Topic: Change
Totage's photo
Tue 09/11/12 09:26 PM

navygirl's photo
Tue 09/11/12 10:08 PM
I never try to change anyone as I don't want to be changed. Simple rule; treat others the way you want to be treated.

pyxxie13's photo
Tue 09/11/12 10:26 PM
Good one totage.

styk's photo
Tue 09/11/12 11:03 PM

I never try to change anyone as I don't want to be changed. Simple rule; treat others the way you want to be treated.
words to live by

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Wed 09/12/12 06:41 AM
there is only one person one can control or change and that is themself

it's' my mantra

krupa's photo
Wed 09/12/12 07:46 AM
I am changing myself. I am doing it cause I want my relationship to succeed.

"It's not always rainbows and butterflies ....it's compromise that moves us along "
Maroon 5: She will be loved.

Hikerjohn's photo
Wed 09/12/12 08:35 AM
Awesome.

I don't believe you can change other peope either. I have changed a ton since my marrage fell apart. But not before i got over myself. Then I could allow myself to grow and change. But growth and change didn't happen until I wanted it and chose it.

So I guess I would say if I am looking for this in a partner then I am looking for someone who is also over themselves and wanting to grow and change also. Not that I am changing them or even telling them how to change but the evidence that they are growing as a person is the draw.

I have met so many people who are still wallowing in ........ It. What ever their it is. I guess if I was still wallowing, I could find comparability with someone also wallowing. I would be incomparable with a wallower now.

Thanks for the morning think time.

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 09/12/12 12:19 PM
A good friend once said to me that his exwife had spent years changing him, then told him he wasn't the man she married.
:smile:



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Wed 09/12/12 12:28 PM

I am changing myself. I am doing it cause I want my relationship to succeed.

"It's not always rainbows and butterflies ....it's compromise that moves us along "
Maroon 5: She will be loved.
:thumbsup: happiness always artmanwaving

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Wed 09/12/12 12:36 PM
anyone who knows me
should learn to know me again
for i am like the moon
you will see me with new face everyday
~Rumi

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Wed 09/12/12 12:39 PM
I am like a potato

well rooted with bristly topshappy :tongue:

newarkjw's photo
Wed 09/12/12 01:08 PM

I am like a potato



Your better baked or fried?........smokin

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Wed 09/12/12 03:08 PM


I am like a potato



Your better baked or fried?........smokin


baked and buttery

NO sour cream!!!!!flowerforyou