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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like?
 Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love?   |
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Always afraid to fall in love,cos don't want to be hurt...but look forward to fallin' in love some day...
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me!
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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love? I don't know but sometimes I just meet somebody and we "click", so to speak. We have to get on as friends and they have to be a passionate lover I suppose but I tend to fall for women quite easily and that's why I don't really want to get into any more casual relationships. It goes from "I had a great time with her" to "Can't wait to see her again" to "I want to be with this woman and I don't really want anybody else". I mean, I've done this with women that were never going to want anything serious with me and then I just get this crazy idea into my head that because I think that they are really special and it's all passionate and romantic they are somehow going to reciprocate and it's going to be more than a fling. Often it's because they lead me on and play me and I'm aware that they are doing that but I figure that they must have some feelings for me, even if they are just saying that they really like me and love being with me instead of actually saying that they are "in love" with me as such. |
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I love my friends...,... Ss for a man well that takes a while.
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I love my friends...,... Ss for a man well that takes a while. |
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Like... Kindness,down to earth,real life knowledge,feminine
Love.... I have a wait and see attitude. I like to see how things grow after time, I'm cautious. |
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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love? I don't know but sometimes I just meet somebody and we "click", so to speak. We have to get on as friends and they have to be a passionate lover I suppose but I tend to fall for women quite easily and that's why I don't really want to get into any more casual relationships. It goes from "I had a great time with her" to "Can't wait to see her again" to "I want to be with this woman and I don't really want anybody else". I mean, I've done this with women that were never going to want anything serious with me and then I just get this crazy idea into my head that because I think that they are really special and it's all passionate and romantic they are somehow going to reciprocate and it's going to be more than a fling. Often it's because they lead me on and play me and I'm aware that they are doing that but I figure that they must have some feelings for me, even if they are just saying that they really like me and love being with me instead of actually saying that they are "in love" with me as such. once again, tawt, I admire your ability to be honest with and about yourself, and I especially appreciate your view as follows... "It goes from "I had a great time with her" to "Can't wait to see her again" to "I want to be with this woman and I don't really want anybody else". I just get this crazy idea into my head that because I think that they are really special and it's all passionate and romantic they are somehow going to reciprocate and it's going to be more than a fling." your openness allows me to understand not only your journey, but my own too.. thank you for being direct in your responses...  |
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Like... Kindness,down to earth,real life knowledge,feminine Love.... I have a wait and see attitude. I like to see how things grow after time, I'm cautious. I admire your definition of "like", jack... and your wisdom when it comes to falling too fast...
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Tue 02/26/13 06:03 AM
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Falling in love is like making soup or pasta... the longer it simmers the more it soaks in the flavor of its spice... yeah, that's a pretty cool way to look at it...
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Always afraid to fall in love,cos don't want to be hurt...but look forward to fallin' in love some day... and so you will, Solace...
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I love my friends...,... Ss for a man well that takes a while. thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, D2ED... |
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2months thank you for sharing, rvd... |
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It happens way too fast. Almost like I got suckered. Its like I got blindsided and definitely didn't see it coming. Like an instant attraction. I wasn't aware of them at all and then they were all I could think of. She was so cute and I fell so hard and so fast. Didn't even know it was a trap. So fragile and needed protection. I was all that she needed. And did I ever need her in my life. Kind of like a virus and the next thing you know I was totally twitterpated. And then she didn't need me any more. Felt real used after I was discarded. I am so happy for her that she is all better now. Kind of sucks for me though. Love stinks.
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It happens way too fast. Almost like I got suckered. Its like I got blindsided and definitely didn't see it coming. Like an instant attraction. I wasn't aware of them at all and then they were all I could think of. She was so cute and I fell so hard and so fast. Didn't even know it was a trap. So fragile and needed protection. I was all that she needed. And did I ever need her in my life. Kind of like a virus and the next thing you know I was totally twitterpated. And then she didn't need me any more. Felt real used after I was discarded. I am so happy for her that she is all better now. Kind of sucks for me though. Love stinks. sorry to hear you have such a rough time in love, trout...
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Thanks.
 Its getting better. It only hurts when I laugh.
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To often "LOVE" gets confused with a need for companionship, loneliness, lust & other lesser emotions. People use the "LOVE" word way to soon & easy, to feed those lesser emotions. "LOVE" takes time & experiences together; in able to stand the ravages of time & lifes trials & tribulations.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Tue 02/26/13 07:05 AM
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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love? "like" does not always progress to love, but if it doesn't, it is still "like." I can think of a few men who I could possibly fall in love with were they available and reciprovated my interest. It takes me quite awhile to fall in love and it has happened only a few times. The things that draw me to them are chemistry and personalities, sense of humor that are in sync. and sincerity. I am not paticularly impressed with men who come on to me when they really are not available, or their interest is in sex only. |
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Well, if the question is the ease at which I fall in love, only one asset must be considered - the eyes.
I'll freely admit that I've fallen in love at first sight three times in my life and all three women had something about their eyes that just caused all the walls of my heart to just melt away. I can only describe phenomena as the eyes being big, bright, alive and having a hint of mischief in them. If you've got that, you've got me. |
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