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Topic: How many times can you fall in love?
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 10:37 PM
You and ruth both turned me down, denied me the office of bigamy! The horror of it all, I am now scarred for life.

Mended1 Joined Thu 02/12/09 Posts: 270	Thu 08/23/12 11:36 AM
this thing called love..

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/23/12 11:50 AM
You and ruth both turned me down, denied me the office of bigamy! The horror of it all, I am now scarred for life. I think you'll find most women prefer monogamy. But, ya never know.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Thu 08/23/12 12:28 PM
I change my answer, it's 27.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/23/12 12:38 PM
I change my answer, it's 27. You can't change your answer.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 08/23/12 12:45 PM
Silly woman...of course he can change his answer.... It is a man's perogative. (Bet Gloria Steinem never saw THAT coming)

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Thu 08/23/12 08:47 PM
Until your heart crumbles love is always a possibility. ...never give up.

Myfiancy Joined Thu 08/23/12 Posts: 1	Thu 08/23/12 10:56 PM
7times

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 08/24/12 07:32 AM
This answer will be different for everyone won't it? I don't know. I know who I've felt more in love with, and know which ones I just didn't feel it much with at all. For me, the teen boyfriend I had in my teens was the norm. He was always patient, he listened to my problems, was a sweetheart. I've recently been in touch with him again, because he probably was too much to lose. Saying that, he was the one wanting us to talk again. I find peace in that. A done deal of the past. He is definitely something. I'm just glad to have him in my personal life again. He is a quality that can hardly be found these days. He is old-fashioned, but a goodie :) I don't know how many times you can TRULY fall in love, I just know it has to be very mutual.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/24/12 09:19 AM
Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. I think there may be truth to that. I am a prime example.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/24/12 09:24 AM
I wonder, is not caring anymore the same as giving up? Its been a very long time since I loved somebody so I am not sure I even know the difference anymore. Giving up is not the same, giving up is having doubt and bitterness. Not caring is letting your heart be free and not under pressure. You are open to what may come when you dont care. When you give up you find reasons to doubt. Wait, I've given up and I have no doubt or bitterness. I just recognize that is the way it is. See that right there "I just recognize that is the way it is" is a statement that is filled with doubt, so it falls into the "given up" category. Elucidate how it is filled with doubt please? I think it is logical... Wow, get out of my head you mind reader. This is how I look at it too; that its very logical.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 08/24/12 09:27 AM
Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. I think there may be truth to that. I am a prime example. Sometimes you wonder what a heart is...I think I have a virtual heart, it can't be real....sometimes I can't feel it or understand it.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/24/12 04:21 PM
Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. I think there may be truth to that. I am a prime example. Sometimes you wonder what a heart is...I think I have a virtual heart, it can't be real....sometimes I can't feel it or understand it. Well, the heart really has nothing to do with love or your emotions; its more symbolism as feelings come from the brain; so in essence it is a virtual heart. I can get where you are coming from as at times I feel totally numb; can't feel anything whether its love, sadness, anger, etc. I can't explain why I feel that way at times but I do. I can watch tragedies in the news and feel nothing. You mentioned Psychics earlier. Mine told me I would never find true love and that I would die alone. I already had suspected that but he confirmed that. Oh well; gotta keep living and enjoying life for what it is which is all anyone of us can do.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 08/24/12 04:36 PM
The ONLY limit on how many wives and or girl friends seems to be..... at one time...... so if I go one at a time...... I see No limit. But.... What is......Love????

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Fri 08/24/12 05:03 PM
Maybe some people never fall into true love. A psychic told me this once. I think there may be truth to that. I am a prime example. Sometimes you wonder what a heart is...I think I have a virtual heart, it can't be real....sometimes I can't feel it or understand it. Well, the heart really has nothing to do with love or your emotions; its more symbolism as feelings come from the brain; so in essence it is a virtual heart. I can get where you are coming from as at times I feel totally numb; can't feel anything whether its love, sadness, anger, etc. I can't explain why I feel that way at times but I do. I can watch tragedies in the news and feel nothing. You mentioned Psychics earlier. Mine told me I would never find true love and that I would die alone. I already had suspected that but he confirmed that. Oh well; gotta keep living and enjoying life for what it is which is all anyone of us can do. Wow, yeah one told me, you will be financially secure and set for life but you will never find true love. Sometimes I wonder......I never give up but I guess I will die trying.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sat 08/25/12 05:20 AM
You can fall in love a unlimited number of times. There's different kinds of love. People can come into your life for different reasons, and you can love them all if you want.