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Topic: ex problem
Helen227's photo
Sat 03/10/12 12:19 AM
after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/10/12 12:47 AM
She should call the police immediately and report the threat. That is not something anyone should ever take lightly.

Jill298's photo
Sat 03/10/12 12:56 AM
It would be so tragic if he really went thru with it and people knew he was planning it and did nothing to stop it.

joy4gud's photo
Sat 03/10/12 01:19 AM

after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?

shocked noway pls, she should call the police... b'cos men can be very crazy when it come to things like these..

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/10/12 12:38 PM
She should move to safety immediately and contact the police. This is not a generalized threat but something to take seriously. Call the cops and do not take no for an answer until he is under lock and key and you are no where he can find you.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/10/12 12:46 PM
I agree with the above posters...call the cops!

pyxxie13's photo
Sat 03/10/12 01:35 PM
I agree. This is a red flag.

teadipper's photo
Sat 03/10/12 01:36 PM
I do not feel this is approperiate forum talk. It is violence and up there with suicide.

Kecymaraja's photo
Wed 03/28/12 03:35 PM
Edited by Kecymaraja on Wed 03/28/12 03:36 PM
D authorities shd knw abt ds, cox it involves lyf

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 03/28/12 03:49 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Wed 03/28/12 03:56 PM

I do not feel this is approperiate forum talk. It is violence and up there with suicide.


Unfortuneately people having such threats made against them, or related to them by friends , or seeing them in media is a real life issue and I do not see any thing but an honest exchange of opinions.

Hopefully if this is an actual scenario the oP would take the predominant opinon so far and seek professional help in coping with what has statisticlly proved to be a legitimate danger and is in fact a crime in most states.




krupa's photo
Wed 03/28/12 04:40 PM
I will be the realist....

Law enforcement cannot and will not do anything over a ranom and vague threat.

Get a restraining order then tell all the men in your family...brothers, father, cousins. THOSE are the men who will do something about it.

At least that is how it works in my family. Someone gonna do threaten that schitt to anyone in my family....they are better off calling the cops themselves....cause they would end up gut shot and thrown into a well.

Police can only help AFTER the fact.

no photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:21 PM

after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


Buy a gun and learn how to use it.

Totage's photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:23 PM

after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


Report ex to police and file for OOP.

no photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:37 PM


after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


Report ex to police and file for OOP.


That will do absolutely nothing to protect her. If the guy is going to kill her, he's not going to worry if he's violating an OOP.

She should try to get the OOP to protect herself in court, should she be forced to kill him.

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:37 PM
Love can't be forced. She will need to depend on her new friends.

Totage's photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:42 PM



after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


Report ex to police and file for OOP.


That will do absolutely nothing to protect her. If the guy is going to kill her, he's not going to worry if he's violating an OOP.

She should try to get the OOP to protect herself in court, should she be forced to kill him.

krupa's photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:53 PM
True...

get the restraining order then go gun shopping.

Once the restraining order is in place...then preemptive measures can be considered.

no photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:55 PM




after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


Report ex to police and file for OOP.


That will do absolutely nothing to protect her. If the guy is going to kill her, he's not going to worry if he's violating an OOP.

She should try to get the OOP to protect herself in court, should she be forced to kill him.



If all she get's is an OOP, it offers no protection what so ever. That was the point I was making, sorry if it wasn't clear.

Totage's photo
Wed 03/28/12 05:57 PM
An OOP is just to cover her own a**, in case he carries out his threats.

wux's photo
Wed 03/28/12 07:44 PM

after the seperation,her ex want her back and threatens to acid bath her if she refuse to come back to him.what will she do now that she as found a man who loves and respect her?


I think she is safe.

If she goes back, she won't get the acid bath. As per the promise.

If she does not go back, he has no way of pushing her into a bathtub full of acid. I mean, what is he going to do? Rent a hotel room with a bath tub, order tho hunderd 2-litre bottles of Pepsi, fills the tub, and waits for her to go to that particular hotel room, on that particular night? Why should or would she?

So he can be sued for making a criminally confusing and misleading contract offer. Off with his head!!

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