes were going through a family illness? I just couldn't. That would be the exact reason not to read into things. That's why I am asking the question HERE Emily. Doesn't hurt to get some opinions.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 04:03 PM
When you broke up he went back to his ex and now he comes back to you.the guy is a player and since maybe he knows you care he comes to you with his burden to lean on you at the moment(and as we are,we go for it)you will pity him and all those feelings will resurface. So if am to advice you,i would just say make a wise decision. Thanks I hope I do cause it would suck if I detour in this.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/19/12 09:59 AM
I think I'm meeting him tomorrow. He said his dad is doing better, so it may work out for the best. Had a great talk with him last night before I went to sleep. Was feeling really down and he cheered me up. He always knew how to do that. I want us to be friends again.

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Thu 01/19/12 10:01 AM
I think I'm meeting him tomorrow. He said his dad is doing better, so it may work out for the best. Had a great talk with him last night before I went to sleep. Was feeling really down and he cheered me up. He always knew how to do that. I want us to be friends again. That is good to hear. Good luck to you in it all.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 01/19/12 10:03 AM
I think I'm meeting him tomorrow. He said his dad is doing better, so it may work out for the best. Had a great talk with him last night before I went to sleep. Was feeling really down and he cheered me up. He always knew how to do that. I want us to be friends again. That is good to hear. Good luck to you in it all. Thanks to you too

mickev Joined Wed 07/20/11 Posts: 8	Thu 01/19/12 10:24 AM
When you broke up he went back to his ex and now he comes back to you.the guy is a player and since maybe he knows you care he comes to you with his burden to lean on you at the moment(and as we are,we go for it)you will pity him and all those feelings will resurface. So if am to advice you,i would just say make a wise decision. Thanks I hope I do cause it would suck if I detour in this.

mickev Joined Wed 07/20/11 Posts: 8	Thu 01/19/12 10:27 AM
When you broke up he went back to his ex and now he comes back to you.the guy is a player and since maybe he knows you care he comes to you with his burden to lean on you at the moment(and as we are,we go for it)you will pity him and all those feelings will resurface. So if am to advice you,i would just say make a wise decision. Thanks I hope I do cause it would suck if I detour in this. you ought to and i believe you are a smart lady to let any man play with your feelings.