Topic: What should be?
Shyamz's photo
Sun 03/04/12 08:31 AM
Is being realistic better than being optimistic?

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 03/04/12 08:48 AM
You have to see reality and be optimistic about the outcome.

teadipper's photo
Sun 03/04/12 08:59 AM
I always brace myself for the worst and hope for the best.

no photo
Sun 03/04/12 09:02 AM
I'm an optimistic realist :smile:

jemare's photo
Sun 03/04/12 09:08 AM
Edited by jemare on Sun 03/04/12 09:09 AM
Optimistic is a good thing. But I think being TOO optimistic about something for TOO long, well when reality sets in, that can be quite a fall. So I guess you could say it's good to be realistically optimistic?

JERMANICUS's photo
Sun 03/04/12 09:40 AM
The pessimist says "My life is so horrible there's no way things could be worse." and the optomist says "Yes they can!"

Bravalady's photo
Sun 03/04/12 10:16 AM
I don't understand why you think you have to separate them.

no photo
Sun 03/04/12 02:49 PM

Shyamz's photo
Sun 03/04/12 04:23 PM



happy happy happy bigsmile

Shyamz's photo
Sun 03/04/12 04:25 PM

I don't understand why you think you have to separate them.

may be because iam always adviced to be either one of them. Iam a realistic person myself.

Redykeulous's photo
Sun 03/04/12 04:41 PM


I don't understand why you think you have to separate them.

may be because iam always adviced to be either one of them. Iam a realistic person myself.


Can a realist set goals and not be considered an optimist?

Is it realistic to be persistent in the face of failure?

Is it realistic to admit failure and give up or is it pessimistic?


JERMANICUS's photo
Tue 03/06/12 05:31 PM
I don't feel the need to label myself.

no photo
Wed 03/07/12 06:44 AM
Edited by Bushidobillyclub on Wed 03/07/12 06:44 AM
No need for exclusivity. If the set of things you are hoping for is realistic, then being optimistic in those regards is still realistic.

I'm an optimistic realist smile
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wux's photo
Fri 03/16/12 02:43 AM

I don't feel the need to label myself.


Hm... if I did not label myself, I would never know which end goes in when I first put my pants on in the morning.