Some time some person don't get the amount of satisfaction from his/her spouse OR some time a person is bisexual and seeks relationship with other male/female i.e from same or other gender. How to view this type of relationship - immoral or natural? I think if he/she is naturally bisexual there is nothing wrong in seeking relationship with his own gender in excess of his/her marital one. Even when the person is not satisfied at all with the married partner, the extra marital relationship with other gender is also natural. How mingle2 friends view this?

When you marry you are supposed to forsake all others.


Very immoral...to extramarital relationships. Cheating is cheating.

Exactly!!

I met a guy on a singles website. I dated him for 10 months, fell in love with him and then found out he was married. Talk about devastating. It's hard to date again after that. People should stop being such liars, keep the commitments that they make and stop dragging others into their BS.

A cheater is a cheater, men fall in love with men as easily as they do with woman. So how is it fair for a wife to lose her husband because he falls in love with someone else, regardless of gender?

I understand the bisexual side of things. You're mind is so conflicted as to which gender you want. It constantly switches. This is very tough for bi people as they just want to be in a normal relationship like everyone else. If you're unhappy in you're current relationship why noy just end it? Or are you too worried your ego may get slightly dented if you leave him/her? How would YOU feel if it was done to YOU? I just don't think it's fair to lead someone along if you're not satisfied anymore. Easier just to let them go. No?

Not that I would condone this, but their are couples out there who make the "open relationship" thing work. I don't feel this is some sort of new revelation happening. It's just that, nowadays, people are more accepting of things that used to be so taboo. So, to me, you make a choice. If this is the kind of relationship you want, and you don't mind seeing your gal getting boinked by some other guy (or women seeing their man giving some other woman the justice) then by all means....knock yourself out.

I don't necessarily believe in marriage but I do believe that if someone goes as far as to make that kind (or any form of) commitment to another person then it should be honoured and both parties remain faithful.

If that isn't possible, then the unfaithful person should have the guts to dissolve the relationship making the ending as painless/drama free as possible.

Cheating is cheating regardless of orientation and/or marital status.