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Topic: A friend in need is friend indeed!
navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 09/22/12 12:07 AM
do A selfish man/woman will remain friend (?) so long there is chance of material gain. (In my opinion) I have selfish friends and they don't ask anything from me unless you think asking someone to talk to you is considered material gain. In general selfish means what I think who bothers only about himself/herself (I am not telling that he/she is bad or somethìng like that). Once he/she has to suffer loss, definitely he/she will forget of friendshìp. (As per me) I don't think your friends are selfish rather a well wisher of you. Good luck for you & your friends. :drinks I guess I worded that wrong. I do indeed have selfish friends but I give them the benifit of the doubt. People don't wake up one day and become selfish; they have gone through something bad. I am considered selfish because I didn't have kids or get married but ironically its the religous types that say I am selfish. I do put my needs first and if that makes me selfish so be it. I do charity drives; volunteer work with kids; do sand bagging, built houses for those destroyed in a hurricane; tell people at Christmas to give money to the poor rather than buy me a gift; and keep an open door/ear to anyone that needs it; but some still say I am selfish; however they don't know I do these things. So; I don't judge anyone that others think are selfish as there are things people just don't know about them. If what you told that is truth, I salute you from my heart. Some people help others for getting fame; others do it for doing something good. Both are O.K but 2nd catagory is a little bit more creditable.(As per me) A selfish (?) like you is far better than a so called civilised/intelligent(idiot) person. I wish I were also selfish like you! Aww, you are too kind.

Kimchee12 Joined Sat 05/26/12 Posts: 59	Fri 09/28/12 12:55 AM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so

Kimchee12 Joined Sat 05/26/12 Posts: 59	Fri 09/28/12 12:56 AM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so

Kimchee12 Joined Sat 05/26/12 Posts: 59	Fri 09/28/12 12:58 AM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so

Kimchee12 Joined Sat 05/26/12 Posts: 59	Fri 09/28/12 01:00 AM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 09/28/12 01:52 PM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so This is so true especially with me.

plumbermark Joined Mon 08/06/12 Posts: 18	Fri 09/28/12 02:02 PM
I just moved here in spring, by myself. Friends or even someone to hang out with is impossible so far...pretty lonley weekends and after work...so keep your friends close and be considerate that you have them

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 09/28/12 02:20 PM
I just moved here in spring, by myself. Friends or even someone to hang out with is impossible so far...pretty lonley weekends and after work...so keep your friends close and be considerate that you have them I am not only considerate of my friends but I treasure them.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 09/28/12 03:32 PM
For me, friends are imp0rtant than having a boyfriend...friendship wil last,but relati0nshp ? I dnt think so This is so true especially with me. It sooooo close to apply to me truly, too... except for me, even friendships don't last.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 09/28/12 03:35 PM
I just moved here in spring, by myself. Friends or even someone to hang out with is impossible so far...pretty lonley weekends and after work...so keep your friends close and be considerate that you have them I moved here three years ago. It is impossible to find friends in here, too. Lonely all day and all of the night, but that is okay with me coz I moved away because I could no longer tolerate my circle of friends -- nor could they tolerate me. I consider myself very lucky that I have no friends. This is indeed one of the true blessings in life.