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| Topic: Why can't I jst have a dream relationship? | |
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Is it me or the guys? I try the best I can! M faithful,respectful,sincere and sexy where I shud be. Guessing men kinda like it wen the ladies give them a hard time then. Being single cud be depressing sumtyms
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Edited by
renee2511
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Sat 06/01/13 02:38 AM
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i guess a dream relationship cant exist as there is no custom made man. we have to find the person with whom we "can" live our life.. compatible with us, the part of them which does not match with us much less than compared to the part that matches our expectation.. i think i m also talking about something utopian? am i?
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I tried to ail you because of your post in support forum but was blocked guess anyway wish you the best
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sat 06/01/13 06:09 PM
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I have a theory that the dream relationship formula is a bit backwards. Instead of chosing what you think could be a dream relationship and then trying to make it stable, try chosing what you think could be a stable relationship and then try to make it a dream.
It's just an experiment at this stage, but the theory is that a partner who is in it for the dream, may be more resistant to the relationship part of it, than the partner who's in it for the relationship, will probably be to the dream.  
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I know dat saying/theory of picking up sumfin from the scratch and turning it into that dream u want it to be! I ve been through dat countless times and patience has been my best companion. Like kaz said,u ll get to kiss alota frogs before u kiss ur prince! For some others it happens so quick and easy bt I guess I ll wait then
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I don't think it is you queen bee...i find myself asking the same thing, a lot of the times it seems they just do not know what they want, they do not want to commit and they are one foot in and one foot out...obviously i am no dating expert...but i am in the same boat as you...all we can do i guess is just believe it will come when the time presents itself...best of luck
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stop looking for perfect cos it don't exist.and while you're looking you may miss the imperfect person who could make u perfectly happy
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It works if you work it!
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Sowie about dat @pkh
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@1luv its so true they jst don't know wat they wAnt even though sometimes I fink its me showing so much love and affection they take for granted.
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"Why can't I jst have a dream relationship?"
Cause that would be dreaming and you would eventually wake up. How about this, How about two people accepting each other completely and seeking only good. Not trying to implement change, but to implement positive. It's not about what I want, it's about doing the right and positive things in life, and when you do those positive things, things happen that bring mates your way. Question is for all of us, do we want a mate, or do we not want to be lonely? A lot of folks live together and are never mates, they only solved partially their lonely temp situation. If your hunting for a warm body take your pick, but if your hunting for perfection be inlove with yourself. Love if meant to be then in the form of a body will find you. Do the good things that thrill you, things that bring you that absolute most joy. Stay in those things and watch what happens. You will either find total happiness within your self or you will find total happiness and share it with the other half. Both ways you win. Both ways you'll be whole. Do I want to be with someone, or do I want to be whole? Sometimes we think we are unhappy because we are not with someone, and it's really that we are unhappy because we are not yet whole. |
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"Why can't I jst have a dream relationship?" Cause that would be dreaming and you would eventually wake up. How about this, How about two people accepting each other completely and seeking only good. Not trying to implement change, but to implement positive. It's not about what I want, it's about doing the right and positive things in life, and when you do those positive things, things happen that bring mates your way. Question is for all of us, do we want a mate, or do we not want to be lonely? A lot of folks live together and are never mates, they only solved partially their lonely temp situation. If your hunting for a warm body take your pick, but if your hunting for perfection be inlove with yourself. Love if meant to be then in the form of a body will find you. Do the good things that thrill you, things that bring you that absolute most joy. Stay in those things and watch what happens. You will either find total happiness within your self or you will find total happiness and share it with the other half. Both ways you win. Both ways you'll be whole. Do I want to be with someone, or do I want to be whole? Sometimes we think we are unhappy because we are not with someone, and it's really that we are unhappy because we are not yet whole. agree |
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Dream's are just that. Dream's. While it's nice to fantasize about that kind of thing, not sure it can ever really be that simple. I find what brings us the results in life, is what we put out. I don't mean putting out your body for offers of sex. lol. I mean that I think not everyone is as dumb as they sometimes like us to think they are. They can detect what's for the taking. I think, by nature/genetic's, someone is either a user, or will really try hard to commit to a relationship. We must be clear when attracting someone.
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well i notice if i have my dream relationship it won't last long. and i will lose both my ex and a friend. :(
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"Why can't I jst have a dream relationship?" Cause that would be dreaming and you would eventually wake up. How about this, How about two people accepting each other completely and seeking only good. Not trying to implement change, but to implement positive. It's not about what I want, it's about doing the right and positive things in life, and when you do those positive things, things happen that bring mates your way. Question is for all of us, do we want a mate, or do we not want to be lonely? A lot of folks live together and are never mates, they only solved partially their lonely temp situation. If your hunting for a warm body take your pick, but if your hunting for perfection be inlove with yourself. Love if meant to be then in the form of a body will find you. Do the good things that thrill you, things that bring you that absolute most joy. Stay in those things and watch what happens. You will either find total happiness within your self or you will find total happiness and share it with the other half. Both ways you win. Both ways you'll be whole. Do I want to be with someone, or do I want to be whole? Sometimes we think we are unhappy because we are not with someone, and it's really that we are unhappy because we are not yet whole. |
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Your reply actually redirecting my thoughts to a beta angle.thanks
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I know dat saying/theory of picking up sumfin from the scratch and turning it into that dream u want it to be! I ve been through dat countless times and patience has been my best companion. Like kaz said,u ll get to kiss alota frogs before u kiss ur prince! For some others it happens so quick and easy bt I guess I ll wait then 
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I feel like that as well but m not loosing hope, my gal is coming, I can feel it nd hey who knows, it might just be u!
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