Topic: The PERFECT someone?
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Tue 01/08/13 06:49 AM
Edited by tazzops on Tue 01/08/13 06:53 AM

:laughing: (((Tazz))) flowerforyou

It's true though. bigsmile

I just sent this to a person that loves Doctor Seuss. She just started a relationship.
So this kind of stuck a note with me. So thanks Ruth. flowerforyou






navygirl's photo
Tue 01/08/13 09:58 AM




The perfect person would be one that respects me as an equal but I realize that will never happen while I am alive. laugh
Why are you not anyones equal? Tell dr Bill. lol.


I think I am an equal Dr. Bill but men here don't think women should be treated that way. Its more like a dictatorship rather than an equal partnership.


This is utter nonsense. Speaking for myself, I demand a woman be my equal before I get involved with her. She must be self supporting and independent. She must have her act together and a plan for her retirement. She must live within her means and have money in the bank.

It's been my experience that women want a relationship ASAP. They want to move into my place so I'll pay all the bills and she can quit her crummy job, stay home, watch TV and get fat. Then refuse to clean up after herself or cook for me because she's "not a slave."

Well, I'm not Capt. Sav-a-ho! This is the 21st century and women are equal in every way. So ladies, get it together.

As for my answer to the question:

I'd like to meet a fun, interesting, sophisticated, woman that takes care of herself and takes pride in her appearance. A woman that's assertive, yet still maintains her femininity. She should have a good outlook on life and have any bad habits under control. Someone that's NOT a right wing wacko or a convicted felon. But, a true alpha female that doesn't complain about the hand she's been dealt or the choices she's made in her life.


Perhaps you misunderstood but what I mean by here; is here in Calgary. I am in Redneck territory and men don't like women that can take care of themselves. They want the needy type; the type that are the little princess. I have never had any man pay my bills, take care of me, and especially not protect me. I can do all that for myself but the guys I meet seem to think its their responsibility.

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Wed 01/09/13 09:01 AM
i like to put women on a pedistal. Just high enough so i can look up her dress. lol. - steve martin.

Precious-Man's photo
Wed 01/09/13 07:38 PM
Hmmmm! A lady who has got the heart to love me....

amaria90's photo
Fri 01/11/13 06:36 AM
Financially stable cause I’m not… Not yet anyway (but I will be one day)
Physically Fit… cause I like to jump on him and not make him fall
Into Music and Not Shy about Dancing… cause music’s my passion
Traveler… cause when I get my car fixed I’m on the road for whatever suits my fancy

Ultimately, He has to believe in Jesus Christ My Lord and Savior and is Passionate and Serious about that… Cause the above things don’t really matter if when we leave this earth we won’t be with each other again.

LovelyCourtney's photo
Tue 01/22/13 11:16 AM
I think I MAY have found my "perfect" person, but... he has a kid.

amaria90's photo
Tue 01/22/13 11:21 AM

I think I MAY have found my "perfect" person, but... he has a kid.


I myself am a single parent and you should love him all the more for being a dedicated father, there's too many out there that ain't... Good Luck and I hope you find what you looking for one day. God Bless...

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 01/22/13 01:26 PM

I think I MAY have found my "perfect" person, but... he has a kid.


huh Since when is a man flawed because he is someone's father?

navygirl's photo
Tue 01/22/13 06:10 PM


I think I MAY have found my "perfect" person, but... he has a kid.


huh Since when is a man flawed because he is someone's father?


Maybe she just doesn't want to become a step mom to the kid but I agree that doesn't make the man flawed.

no photo
Tue 01/22/13 08:19 PM
No one is perfect, only God, you guys have a great night :)

amaria90's photo
Thu 01/24/13 12:45 PM
Edited by amaria90 on Thu 01/24/13 12:48 PM
My mythical PERFECT person wouldn’t mind sending me Rainbow OR Tie Dye Roses Like these:


Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/24/13 01:01 PM
Tall, handsome, romantic, rich Retired Military Man.smitten

Givemyheart2U's photo
Thu 01/24/13 01:13 PM
Mr. Perfect: Honest, attractive, has tattoos, has a motorcycle, knows about cars, likes the outdoors, is spontaneous, loves cats and dogs, is slightly on the eccentric side but not mental ;), is confident but not cocky, is family oriented, likes to travel, enjoys being a big kid, a little rough around the edges, but a good heart! laugh laugh laugh noway

amaria90's photo
Sun 01/27/13 09:22 AM
This song Reminds me of Mr. Perfect

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navygirl's photo
Sun 01/27/13 09:24 AM
I don't have any expectations of any man other than to treat me as an equal. To me, that would be perfect but I have better chance of winning the lottery than meeting a man like that. laugh

burgundybry's photo
Sun 01/27/13 09:38 AM
Perfection as far as we go, doesn't exist. Part of a loving human relationship, is for the allowance to be who we are, and the acceptance of that....dings and dents included with the package.:wink:

Traumer's photo
Sun 01/27/13 10:12 AM
Edited by Traumer on Sun 01/27/13 10:25 AM
he he. Thanks. My friends seem to think I am a catch because not only am I self sufficient financially; but I can do home renos, cook, and auto mechanics; as well as giving a guy his "me" time. I am also handy with a weapon and a good driver as I drove on the autobahn in Germany. LOL Guess; I am a bit too much for the average guy.



Strange are the self-worth perceptions of women,(in general) here in North America. Women in Western Europe have a very different, almost a 'happy-go-lucky' attitude of a very positive self worth. While women are equal, both by law and custom, women are still regarded by most males as 'very special' in the sense of the differences of their physiognomy. They and only they are able to bear children; they are indispensable to Life;(one reason for the reluctance to allow females any direct combat roles in any of our armed forces), always have been. But perhaps that perception is also class based...after all what lower classes remain are not known for their high regard for females...not to even mention how in Eastern Europe they are still regarded as chattel; junk to sell and get money from...
What about your equality from your own military people? Don't your male counter-parts accept you as fully equal and/or as way above average for the party-animal types???
(You do not resemble the notorious caricature of 'Ilsa, the She-Wolf of the SS", and what male in their RIGHT mind would want that type anyway for a life long partner...Just imagine all the time to spend polishing he boots just for a few lashes of her whip...Yuk!:laughing:

msharmony's photo
Sun 01/27/13 10:21 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 01/27/13 10:22 AM
PERFECT (for me)


god fearing

betweeb 5 10 and 6 6

financially secure

emotionally stable

chivalrous
strong
considerate
responsible
witty
optimistic
musically gifted in some way
loves movies
loves travel

not a workaholic or gun lover

NOT outdoorsy or at the gym more than twice a week

confident in their manhood enough to cry or laugh (but hopefully not cry OFTEN..lol)

a problem solver, isntead of a moper/whiner/victim

as good at listening as they are at talking


and family oriented

Traumer's photo
Sun 01/27/13 10:28 AM

i like to put women on a pedistal. Just high enough so i can look up her dress. lol. - steve martin.




rofl

navygirl's photo
Sun 01/27/13 03:17 PM
Edited by navygirl on Sun 01/27/13 03:17 PM

he he. Thanks. My friends seem to think I am a catch because not only am I self sufficient financially; but I can do home renos, cook, and auto mechanics; as well as giving a guy his "me" time. I am also handy with a weapon and a good driver as I drove on the autobahn in Germany. LOL Guess; I am a bit too much for the average guy.



Strange are the self-worth perceptions of women,(in general) here in North America. Women in Western Europe have a very different, almost a 'happy-go-lucky' attitude of a very positive self worth. While women are equal, both by law and custom, women are still regarded by most males as 'very special' in the sense of the differences of their physiognomy. They and only they are able to bear children; they are indispensable to Life;(one reason for the reluctance to allow females any direct combat roles in any of our armed forces), always have been. But perhaps that perception is also class based...after all what lower classes remain are not known for their high regard for females...not to even mention how in Eastern Europe they are still regarded as chattel; junk to sell and get money from...
What about your equality from your own military people? Don't your male counter-parts accept you as fully equal and/or as way above average for the party-animal types???
(You do not resemble the notorious caricature of 'Ilsa, the She-Wolf of the SS", and what male in their RIGHT mind would want that type anyway for a life long partner...Just imagine all the time to spend polishing he boots just for a few lashes of her whip...Yuk!:laughing:


Actually; yes the guys in the military do accept me as an equal and I served side by side with the men on combat ships. Sadly; they shut down the military base here so except for a few married Reservists; there aren't any men here who are not intimidated by me. Oh for the record; I polish my own boots but I am still willing to use my whip on a man if he wishes it. pitchfork