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Topic: Drinks on me
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Fri 01/27/12 07:51 PM
Edited by LookinRound on Fri 01/27/12 07:51 PM

If done it with no expectations whatsoever. If she's with friends I'll buy a round for them all just so she doesn't feel too uncomfortable. It is a way of breaking the ice for some people but obviously not for everyone. At least I know who to buy a drink for in here!



drinker next round is on patsfan64!! drinker

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Fri 01/27/12 07:57 PM
ya, I am a rowdy

kinda girl u can always by a drink for

never understood how it could upset someone....there's a lot I don;t get I guesslaugh

yanno it's nice to appreciate when someone tries to do sumpthin nice - even if it's not exactly your cuppa tea jmhowhat

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Fri 01/27/12 08:07 PM

ya, I am a rowdy

kinda girl u can always by a drink for

never understood how it could upset someone....there's a lot I don;t get I guesslaugh

yanno it's nice to appreciate when someone tries to do sumpthin nice - even if it's not exactly your cuppa tea jmhowhat

Just gotta remember to NOT wear your blouse oops .
And since when did you become a 1 bottle rowdy? As I recall it...drinks drinks drool

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Fri 01/27/12 09:11 PM
Edited by mssilverfox on Fri 01/27/12 09:14 PM
Last summer a girl friend were meeting some friends at a sports bar for dinner and drinks.. We went early so we could get a big table and after being seated we ordered drinks.. I drink tequila so I ordered a margarita and it was VERY strong. Had another one after eating and I told my friends not to let me have anymore as I would be dancing on the table and they were laughing at me...:smile: As I was telling my friends this the waitress showed up with drinks(for my friend and I) from a guy sitting at the bar.. My friend told her why we were laughing so hard, she told the guy and he sent another drink and told me to go for it!!laugh laugh

I don't mind accepting a drink from a guy but only if it is served by the waitress or bartender..

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Fri 01/27/12 10:48 PM

What's your thoughts on a man buying a woman a drink?
Is there a hidden message and agenda?

I feel like I missed some code or something. I went out with a few friends tonight and encouraged a buddy to go over and offer to buy this 'lady' a drink. He had been admiring her and I was merely trying to help get him back in the game.

She exploded, ranted and raved. I was mortified.
Of course, he was pretty mortified too.

Is buying someone, or accepting a drink taboo?



Sounds like this girl was bit over the top. I don't think buying or accepting a drink is taboo. I have bought men drinks myself. It was just my way of saying hi.

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Sat 01/28/12 03:29 AM
The tequila worm turns

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Sat 01/28/12 05:32 AM

Yeah, I pretty much didn't hear the end of it especially after my compelling reasoning for doing it....
"what can it hurt?
what's the best that can happen? she'll say yes and you'll have a nice conversation!
what's the worst that can happen? she'll say no thank you and you'll come sit back down with us!"

I didn't quite nail the "worst scenario" apparently. laugh

Hey, you sent him over with a pair..

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Sat 01/28/12 05:51 AM

What's your thoughts on a man buying a woman a drink?
Is there a hidden message and agenda?

I feel like I missed some code or something. I went out with a few friends tonight and encouraged a buddy to go over and offer to buy this 'lady' a drink. He had been admiring her and I was merely trying to help get him back in the game.

She exploded, ranted and raved. I was mortified.
Of course, he was pretty mortified too.

Is buying someone, or accepting a drink taboo?




No, no, NO, it is not taboo....I love it when a man buys me a drink, I take it as a compliment....I always accept and I always reciprocate by sending a drink to him.....She sounds like an idiot, or worse, a biotch...

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Sat 01/28/12 06:58 AM


What's your thoughts on a man buying a woman a drink?
Is there a hidden message and agenda?

I feel like I missed some code or something. I went out with a few friends tonight and encouraged a buddy to go over and offer to buy this 'lady' a drink. He had been admiring her and I was merely trying to help get him back in the game.

She exploded, ranted and raved. I was mortified.
Of course, he was pretty mortified too.

Is buying someone, or accepting a drink taboo?




No, no, NO, it is not taboo....I love it when a man buys me a drink, I take it as a compliment....I always accept and I always reciprocate by sending a drink to him.....She sounds like an idiot, or worse, a biotch...
want a drink young ladybigsmile

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Sat 01/28/12 08:10 AM
We don't have waiters here in bars so as long as I'm at the bar and can see everything it's all good in the hood. It's very easy for a woman to get spiked so we need to have our wits about us. I don't mean to offend anyone but you do have some weirdo's about the town.

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Sat 01/28/12 08:20 AM


We don't have waiters here in bars so as long as I'm at the bar and can see everything it's all good in the hood. It's very easy for a woman to get spiked so we need to have our wits about us. I don't mean to offend anyone but you do have some weirdo's about the town.


True. But I doubt you woulda yelled at the poor man over it.


Oh nooooo course I wouldn't. Id say that woman had a few screws loose :O

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Sat 01/28/12 09:24 AM

We don't have waiters here in bars so as long as I'm at the bar and can see everything it's all good in the hood. It's very easy for a woman to get spiked so we need to have our wits about us. I don't mean to offend anyone but you do have some weirdo's about the town.
im a weirdo but im perfectly safe bigsmile

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Sat 01/28/12 10:01 AM


We don't have waiters here in bars so as long as I'm at the bar and can see everything it's all good in the hood. It's very easy for a woman to get spiked so we need to have our wits about us. I don't mean to offend anyone but you do have some weirdo's about the town.
im a weirdo but im perfectly safe bigsmile

Haha, you wouldn't need to spike me anyways :wink: bigsmile

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Sat 01/28/12 10:02 AM



We don't have waiters here in bars so as long as I'm at the bar and can see everything it's all good in the hood. It's very easy for a woman to get spiked so we need to have our wits about us. I don't mean to offend anyone but you do have some weirdo's about the town.
im a weirdo but im perfectly safe bigsmile

Haha, you wouldn't need to spike me anyways :wink: bigsmile
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhbigsmile

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