Topic: So what if she's hot?
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Tue 08/20/13 07:12 PM
He wants her because shes hot
But probably have nothing in common and shes anoying

Shes good for booty calls

C'mon man frustrated

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Tue 08/20/13 08:07 PM
Well, that definetely and she says that she's a good cook.

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Tue 08/20/13 08:11 PM

I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.



noway rant rant rant noway grumble grumble grumble

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Tue 08/20/13 08:12 PM


I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.


Yeah, so do I. It's fun, isn't it?



that's kind of annoying

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Tue 08/20/13 08:15 PM




Doesn't sound like you're really into her, so I'd suggest looking for someone you don't find annoying.


I agree. How can you fancy someone and yet find them annoying at the same time?


Quite easily. I'm prepared to put up with quite a lot from women and I only said that I find this one a bit annoying. If her friends tell me that they agree with me about her but that they still like her why wouldn't I if I'm going to get more than friendship out of it?

This is hypothetical anyway because she's only someone that I know and was considering asking out. If she was my girlfriend I would just tell her how she was being annoying and hopefully she would stop doing it.


Last sentence - That means that you would try to change her. That doesn't work. That would hurt her too. Either accept the way she is or move on.


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agreed winx

whole thing sounds toxic

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Tue 08/20/13 08:17 PM

I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


You might as well face it all she is interested in you is for a booty call..................

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Tue 08/20/13 08:18 PM

I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


If you asked her for coffee or to a museum or something like that, you'd get a cance to find out if there was something more there worth pursuing. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. flowerforyou

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Tue 08/20/13 08:27 PM



I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.


Yeah, so do I. It's fun, isn't it?



that's kind of annoying


Good one. Now let's wait for a bunch of people to spam my thread by replying to that with mocking smileies.

Anyone else find it annoying when they do that?

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Tue 08/20/13 08:30 PM

I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


ok you meet this chick and she 's cute but she is annoying you because you can;t tell if she is really interested or just flirting. That's a valid question. Take some time to get to know her a little better, and then ask her out if it seems like the right thing to do at the time. It's pretty hard to judge if her interest is genuine based on what? One conversation at a party when you were there with someone else? give it time. keep in mind tho, that you really sound like you don;t much like women. maybe you don;t mean to sound that way, but you do.

anyway give it time and the right answer will occur to you.

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Tue 08/20/13 08:41 PM


I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


If you asked her for coffee or to a museum or something like that, you'd get a cance to find out if there was something more there worth pursuing. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. flowerforyou


Yeah, I know. Like I said, the last time I met her it was at a party and I was there with somebody else and didn't think that asking her out would have been appropriate. I could probably get her phone number but don't really know if I want to ask the person that introduced me to her for it.

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Tue 08/20/13 08:47 PM


I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


ok you meet this chick and she 's cute but she is annoying you because you can;t tell if she is really interested or just flirting. That's a valid question. Take some time to get to know her a little better, and then ask her out if it seems like the right thing to do at the time. It's pretty hard to judge if her interest is genuine based on what? One conversation at a party when you were there with someone else? give it time. keep in mind tho, that you really sound like you don;t much like women. maybe you don;t mean to sound that way, but you do.

anyway give it time and the right answer will occur to you.


I've met her a few times actually.

My best friend is a woman and I'm not sure what's giving you the impression that I don't like them.

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Tue 08/20/13 08:52 PM



I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


ok you meet this chick and she 's cute but she is annoying you because you can;t tell if she is really interested or just flirting. That's a valid question. Take some time to get to know her a little better, and then ask her out if it seems like the right thing to do at the time. It's pretty hard to judge if her interest is genuine based on what? One conversation at a party when you were there with someone else? give it time. keep in mind tho, that you really sound like you don;t much like women. maybe you don;t mean to sound that way, but you do.

anyway give it time and the right answer will occur to you.


I've met her a few times actually.

My best friend is a woman and I'm not sure what's giving you the impression that I don't like them.


some of the comments made early on in the thread about women annoying you. At one point I was going recommend staying away from us altogether...lol

I am kinda tired and want to get some sleep, but I can be more specific later if it is important to you. I do hope you will give it time. Maybe be friends with her first, give her a chance :)

and good luckflowerforyou

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Tue 08/20/13 09:00 PM
good luck.......laugh laugh laugh laugh :smile: :smile: :smile: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

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Wed 08/21/13 02:29 AM
Edited by TawtStrat on Wed 08/21/13 02:32 AM




I'm not pretending. I said that she's flirted with me. I meant that we talked to each other. She was friendly and being sexy isn't just about how someone looks. What annoyed me about her was that although she seemed to fancy me, I'm not sure if she's really interested in getting to know me as a person.


ok you meet this chick and she 's cute but she is annoying you because you can;t tell if she is really interested or just flirting. That's a valid question. Take some time to get to know her a little better, and then ask her out if it seems like the right thing to do at the time. It's pretty hard to judge if her interest is genuine based on what? One conversation at a party when you were there with someone else? give it time. keep in mind tho, that you really sound like you don;t much like women. maybe you don;t mean to sound that way, but you do.

anyway give it time and the right answer will occur to you.


I've met her a few times actually.

My best friend is a woman and I'm not sure what's giving you the impression that I don't like them.


some of the comments made early on in the thread about women annoying you. At one point I was going recommend staying away from us altogether...lol

I am kinda tired and want to get some sleep, but I can be more specific later if it is important to you. I do hope you will give it time. Maybe be friends with her first, give her a chance :)

and good luckflowerforyou


Well, I'm not even sure that she wants to be friends. She acted like she does but she also acted like she considers me to be possible boyfriend material. I'm not sure how much of it to take seriously.

Despite what you may think, I don't just want women for one thing and I would be more than happy to get to know her as a friend first. The thing is, I'm quite direct with women and I think that I made it fairly clear that I'm interested in her but that I'm not really sure that she's interested in me. I have no idea when I'm likely to meet her again because I don't get invited to a lot of these parties. If I tried to get to know her that way it could take years.


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Wed 08/21/13 02:41 AM
Honestly I think this thread is getting annoying because anything we say, you do not agree with. You keep making excuses for everything. Look here is the deal, you want to have sex because you think she is hot but annoying.
I hope when you have sex, and yes you will have sex, I hope she bugs the hell out of you and then you will get it all out of your system.

I honestly hope that not all men are like this. Do men think like this?
OMG SHE IS ANNOYING BUT I THINK I CAN HANDLE HER ANNOYING WAYS UNTIL I CAN GET OFF. SO IF SHE JUST KEEPS HER MOUTH SHUT FOR ABOUT 5 MINUTES UNTIL I AM DONE, THEN I WON'T HAVE TO SEE HER AGAIN.
Honestly, if I thought men felt this way...I would NEVER date again. I would hope that if a man found me annoying he would not take advantage of using me for sex. I just think that is terrible but hey that is my opinion..who am I???? grumble

OK I FEEL BETTER NOW...HAVE A GOOD DAY!! laugh

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Wed 08/21/13 08:31 AM
That's definetely a personal attack but if it makes you feel better to insult me about this I think that says more about you than it does about me.

If it wasn't five minutes and she got off as well would that make it any better?

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Wed 08/21/13 08:52 AM
Works the same for us too
I remember yrs ago talking to a young hot guy on the phone..his voice...OMG was soooi icky..I could probably handle him in bed if I could convince him just to look good and shuddup lol
Just kidding

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Wed 08/21/13 08:54 AM
But the guy was real ya

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Wed 08/21/13 10:39 AM




I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.


Yeah, so do I. It's fun, isn't it?



that's kind of annoying


Good one. Now let's wait for a bunch of people to spam my thread by replying to that with mocking smileies.

Anyone else find it annoying when they do that?




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Wed 08/21/13 10:45 AM





I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.


Yeah, so do I. It's fun, isn't it?



that's kind of annoying


Good one. Now let's wait for a bunch of people to spam my thread by replying to that with mocking smileies.

Anyone else find it annoying when they do that?




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