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Topic: Do you need him, or do you just want him?
flexxplicit Joined Wed 02/15/12 Posts: 3	Thu 02/16/12 02:10 PM
Are you satisfied?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Thu 02/16/12 02:14 PM
Do you need him, or do you just want him? Are you satisfied? Yes and Yes. And Yesssssssssssssssssssssssssss.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/16/12 02:15 PM
Are you satisfied? Need him for what? Want him for what? Satisfied with what?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 02/16/12 02:19 PM
Not by him

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Thu 02/16/12 02:22 PM
i don't have him.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Thu 02/16/12 02:24 PM
I Don't Have Him Either =/

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/16/12 02:25 PM
I don't want him.. >.>

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Thu 02/16/12 03:40 PM
I don't need him but I would like him.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/16/12 03:56 PM
Both.

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Thu 02/16/12 04:07 PM
need is an addiction addiction is destructive behavior so it is better to be wanted than needed

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 02/16/12 04:11 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge.

adj4u Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 21254	Thu 02/16/12 04:51 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge. yep and if you have a need for someone then it is an addiction to that someone you can always find a loophole if you look hard enough and if you have to go where there is no oxygen then your addiction to it causes you to take it with you thus you o2 tank can become caught on something or run m t then that need for o2 has lead to your demise and yes that is destructive

ShannonMarie21 Joined Thu 02/17/11 Posts: 1169	Thu 02/16/12 05:16 PM
I usually think I need someone when in reality I just want them. And by the time I figure that out, My pride kicks in and I stick it out waiting for the needing them part to kick in. But then it doesn't and I feel bad. Vicious cycle. :)

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 02/16/12 06:02 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge. yep and if you have a need for someone then it is an addiction to that someone you can always find a loophole if you look hard enough and if you have to go where there is no oxygen then your addiction to it causes you to take it with you thus you o2 tank can become caught on something or run m t then that need for o2 has lead to your demise and yes that is destructive I don't have a rebuttal, so I'll just toss in this random Family Guy clip. http://youtu.be/UdI7RJr9ooA Enjoy :P

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 02/16/12 07:27 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge. yep and if you have a need for someone then it is an addiction to that someone you can always find a loophole if you look hard enough and if you have to go where there is no oxygen then your addiction to it causes you to take it with you thus you o2 tank can become caught on something or run m t then that need for o2 has lead to your demise and yes that is destructive

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/16/12 07:30 PM
? So you're addicted to things like oxygen, and that's destructive? An addiction is more of an uncontrolled/unmanaged impulse/urge. yep and if you have a need for someone then it is an addiction to that someone you can always find a loophole if you look hard enough and if you have to go where there is no oxygen then your addiction to it causes you to take it with you thus you o2 tank can become caught on something or run m t then that need for o2 has lead to your demise and yes that is destructive I think you're over thinking this. Everyone needs oxygen. By your logic, that would be saying everyone is an addict.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 02/16/12 07:37 PM
Are you satisfied? I am satisfied with some things - not others so much want or need him? who's him? a man? I would like to have a partner and want & need each other

Sin_and_Sorrow Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 5757	Thu 02/16/12 07:40 PM Edited by Sin_and_Sorrow on Thu 02/16/12 07:41 PM
need is an addiction addiction is destructive behavior so it is better to be wanted than needed Need is a need. Want is a want. Confusion of the two is a constant. Need - cannot live without. Want - can live without. 'Needing' someone means you will, literally, not hypothetically, die without them. As stated above, that is a destructive behavior. 'Wanting' someone means you can 'live' without them; however, you feel incomplete without them. Again, like stated, wanted is better than needed. A stalker, is an obsessive person who 'needs' someone when in reality, that 'need' is just a want. A highly driven addictive want. So, by those standards, we can separate the two. Oxygen. Water. Food. Sleep. These are the basic 'needs' of a human. Anything else, material and in cases otherwise, are all 'wants'.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 02/16/12 08:24 PM
think I did die of need once so this is heaven??? I'll never forgive the bustard

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Thu 02/16/12 08:48 PM
Both, I need him and I want him... And I have him