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Topic: Living w/bf hes still on dating sites
willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sun 01/06/13 02:12 PM
Simple solution really..... Kick his *** to the curb! You deserve better than what he's dishing out!!! I didn't read this post. I've seen a couple of yours and I like you lots, young Lady. Here's hoping your life is great!

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Tue 01/08/13 06:41 PM
This is a dating website, what are YOU doing here? That was explained earlier. Keep up! I understand, apparently you don't. Her being on a dating site complaining about her live in BF being on a dating site makes her a hypocrite. She should talk to her close friends and family, not strangers on the net.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 01/09/13 08:17 AM
This is a dating website, what are YOU doing here? That was explained earlier. Keep up! I understand, apparently you don't. Her being on a dating site complaining about her live in BF being on a dating site makes her a hypocrite. She should talk to her close friends and family, not strangers on the net. Honestly I could give a rats azz. I WAS JOKING. Jesus, some people need to lighten up.

liz_fath_love Joined Tue 01/22/13 Posts: 17	Tue 01/22/13 12:28 PM
this story sounds familiar, it happens, i was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years, we lived together, while we were living together he was online, and sending text messages, i would never have thought anything about it, but he'd hide his phone..i loved this man, at the time he didn't have a job so i was paying for everything, when i found out what he was doing, i made him leave, we seperated, i gave him a second chance.. i find out that he is on alot of sites as well, we met on another side, i stayed there because i have friends there, i was willing to leave it, but he was not.. i feel if your in a relationship you shouldn't be on a site because if you've know the friends for a long time you can send emails or talk on a phone, and you would know it, not hide it. listen to your heart.. i'm sorry you've been hurt, i don't know you, but i know the pain, God Bless

Bigblackxxx Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 184	Tue 01/22/13 03:47 PM
You simply have to be realistic! If he regards you as fulfilling his needs as a woman, I wouldn't see any reason why he'll be on a dating site. He simply is on the search for something more than you're offering him now!

Peatrohot Joined Tue 01/22/13 Posts: 2	Wed 01/23/13 08:37 AM
To much crap advice! There is but one logical response to him it is leave. If as he claims he is on here to give is x something to look at???? What he is really saying is he is far from over his ex and is still perusing her. At the very least he is un able to let go. Either way get out. Peatro

simpleAini Joined Tue 01/22/13 Posts: 29	Wed 01/23/13 01:59 PM
yeah some are here just to socialize but in ur bf's case hes here to flirt...to be in more than one dating site hell who would buy his alibi?

rick056 Joined Thu 11/01/12 Posts: 10	Mon 02/04/13 03:26 PM
Good girl took the words out of my mouth Lets get married

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Mon 02/04/13 04:48 PM
He's shopping for something better. And...He needs backup in case the relationship falls apart. My ex was the same way - was chatting w/women on various dating sites. Never took them down, even after our relationship got serious. Obviously, this is his way of saying 'I don't respect you.' Do yourself a favor, find someone who is on the same wavelength and will respect you. You don't need that ****.

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Mon 02/04/13 04:54 PM
this story sounds familiar, it happens, i was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years, we lived together, while we were living together he was online, and sending text messages, i would never have thought anything about it, but he'd hide his phone..i loved this man, at the time he didn't have a job so i was paying for everything, when i found out what he was doing, i made him leave, we seperated, i gave him a second chance.. i find out that he is on alot of sites as well, we met on another side, i stayed there because i have friends there, i was willing to leave it, but he was not.. i feel if your in a relationship you shouldn't be on a site because if you've know the friends for a long time you can send emails or talk on a phone, and you would know it, not hide it. listen to your heart.. i'm sorry you've been hurt, i don't know you, but i know the pain, God Bless Women and our 'dreams.' Men and their 'ways.' What do you expect from lying dogs? Not much...