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Tono700 Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 40	Fri 11/23/12 12:25 PM
do distance relationships work because this issue keeps worrying me all the time when i think of them.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Fri 11/23/12 12:30 PM
Sometimes! Depends on the two people involved and how much they want the relationship to work.

styk Joined Sat 11/26/11 Posts: 348	Fri 11/23/12 02:27 PM
usual it does not work, sorry to give you the bad news.

manjossy2005 Joined Sun 08/22/10 Posts: 1	Fri 11/23/12 03:00 PM
i will like to meet you and chat with .also let give a chance to know each other better

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Fri 11/23/12 03:06 PM
There are many people on here that have met and it did work for them. I myself will not do the long distance relationship, it is way to hard for me. I have done it before and it does not work for me. I think you have to put everything into it and if both doesn't do that, then forget it. Plus if trust is ever an issue...it will never work!!! Good Luck!!!

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Fri 11/23/12 03:12 PM
I think it depends on the committment and flexibility of the people involved in the relationship. If they are willing to take vacations, employment, or schooling somewhere on a temporary basis to see if they can make a long distance relationship move from epals to real life relationship I think it can work but those are pretty big "if's".

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Fri 11/23/12 03:18 PM
it all depends on the two involved... just keep the trust goin dont have green eyes... and make it "WOW" when you are together!!!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 11/23/12 05:52 PM
Yes, if one person is willing to eventually relocate. Here is, in my opinion, the most important (and difficult) part of an LDR. Take it slow. Very slow. This can be difficult when you are traveling across the country (or world) to meet someone. But if you can relax and enjoy the natural progression of the relationship in spite of long periods apart, it could work.

Ras427 Joined Wed 08/08/12 Posts: 1516	Fri 11/23/12 06:04 PM
No, a true relationship will require a bond as a foundation that can only happen threw being together, once that foundation is firmly inplaced, then long distance can work, however only temporaly. There is no need for starting a long distance relationship.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 11/23/12 07:27 PM
No, a true relationship will require a bond as a foundation that can only happen threw being together, once that foundation is firmly inplaced, then long distance can work, however only temporaly. There is no need for starting a long distance relationship. Then how do you explain the successful long distance relationships that have been started and been maintained here?

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Fri 11/23/12 08:59 PM
No, a true relationship will require a bond as a foundation that can only happen threw being together, once that foundation is firmly inplaced, then long distance can work, however only temporaly. There is no need for starting a long distance relationship. Five years in a long distance relationship, and together for good now!

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 11/24/12 12:15 AM
do distance relationships work because this issue keeps worrying me all the time when i think of them. Why does it worry you? For me, anything long-distance means anywhere not in my country.