Men want or should I say desire 2 basic things, food and sex, I think most women have this figured out already, give your man plenty of the 2 and us men will probably do or give you anything you want, were to busy being giddy from all the sex and food to care.

1. Just be themselves. That alone is what in the end attracts me and keeps me coming back for more. Lingerie helps to.

2. Like wise, when i am just myself and not trying to be what she may or may not want me to be.

3. Whatever works for them.

4. Adventurous, humorous.... loves music. A little on the weird side.

1a… for me it’s someone that is truly comfortable being herself, no matter who that may be. (of course chemistry plays a role here as well, but that is something that cannot be manufactured, it’s either there or it’s not.)

1b… be there; meaning, not only be a part of the relationship, but thrive in it. nothing is more pleasing than knowing one’s significant other is exactly where they want to be.

2… see 1b

3… pleasing people if fine, as long as it is not to your own detriment.

1. For me? ...it's when a woman simply talks to me regularly and we keep in communication. We share the good and the bad and an open table to vent to each other if/when nedded. It's the realistic attitude ...not this crap when what is right for women to do is wrong for men to do --BE HUMAN! Let me be me, correct me if I'm wrong, and just be an all-around friend.
And when it comes the relationship-side of it? ...the same ideals apply. With the exception that I-personally would like a woman that is very matter-of-fact, open-minded, moxy, is into fetish, and also believe in having something mutual.


2.When she touches/flirts. And other times when she jumps right on me and/or grabs me by my collar and commands me to have sex. Or simply walks into the room naked or wearing something provocative and tells me: "Let's go!"
What does she do to kill that sense of manliness? ...she puts me down because she expects me to be a psychic/mind-reader or just disregards my interests completely, because then for spite I'll do the same, and that get us no where. I believe in compromise and if she's all-anal about EVERYTHING, then that eventually gets me packing my bags.


3. Whatever turns a person on, is their own perogative. Whether a man or a woman, a person can investigate to see where the other person sits as far as to what level & such, though don't assume anything or you may be just pushing whoever away.


4. When it comes to me? ...no matter the person, I believe however it works, then so be it --there is no rules. But what there is? ...is perception. What I find attractive someone else may agree or disagree. But what is evident? ...when it comes to "me" personally? --a woman must be hot "and" have beauty in at least some way that captures my attention & keeps it churning.

1. What makes a woman irresistible? If you've just met, what is it about them that has you coming back for more? If you are in a relationship, what can they do to foster that irresistibility that keeps you coming back?


What makes a woman irresistible? Her style, her class in how she treats her self... see some women dress well and for the right man something simple but men are visual if a woman looks nice with the right clothes she can be so irresistible... the other day I was getting gas and there was a woman that I remember everything she had on because it just shouted CLASS! She had on these tight cuffed leg jeans, a pink top... with matching pink bracelet , black patent flat shoes, short blonde hair and I remember all this because it showed me she cared what she looked like and she was a vary irresistible older woman... maybe in her 40s... but now on the other side of the gas pump was another woman long grey hair lose jeans and a shirt didn't notice her shoes, she was what some would call ( down to earth ) about the same age but didn't take care of her self at all, less class. but that other lady I couldn't take my eyes off her... I hope nobody noticed! lol. So! what can they do to keep that up do more of the same... now you tell me when any man went back for more when the woman dressed in less... sure there are some guys that would come back for anything but really made them look good was at one time! she wore something nice you know sassy flats or low heels, and something nice that really got him going. I tell you if you had someone dressed like a bag lady and had her com-on to a few guys sexy like they would be running for the hills.

2. When do you feel your most manly/sexy/desired around a woman? What does she do to kill that sense of manliness?

When she comes on to me, shows interest in me, she maybe gets a little forceful and she wishes for me to do something about it, she wants me for me. and to kill that? she stops all intimacy; no kissing, no hugging, like she could care less and she will say things like " I might see you later " MIGHT? like being in a relationship was an after thought and its not just a killer it hurts unless the guy is only in it for the sex then the games are on but I'm not that type it hurts and it hurts bad.



3. What do you really think about people-pleasing women?

people as in not just the man but everyone... but that's silly it must be the man... well... I think it's should be the highest on the list, first in the man's thoughts " how does she wish to be treated " not every woman likes it rough but the man and woman should talk if you really love her you "the man" will want to know what she really wants from you.

4. What are the qualities of your dream woman?

that she is my friend and we can tell each other anything and do. things you would not tell your own family; sexual fantasies and don't leave anything out. that she takes care of her self and she would dress to always keep me on my best behavior and I would always want her to be near me, and that treating her like a queen is not always buying her things it's also treating her the best way I can and fined a new way to say "I love you with all my heart" every day and she knows we are in it for the long haul and its us and then there is the world.

well that's it.

Great topic Gurl! w/b

A brite personality. And if she has some confidence in her looks. She doesn't have to be perfect. I've seen some women that have been as much as a 100+ pounds heavier that she needs to be, and will dress nice. (And look good!)

When she is attentive towards the guy she's with. She doesn't have to shut everyone out, except him, but she should remember whom she came in the door with.

To me, it's a fine attribute to have, she tries. Don't overdo it. Flirting is a fine thing, as long as she doesn't ignor her guy in the process.

That she cares what she looks like, Is open and friendly. Would be patient with her mate.(Obviously within reason.) Not expect him to remember absolutely everything that touches her heart.(there again, within reason, and cirumstance.) And here is the crucial "But," She should not allow her feelings to be ignored. Nor should she allow the guy to walk on her.

Was this the answer you were looking for? (Or one of?)

Hi ya I'm a tattoo artist,I personally am drawn to women who either have tattoos or scar's,but don't hide them in shame a women who is confident enuf to embrace her flaws.I think when a women embraces her flaws,scars it simply defines her beauty.each to his own but for me it comes down to 3 traits that make a women sublime 1 she must be comfortable with who she is 2 she must be confident enuf to be the individual flawed,scared,tattooed beauty she is 3 she must also be elegant enuf to be a women who doesn't cheapen herself by been overly explicit.but that's just me a women is beautiful and sexy that just comes from within

sooooo if I am to read between the lines ... you just really like beer?

Hey Krup - I am glad things are going well for you and your lovely

Thanks for sharing Griz

Mlko, Kar, KC, Justin - thank you so much for your contributions

jkale - hello What is really evident by your responses is how much detail you remember when you are captivated. Thank you for that!

Hello again Mariah

GLRider - Hi Thanks so much for your contribution. I wasn't looking for a particular response but yes, what is being shared here is much of what I thought I would find. Thank you!

inkman - confident enough to embrace her flaws - I like that. Thank you for sharing.


You are wonderful! Thanks guys!