How can I get my free account noticed and seen? I am not having any luck on any lesbian dating site. I keep coming back to this site because it has a lot of Oregon lesbians. What do I need to change to get my profile noticed?

a lesbian living in beaverton is going to have the same kind of luck as a lesbian living in woodcock. you can sit behind your computer and wait for someone to notice you, but i guarantee i guarantee that you will have more people notice you if you post regularly on the forums

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Crystalkiss78,

You don't have to wait for them to come to you. You can go to them as well. This site notifies people when other members even look at their profile. Maybe you should just make a point of regularly checking other lesbians' profiles, so they'll see you're looking. Also, give them nudges. Unless/until they disable it, that will actually send them an email linking to your profile. That would put your name and profile out there. Make that connection for you, even.

I'll send you a hug and you'll see what happens.

Good luck!

I'm no expert on dating sites, however, I think making your profile stand out from the crowd can make all the difference. I've read so many profiles that all look the same. I suggest not putting in the usual lines that never work: "No drama", "Where are all the good men/women", "Do good men/women exist anymore?", etc. I'm not all that good at it myself, so I get what you mean. Good luck :)

You need a better photo. The one you have doesn't look very good.

Your profile is bland. Spice it up by showing more of your personality in it, your sense of humor, etc. Mention what you want to do with the people you want to meet.