Nothing goes on here. Everyone who has a prifile hasnt been back in a month. What do you think Maybe its just me. But i signed up as a premium member a couple days later, I just gave my money away cause i have no more extras then i did before

No; its not just you but these things take time. You have only been on here for 11 days; you can't expect miracles. Come out to the forums and chat with us. You never know what will happen. Welcome to Mingles.

Well, you haven't been here long. And I see you only have one post. So, put a little effort into the site and you'll get more out of it. Check out the forums a bit more, other than just this post, and you'll see that more goes on here than you think.

At first I was just like you then I started to get in the forums and get to know a few ppl, I have met some of my best friends on this site. Once you find the right group you will be HOOKED! But most of all just have some fun and relax

It is not very pertinent when someone was last here.
If you Emailed, Nudged them, made a Friend Request,
or selected them as a Favorite, they would be
notified immediately.

Some wait for that notification to return and reply,
if they have interest.

The Premium package also gets you top spot on the
Search engines, lookers have to pass you first,
to see others.

As for boring, it might seem so to anyone who does
not use the forums for the tool they represent.
Gals want to get to know you, before engaging you.
Just like everyday life.
On the outside :-)

Best advice is, enjoin the forums, those are
the active members, some visit daily.
There have been many hook-ups here on Mingle2.

Lastly, you're a guy, make the first move :-)

You all are probally right, Thanks