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Topic: Dating a Co-Worker
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Fri 08/03/12 02:02 PM

My Dad would say- don't **** where you eat.


Exactly what I was going to say!


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Fri 08/03/12 02:10 PM

What are your thoughts on dating co-workers?


I never have and never will. Unless we we're already a couple before working together. You see people trying to get together at office parties at christmas, and it's just pointless, because they don't really want it. I seen such an example on a tv show, and it turned out no different. So why even set people up in the first place? Pointless.

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Sun 08/05/12 05:16 PM
Hell to the NO! I did that. We worked in the same building but different offices. She became to attached and wanted me to stop talking to my female FRIENDS, go to lunch with her and her only and even take our breaks together. A few other things that I won't mention. Can you say Fatal Attraction? I caught hell for 6 months until her supervisor found out what she was doing and fired her. I transfered and relocated accross the state just to get away from this crazy derranged woman.

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Sun 08/05/12 05:22 PM
Edited by wux on Sun 08/05/12 05:26 PM

What are your thoughts on dating co-workers?

Im talking to this one girl now, she works on a different floor. I do see that we have chemistry.


The only way it can be good if you are both serious and sincere about each other. Given that, then go wild with an eye on eventually marrying her, and making that understanding part of the understanding.

By the by, the understanding and the different floors remind me: Why do women stay UNDER the glass ceiling, and men OVER the glass ceiling?

Because if it were the other way around, all men would get neck-cramps every day at work. And that would be a problem. Not because the men would complain, no, they would not, about this, not in a million years. But productivity would be shot. You can't add columns of numbers in books flat on the desk in front of you, when you are constantly craning your neck to hold your head always to face heavenward.

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Sun 08/05/12 08:43 PM
I KNOW I'M LATE BUT... I KINDA DID IT AT FIRST IT WAS FUN AND LOVE ALL MIXED TOGETHER... BUT THEN ITS HARD TO BE PROFESSIONAL WHEN YOUR IN A ROMANTIC AND INTAMATE RELATIONSHIP... LONG STORY SHORT RULES WERE BENT, HEARTS WERE BROKEN AND MY PERSONAL BUSINESS WAS THE TOPIC ON EVERYONES CONVERSATION... ONE OUT OF TEN ON JOB RELATIONSHIP WORKS AND YOU MIGHT NOT BE THAT ONE. IF YOUR MEANT TO BE TOGETHER FAITH WILL MAKE YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE PERFECT WHERE YOU DONT HAVE TO risk your job or your reputation

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Sun 08/05/12 09:55 PM
I did it once or twice and it didn't interfere with work. Two couples I know met and married and continued to work in the same building with no problems. But in some circumstances, it might get a bit messy, especially if one is a superior to the other.

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Sat 08/11/12 01:05 PM


What are your thoughts on dating co-workers?

Im talking to this one girl now, she works on a different floor. I do see that we have chemistry.

Been there. Done that. Was a mistake.

If you date a co-worker, then what happens when the two of you have a fight?

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