A piece of advice for cetain men here on JSH. If you are talking on a regular basis to a member of the opposite sex.

Warning signs that things are not going well.

#1 She removes you from her friends list.

#2 She blocks you and you can no longer send her messages.

#3 She forwards your E- mail to system coordnators.


These thinga are not good news to a relationship, its time to move on. If you keep trying to contact this person in any way, shape, or form, that makes you a stalker. This is not healthy. Get therapy. If this is not humorous to you, then the person that I am talking about is probably you.

Truer words have not been spoken, Honey!!!


Thanks for reminding some people what they should already know!!

hmmmmm

You know...I really don't understand the whole friends thing. Does anyone really talk to the people on their friends list? I didn't use to but I cleaned it up, if you don't talk to them, why have them on there?
Does everyone just add people to see who can have the most? Its all very confusing to me...I look at how many friends someone has...if they have a lot of friends and want to add me~~I think hmmm, they probably won't have time to talk to me anyway so why add them!!

I do talk with them all as much as I can.I have a stalker myself and had to do some things.

I hope this thread helps with some of the ladies on this site.

i think the point is


if someone doesnt want to be more than friends, then people should respect that.

Yes Claudette and if someone makes a point of telling another

person no, then blocking them, then reporting them, the answer

should show up in big red letters: STAY AWAY FROM ME!!

This isn't just about how many friends you have or don't have, it is about the ones who are stalking others just for the fun of it!

I think it is good advise fo BOTH men and women.


I send e-mails and jokes to my friends. If there is someone, who I do not feel comfortable in talking to or hasn't responded to my e-mail, then I take them off my friends list. Friendship is a 2 way street.

i see someone said the same thing i am going to say THAT GOES FOR WOMEN AND MEN LOL not jsut one.

i talk to the ones on my list unsure

Ok I guess I'll have to change my ways...I just thought they liked all that attention!!!!!!!!

Most people do like attention. But if they block you, take the hint.

I thought that was a sign of love!!!!!!!

in all seriousness


it doesnt feel good when someone doesnt respect your boundaries and when they pop up wherever you are

A sign of love Shelley, is one thing, and coming from someone like you, most people would know that it is meant in fun and laughter.

But when someone won't leave you alone after you told them politely to stop, then you blocked them, it can become a very scary thing. Some people don't think anything of it when they post after that person in the threads----after the person who asked them to stay away. They feel that if they just don't comment on that person it isn't a problem but it is stalking.

And no one on here, male or female, should have to go thru their days worrying about someone might be stalking them.

Ok ok ok ladies

I'll promise i'll behave




Seriously good threat

its ok Romeo you can stalk me all you want