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Topic: Most women like gentlemanly manners on dates: Poll
DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Thu 02/09/12 11:10 AM
Sexting, poking and online dating aside, when it comes to romance, women still expect men to hold the door open and pay for the first date, a new Harlequin poll found. Even as the methods become modern, the traditional attitudes remain, the publisher found in an online poll of 1,500 single women aged 18 to 40. More than half the women surveyed (56%) said they feel pressure to be married or in a committed relationship. And while the vast majority agree that the dating game has changed, more than half still expect the man to ask them out (59%), hold the door for them (54%) and pay for the first date (51%). Half the women in the 25-35 age group said they had never tried online dating. Still, technology does play a part: 52% of respondents said they use Facebook to check out prospective dates; 43% admitted to sexting; and 27% said they had e-mailed or texted nude photos. Penn, Schoen & Berland conducted the survey between Jan. 2 and 6. It is accurate to within 2.5 percentage points.

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Thu 02/09/12 11:14 AM
IMO: Gentlemanly manners are a form of romantic, but non-sexual flirting. It's a way of saying "I'm interested in the whole package, not just the lady parts". I can see why women would want that.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:27 AM
Well, it's not as good as having him drag you off to his cave by your hair. But, it'll work.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/09/12 11:30 AM
Sexting, poking and online dating aside, when it comes to romance, women still expect men to hold the door open and pay for the first date, a new Harlequin poll found. Even as the methods become modern, the traditional attitudes remain, the publisher found in an online poll of 1,500 single women aged 18 to 40. More than half the women surveyed (56%) said they feel pressure to be married or in a committed relationship. And while the vast majority agree that the dating game has changed, more than half still expect the man to ask them out (59%), hold the door for them (54%) and pay for the first date (51%). Half the women in the 25-35 age group said they had never tried online dating. Still, technology does play a part: 52% of respondents said they use Facebook to check out prospective dates; 43% admitted to sexting; and 27% said they had e-mailed or texted nude photos. Penn, Schoen & Berland conducted the survey between Jan. 2 and 6. It is accurate to within 2.5 percentage points. ..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm...

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 02/09/12 11:31 AM
My age group didn't even get to participate in the survey... so I'm gonna take my ball and go home.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:34 AM
My age group didn't even get to participate in the survey... so I'm gonna take my ball and go home. Neither did mine. But I insist upon playing anyway.

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Thu 02/09/12 11:35 AM
I am looking for the study, I am pretty sure that was not the only age group. Simply they only mentioned here.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:37 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 02/09/12 11:38 AM
I'm both a gentleman and a scholar. True story, people have told me so.

123tay Joined Tue 02/07/12 Posts: 1	Thu 02/09/12 11:42 AM
Hey just saying hi

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/09/12 11:43 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/09/12 11:44 AM
Hey just saying hi ...hi.

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Thu 02/09/12 11:44 AM
Hey just saying hi Hi welcome to mingle, thank you for choosing my thread for you're 1st post :)

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 02/09/12 11:45 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'. it's not small at all.. expectations and demands usually do destroy a relationship

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Thu 02/09/12 11:48 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'. I may be old fashioned in my thinking but, I think a man should want to do these things for a women.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:48 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'. True. I demand monogamy, affection, respect, the ability to financially support yourself, honesty and non-smoking and that has resulted in my still being single.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 02/09/12 11:49 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'. True. I demand monogamy, affection, respect, the ability to financially support yourself, honesty and non-smoking and that has resulted in my still being single. yea, it's a slippery slope!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:52 AM
I think that it's the small things that make life better. And it's the small things that give me a little insight into someone's character. If a guy lets the door fall shut on me and generally acts like an azz during our date I'm probably gonna assume hes only gonna gt worse as time goes by.

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/09/12 11:54 AM
..lol.. ..and they wonder why they are the single ones? Hmmmm... Which part is the reason they are still single? ..those who demand or at best expect certain things to take place, that don't, ultimately lead one to remain single. Call it minuscule, call it minor, call it small; but demands from one while not meeting said demands of another.. usually results inthe concept of being 'single'. True. I demand monogamy, affection, respect, the ability to financially support yourself, honesty and non-smoking and that has resulted in my still being single. I wasn't meaning for it to be taken offensively, if that's how you took it originally. Just stating my own opinion.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/09/12 11:57 AM
I think we could just as easily turn this around and say that there are certain things a guy would appreciate from a woman on a date. If I showed up in sweats and a baggy t-shirt, cussing like a sailor and asking you why you picked such a crappy restaurant to take me to....you might not want to go out with me again.