u must lean how to test men who interesting in u cos if u dnt u will never know which one loves u most

If he has to pass a test, shouldn't you have to pass one too?

idk that sounds like games to me, true love doesn't play games, except maybe monopoly.

True love should be required to play Monopoly!

Dang, I was playing twister.

Twister should be the test of true love.

naked twister????

exactly - love is not deceiving and it does not ask your partner to be put through undue nonsense

it is playing games and unforgiveable

I know i would not put up with it

it would be the best way to make me never speak to him again

u guys right but make it understood able dat some men are ready to go any length to get wat dey want nd they will hide their behavior

never know till we feel it.
no text,no supremacy,no evidence...its simply....missing

well most people can't do that for long...that is why sometimes we will wait an dget to know each other before being serious

I really don't know any men as you describe and what you mean by hiding their behavior is a little confusing

I mean we behave differently depending on where we are....for example I am not gonna party like a rock star in the grocery store....but that does not mean I am hiding something....it's just different behaviors are appropriate for different settings

perhaps you could explain what you mean?

In all seriousness, Sweet is absolutely spot on. It takes time to get to know someone. We are all, at the very least, a little complicated. You have to get to know a person very well to discover their truth.

If after a while you still can't see their truth, maybe they ARE hiding it. That still doesn't mean it's a purposeful intent to deceive, maybe they are just scared of being hurt and hold back what you want to know about them. Be patient or just move on to someone more forthcoming. You are entitled to your own style too...so...

sooo......ROCK AND ROLL!!!

I agree we also have the perogative to not necessarily get to know everyone all that well....with whom we share our "truth" with is up to us. If the OP finds that men are holding back perhaps it is because they have chosen restraint at this time.

So true Sweet. If someone is holding back it could simply be that we are not the one they wish to be open to. Time to move on and find one who is.

This is true!, you can allso tell if its not going to be true love, you can learn a lot from monopoly,
Money habits, spending, high fiance skills, decision making, greed and moreover, is she going to laugh
when I have setbacks like "go directly to jail! Do not collect $200.

"testing" people is a learned habit and rarely confirms anything, Those are the games people play... trying to catch the others true essence by planting seeds and then all surprised when there's a beanstalk of drama reaching up to the sky.

Rules I live by:

1. Trust no one at first

2. Do they DO what they say? Always? most of the time? never?
they may be too busy teaching you who they'd like to be in a different life. talk is cheap... be vigilant and look for subtle signs without interrogating or confronting them.

3. and most important... Participate in the process! Sounds like it is wayyy more important for him to love you, than YOU loving him. Does this make sense?

Very true! If your can't see through 40miles of fences you'll end up f* ed 40 ways through sunday,
in every aspect of the word, wondering, what the heck just happend?
You inspire me to write this twisted truth " told in the first persn

I'm practiced at the art of deception

It seems easy to me to plug your reseption

I'm realy sweet ,i'll poor on the affection

but i'll tell you anything, to feed my obsession

I'm just another politician running for election

when I get what I want you'll get a confession

You might even end up with a burning infection

But there's no pills for your new complection

live n learn or you just voted for re-election

Good one Pony.

I'll write you a voucher to stay one night at one of my hotels for free. The Boardwalk? No, sorry we're booked.

Aaah, and I was getting excited, til I got to the end.
well let me no when a hole frees up
And i'll come fill your vacate spot, here its hot down south
this time of year! Broardwalk is that the shower where
You waterboard badboys. I've experience waterboarding you know self indulged