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Topic: Don't get it???
singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 03/18/12 04:22 PM
I do not understand why a man thinks it's ok for a woman to just come by his house to watch a movie & have some drinks before the two of you have met??? Why do guy's think that this is ok??? ..same time, what's wrong with it? o.O I guess it depends on what you're looking for. Most women are a bit more cautious on a first date and won't go to someone's house. So, the guy invites you over there's three possible scenarios: 1. He wants to boink ya. 2. He's a cheap first date. 3. He felt a connection, and is trusting you to enter his abode before meeting. Yeah, I'd go the negative route, too. Perhaps some of the time, it's #3 and perhaps if it's someone I met from here, that would be cool. But, when meeting someone local that I haven't talked to much? No thanks. Meeting out in public is usually the best route to take.

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Sun 03/18/12 04:27 PM
That was quick What was quick? I found a good woman,good men only want good women and there's your answer to why some women can't find a good man.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sun 03/18/12 04:34 PM
Think I'll watch JAWS tonight. Anyone coming over?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 03/18/12 04:37 PM
So, the guy invites you over there's three possible scenarios: 1. He wants to boink ya. 2. He's a cheap first date. 3. He felt a connection, and is trusting you to enter his abode before meeting. Yeah, I'd go the negative route, too. If you think those are the only three possible scenarios than you would have made a perfect first date for Jeffrey Dahmer.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 03/18/12 04:48 PM
That was quick What was quick? I found a good woman,good men only want good women and there's your answer to why some women can't find a good man. Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 03/18/12 04:54 PM
So, the guy invites you over there's three possible scenarios: 1. He wants to boink ya. 2. He's a cheap first date. 3. He felt a connection, and is trusting you to enter his abode before meeting. Yeah, I'd go the negative route, too. If you think those are the only three possible scenarios than you would have made a perfect first date for Jeffrey Dahmer. you wanna come over and watch a movie? i have candy...

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 03/18/12 04:55 PM
That was quick What was quick? I found a good woman,good men only want good women and there's your answer to why some women can't find a good man. Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women? lol... you sure seem to find the hidden meaning in things...

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Sun 03/18/12 04:59 PM
Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women? Yes,but it has nothing to do with "finding the right one" if you are not a good woman you will not find a good man.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 03/18/12 05:06 PM
Someone give him a........ Bigger Shovel!!! He can dig his hole faster that way!!!!!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 03/18/12 05:14 PM
Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women? Yes,but it has nothing to do with "finding the right one" if you are not a good woman you will not find a good man. What's a "good woman?" What's a "good man?"

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 03/18/12 05:22 PM
Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women? Yes,but it has nothing to do with "finding the right one" if you are not a good woman you will not find a good man. What's a "good woman?" What's a "good man?" i'm a good man... you can use that for a starting reference. a good woman would be sandra bullock.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Sun 03/18/12 05:23 PM
Think I'll watch JAWS tonight. Anyone coming over? will there be Wine.....or Beer with that??

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Sun 03/18/12 05:31 PM
So, the guy invites you over there's three possible scenarios: 1. He wants to boink ya. 2. He's a cheap first date. 3. He felt a connection, and is trusting you to enter his abode before meeting. Yeah, I'd go the negative route, too. If you think those are the only three possible scenarios than you would have made a perfect first date for Jeffrey Dahmer. I'm less cautious now to say that serial killers came to my mind as well.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 03/18/12 05:31 PM
I do not understand why a man thinks it's ok for a woman to just come by his house to watch a movie & have some drinks before the two of you have met??? Why do guy's think that this is ok??? lolllllllll yes your right dam i think you rather watch UFC The Ultimate Fighting Championship don't the guys know that haha joking aside well some guys just don't think i guess my friend and then again some gals want to invite guys over too i say what dam on a first date are you crazy sure i will lollllllllllll kiddng again but maybe the guy thinks you want him that way lolllll but myself i get to know a lady first :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 03/18/12 05:58 PM
Because some women haven't found the right person yet, it's because they're not good women? Yes,but it has nothing to do with "finding the right one" if you are not a good woman you will not find a good man. What's a "good woman?" What's a "good man?" i'm a good man... you can use that for a starting reference. a good woman would be sandra bullock. That tells me nothing.

GP_FLASH Joined Thu 03/15/12 Posts: 2	Sun 03/18/12 09:17 PM
after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free... it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 03/18/12 09:28 PM
after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free... it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board. You've been here for three days and have posted twice, yet have it all figured out huh? You sound a little angry and bitter. Why take it out on people here?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Fri 03/23/12 01:08 AM
after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free... it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board. You've been here for three days and have posted twice, yet have it all figured out huh? You sound a little angry and bitter. Why take it out on people here? yes bitter and too good!!!! Ive been on here since 2006 & I have had some great laughs on here and made some great friends as well! Life is an adventure ...... go explore!!! Maybe you'll like it better

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Fri 03/23/12 02:39 AM
after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free... it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board. Deactivated.............. DARN!

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Fri 03/23/12 05:56 AM
after reading more and more of the topics in all the forums on this site the more I see this site for what it is.. a total joke. I see people with serious trust issues, others that have no clue what they want or who they are, and a good amount of players and bull shiters on this site. a friend asked me to check it out because I used to own and run a chat server on mirc years ago and have experience with chat and forums.. this site is pathetic like most others. paid for or free... it seems to me to be not much more then a sounding board. Deactivated.............. DARN! go figure!!!!