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Topic: Advice needed
Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 05/08/13 04:09 PM
Edited by Christinacospgs on Wed 05/08/13 04:10 PM

She's just looking for somebody to pay her bar tab.

Dump her.

Will you pay my tab??
:banana:
It would be cheap, I don't drink much. :thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 05/08/13 04:26 PM


She's just looking for somebody to pay her bar tab.

Dump her.

Will you pay my tab??
:banana:
It would be cheap, I don't drink much. :thumbsup:


If you fly to Milwaukee, I'll buy ya all the beer you can guzzle and all the brats you can eat.

xJeallen3x's photo
Wed 05/08/13 09:10 PM



She's just looking for somebody to pay her bar tab.

Dump her.

Will you pay my tab??
:banana:
It would be cheap, I don't drink much. :thumbsup:


If you fly to Milwaukee, I'll buy ya all the beer you can guzzle and all the brats you can eat.


I haven't paid for anything for her. As a matter of fact she insisted on paying when we went out.

mickeyford's photo
Wed 05/08/13 09:16 PM
you know what you gotta do........ so do it

Christinacospgs's photo
Wed 05/08/13 09:18 PM




She's just looking for somebody to pay her bar tab.

Dump her.

Will you pay my tab??
:banana:
It would be cheap, I don't drink much. :thumbsup:


If you fly to Milwaukee, I'll buy ya all the beer you can guzzle and all the brats you can eat.


I haven't paid for anything for her. As a matter of fact she insisted on paying when we went out.

:banana: :banana:

ridewytepony's photo
Wed 05/08/13 09:40 PM
let me guess she 40 to 41 years old...chase her around and try pin her down to what's realy going
on in her confused head and eventually you will here...
.
. I'm just at a selfish time in my life!!! Thats the bottom line, so except her and invite
her to grow as a friend if you want, if she can be honest to herself and you or drag up!!!


no photo
Thu 05/09/13 07:31 PM

OK here's the situation....
I dated this girl for about 2 years about 5 years ago and then we broke up mainly because I was being dumb and didn't realize what I had until after it was gone.
Ok, so since we broke up neither of us spoke to each other for that 5 year stretch during which she got married and separated. Then about a month and a half ago out of the blue she contacts me and wants to go out. I agreed because I still had feelings for her and we got along great. So good in fact that after just a few days we were pretty much back to being "together".
Then after about a week and a half of that she breaks up with me out of the blue. Didn't speak to me for almost a month and then once again out of the blue I get a text "I wanna go to the bar tonight. I wanna go with you." word for word. Then three hours later she texts me to cancel those plans. That was about 5 days ago. Haven't heard from her since.
So I am fricken confused and about to just delete and block her number and get rid of any and every trace of her from my life. ohwell
Any advice would be great.



I am sorry to have to say this, but it sounds like she may be using you as a backup. It may be a good idea for you to invest your time and effort in someone else. I have found that many times, things are not as good as they seem in hindsight. One time, I attempted to re-unite with an ex girlfriend from over 13 years ago, and although I remembered her fondly and always missed her, it turned out that I didn't remember all the things about our relationship that I didn't like. Needless to say I decided to back out of it because I recognized those feelings and I realized that it wasn't going to work out.

xJeallen3x's photo
Thu 05/09/13 09:01 PM

let me guess she 40 to 41 years old...chase her around and try pin her down to what's realy going
on in her confused head and eventually you will here...
.
. I'm just at a selfish time in my life!!! Thats the bottom line, so except her and invite
her to grow as a friend if you want, if she can be honest to herself and you or drag up!!!




Actually she's 26

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