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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said.  hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away...  Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world.  excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. |
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. navygirl, I'm so happy for you... this is an exciting advancement opportunity indeed... your life will be changing in so many ways... maybe you will even find time for romance and love...  never say never... 
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. navygirl, I'm so happy for you... this is an exciting advancement opportunity indeed... your life will be changing in so many ways... maybe you will even find time for romance and love... never say never... Thanks Athena but no romance is not on the "to do" list as my bands and teaching keep me way too busy. I just can't be bothered and the reality is because I was never married; no one is going to bother with me anyways. It's all good though. |
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Its not so easy. Theres so much trust involved and by the time I can fall in love, hes done something to kill it. So it Must be yu then, not him  Thats quite a rude assumption. One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service. I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know |
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Its not so easy. Theres so much trust involved and by the time I can fall in love, hes done something to kill it. So it Must be yu then, not him Thats quite a rude assumption. One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service. I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know Wow; I am sorry to hear all the crap you went through. I can understand why you are cautious about trusting. No one deserves that kind of crap in their life. I wish the best for you.
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. navygirl, I'm so happy for you... this is an exciting advancement opportunity indeed... your life will be changing in so many ways... maybe you will even find time for romance and love... never say never... Thanks Athena but no romance is not on the "to do" list as my bands and teaching keep me way too busy. I just can't be bothered and the reality is because I was never married; no one is going to bother with me anyways. It's all good though. 
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. navygirl, I'm so happy for you... this is an exciting advancement opportunity indeed... your life will be changing in so many ways... maybe you will even find time for romance and love... never say never... Thanks Athena but no romance is not on the "to do" list as my bands and teaching keep me way too busy. I just can't be bothered and the reality is because I was never married; no one is going to bother with me anyways. It's all good though. Aww; you are quite the sweet lady. Thanks.
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Its not so easy. Theres so much trust involved and by the time I can fall in love, hes done something to kill it. So it Must be yu then, not him Thats quite a rude assumption. One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service. I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know Wow; I am sorry to hear all the crap you went through. I can understand why you are cautious about trusting. No one deserves that kind of crap in their life. I wish the best for you. Thankyou Navygirl, I do appreciate what you said It bothers me when people judge others so carelessly |
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Its not so easy. Theres so much trust involved and by the time I can fall in love, hes done something to kill it. So it Must be yu then, not him Thats quite a rude assumption. One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service. I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know Wow; I am sorry to hear all the crap you went through. I can understand why you are cautious about trusting. No one deserves that kind of crap in their life. I wish the best for you. Thankyou Navygirl, I do appreciate what you said It bothers me when people judge others so carelessly I don't blame you for being upset. He was completely out of line with his statement. Nothing I hate more than when someone who doesn't know anything about you to make a judgement like that. |
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Its not so easy. Theres so much trust involved and by the time I can fall in love, hes done something to kill it. So it Must be yu then, not him Thats quite a rude assumption. One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service. I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know cuddlebunny... please accept my sincere and humble apologies concerning the insensitive remark that another poster made to you concerning a reply that you made to me on this/my thread. I feel that it is my ultimate responsibility being the threads creator to ensure that any/all participants are treated with kindness and respect... and when these standards are breached in any way, then I will take it upon myself to ensure that you and/or all others never leave here with a bad feeling concerning any inappropriate lines being crossed... unfortunately sometimes we speak before we think... but we will also make amends... again.. my apologies dear lady...
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. Congratulations Navygirl that is Great!!
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. Congratulations Navygirl that is Great!! Thanks Toodygirl5. I feel so much more happier now and feel now that I have something to look forward to. I also think my health will be much better and less burn out.
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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? no one thing in particular. these things are as varied as the people i have loved. Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love?  it's better measured by how deeply one loves, than how quickly. |
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Thankyou Athena, no need for you to apologize. Thats the risk one takes when they post publicly. I have a thick skin and realize that there are alot of very ignorant people in the world...and thankyou :)
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Edited by
AthenaRose2
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Tue 02/26/13 03:09 PM
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What individuality or assets does another person have to possess before you are drawn to them in like? no one thing in particular. these things are as varied as the people i have loved. Once making “like’s” emotional connection, how easily and quickly do your feelings progress to love? it's better measured by how deeply one loves, than how quickly. thank you for sharing your answers with us, kc... as we all learn from each other what like and love means to us... |
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Thankyou Athena, no need for you to apologize. Thats the risk one takes when they post publicly. I have a thick skin and realize that there are alot of very ignorant people in the world...and thankyou :) 
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. Navygirl, I just read this. Congratulations on finding such a good job! This is great news!! |
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. Navygirl, I just read this. Congratulations on finding such a good job! This is great news!! Thanks cutiepiefor you.
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It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me! Yep; I agree with what she said. hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away... Thanks. It was fun and I found myself a great new job; so all is perfect in my little world. excellent news then... will it be permanent? Yes; its permanent and it's a supervisory job with a chance to move up the ladder; as well wearing blue jeans, and having my own office. Less hours and better hours so I can actually eat properly again rather than rushing from work to my other events. Navygirl, I just read this. Congratulations on finding such a good job! This is great news!! Thanks cutiepiefor you. YOu are welcome! This happened so quickly for you didn't it? |
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Congrats navy! Good for you!
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