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Topic: How many times can you fall in love?
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 05:42 PM
Can I marry simone and ruth? I don't mind being a bigamist!

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 05:42 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 08/22/12 05:45 PM
i will let you know once i've come to the last time :)

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 08/22/12 05:46 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Yeah. What she said.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 05:46 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 08/22/12 05:47 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. No, it's not the same thing. Giving up means you close yourself off to the possibility of a serious relationship. Not caring means you're still open but you don't care anymore if it comes along or not. I'm in the not caring category with you. I've seen people who have given up and I decided I don't want to be like that. oh Good I even had my self confused I will say this Ruth ,if you closed yourself off you would break a lot of mens hearts.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 08/22/12 05:47 PM
Can I marry simone and ruth? I don't mind being a bigamist! I'm sure YOU don't. But, we do.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 05:48 PM
Can I marry simone and ruth? I don't mind being a bigamist! Im utterly flattered, but bigamy...come on, the 70's are over....

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 05:50 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is. See that right there "I just recognize that is the way it is" is a statement that is filled with doubt, so it falls into the "given up" category.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 08/22/12 05:50 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. That makes sense. I think you are right. If the right person came along no doubt I would be a happy camper, but in the meantime I just go with the flow so to speak and enjoy not worrying about it anymore.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 08/22/12 05:50 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. No, it's not the same thing. Giving up means you close yourself off to the possibility of a serious relationship. Not caring means you're still open but you don't care anymore if it comes along or not. I'm in the not caring category with you. I've seen people who have given up and I decided I don't want to be like that. oh Good I even had my self confused I will say this Ruth ,if you closed yourself off you would break a lot of mens hearts. Oh you mean that line of guys waiting to ask me out? Yeah, I checked with them. Turns out they thought the line was for free beer.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 05:51 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is. See that right there "I just recognize that is the way it is" is a statement that is filled with doubt, so it falls into the "given up" category. Elucidate how it is filled with doubt please? I think it is logical...

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Wed 08/22/12 05:56 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. No, it's not the same thing. Giving up means you close yourself off to the possibility of a serious relationship. Not caring means you're still open but you don't care anymore if it comes along or not. I'm in the not caring category with you. I've seen people who have given up and I decided I don't want to be like that. oh Good I even had my self confused I will say this Ruth ,if you closed yourself off you would break a lot of mens hearts. Oh you mean that line of guys waiting to ask me out? Yeah, I checked with them. Turns out they thought the line was for free beer. Well at least they were in line for something

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 07:31 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is. See that right there "I just recognize that is the way it is" is a statement that is filled with doubt, so it falls into the "given up" category. Elucidate how it is filled with doubt please? I think it is logical... "Is the way it is" is a statement that things can not change, if you added, "at least for now" or "for the time being, anyway" that reflects hope. but saying, "is the way it is" (period) indicates no sense of change. Without change lies doubt.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 08/22/12 07:46 PM
How any times can I fall in love? That's easy...how many times can I hammer out the bottom of my date? It is always love. :)

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 08/22/12 08:52 PM
free beer? where?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 09:58 PM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is. See that right there "I just recognize that is the way it is" is a statement that is filled with doubt, so it falls into the "given up" category. Elucidate how it is filled with doubt please? I think it is logical... "Is the way it is" is a statement that things can not change, if you added, "at least for now" or "for the time being, anyway" that reflects hope. but saying, "is the way it is" (period) indicates no sense of change. Without change lies doubt. I don't see how you get that. I doubt there will be free beer though.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 10:22 PM
I concur

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 10:32 PM
Hey, I just got double barreled shotgun turned down. I've sunk to a new low.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Wed 08/22/12 10:34 PM Edited by Simonedemidova on Wed 08/22/12 10:36 PM
Hey, I just got double barreled shotgun turned down. I've sunk to a new low. Hey, this isn't the anonymous thread what are you talking about? Oh never mind, I'm a monogamous Woman!