Topic: Can You Be Happy
bigdaddytroy's photo
Tue 01/24/12 05:06 AM
In A 50/50 love Or IN A 40/60 Or what????????????:banana: :banana:

soufiehere's photo
Tue 01/24/12 05:46 AM
No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.

no photo
Tue 01/24/12 05:52 AM
i'm already happy. being in a relationship with a woman would make me ecstatic. i would think people would like a 50/50, but alas someone always seems to sacrifice more

LoweredExpectations's photo
Tue 01/24/12 07:32 AM
Amen to that.
Being happy by yourself is an important skill to learn, and in my opinion is a prerequisite for a relationship, anyway.
[I know it's off-topic but I couldn't resist.]

no photo
Tue 01/24/12 07:36 AM
100 percent, or put up some saloon doors.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 01/24/12 07:58 AM
I've always been happy, whether single or otherwise. Being in a relationship, for me, basically enhances my level of happiness. But i can be just as happy without being in one. I think it's important to know what makes you happy, when not in a relationship.

irisheyes79's photo
Tue 01/24/12 08:06 AM
drinks

no photo
Tue 01/24/12 08:22 AM

Amen to that.
Being happy by yourself is an important skill to learn, and in my opinion is a prerequisite for a relationship, anyway.
[I know it's off-topic but I couldn't resist.]


This is very important. So many people are not happy with themselves and think a relationship will automatically fix the problem.

no photo
Tue 01/24/12 09:09 AM
100%

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:29 AM

No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.


Si.

bigdaddytroy's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:13 PM
Edited by bigdaddytroy on Tue 01/24/12 02:15 PM
you can give 100 but you get 40 what do you do .:cry: :cry:

bigdaddytroy's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:17 PM
yes but I love me & you too.

Kat1974's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:23 PM
Definately happy on my own. I crack myself up regularly. But if I were in a relationship that was healthy and loving (wouldn't be in one if it wasn't) I would be in heaven.

I would give 100% and expect the same from the person I was with. I was in a relationship where I just gave only partial parts of me..it was more of a 40%. Let me tell you, it doesn't work and it hurt the woman I was with. She gave 100%. I won't make that mistake again.

no photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:26 PM

No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.


This.

If you are not giving it, you really should not expect to get it. If you are giving it, and not receiving the same in return, you should be able to communicate with the other person and find out why that is so.


andrewzooms's photo
Tue 01/24/12 02:56 PM

No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.


100 percent effort to make it work.

Tulareman's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:39 PM


No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.


100 percent effort to make it work.
^^^^^What he said

patsfan64's photo
Tue 01/24/12 11:45 PM
Edited by patsfan64 on Tue 01/24/12 11:51 PM


No.
It's a sliding scale.
Each must give 100% to generate it.


Si.


Pi. Trust me, I've double checked the numbers.

irisheyes79's photo
Wed 01/25/12 09:03 AM
i can be happy most of the time no matter what

pyxxie13's photo
Thu 01/26/12 12:03 PM
I would have to say that most people want to feel they are getting in return what they are investing in their partner.
However...what seems fair to you may not seem fair to your partner or maybe they feel they are giving it that much.
spock

Totage's photo
Thu 01/26/12 12:04 PM

In A 50/50 love Or IN A 40/60 Or what????????????:banana: :banana:


No, that's not how love works.