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Be honest, how many times have you viewed a younger guys profile? Most younger women these days are total pains! I've dated a few older women before and it wasnt for financial gain, as im self-employed. I am being honest when I say; I don't look at a younger guys profile. I have had dozens of invites on my mail and delete them without looking at their profile. I have no wish to be a mommy or grandmother to these guys and the fact that they are hitting on me as an older woman only proves just how immature they are. Nothing sexier than an older man with grey hair; a few wrinkles, and a life time of experience. Never found any young man the least bit attractive. I think it is very creepy when a young guy hits on me; it makes my skin crawl. Just reading the posts on the Mingles sites that young guys write shows that a lot of you are very disrespectful of women which is why I suspect younger women won't date you. You also come across as arrogant and very desperate/needy. It is such a turn off personally. I have met some very immature stupid older men and some very mature well balanced young men. I have 2 male friends..one is 49 and hasn't grown up yet..hes needy..[the woman has to cook and clean for him] He cant commit to anyone and has no clue how to teat a woman and acts like a kid. Theres lots more but I wont go into it. The other one is 33. He is settled..has a good job, wants a relationship and is willing to work on making the relationship better. Has a fair amount of life experiences so far, is respectful, kind and good to me. This is just an example of 2 but I have seen this many times before I'm just saying plz don't judge a book by its cover, you narrow your chances of finding that awesome man. |
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Be honest, how many times have you viewed a younger guys profile? Most younger women these days are total pains! I've dated a few older women before and it wasnt for financial gain, as im self-employed. I am being honest when I say; I don't look at a younger guys profile. I have had dozens of invites on my mail and delete them without looking at their profile. I have no wish to be a mommy or grandmother to these guys and the fact that they are hitting on me as an older woman only proves just how immature they are. Nothing sexier than an older man with grey hair; a few wrinkles, and a life time of experience. Never found any young man the least bit attractive. I think it is very creepy when a young guy hits on me; it makes my skin crawl. Just reading the posts on the Mingles sites that young guys write shows that a lot of you are very disrespectful of women which is why I suspect younger women won't date you. You also come across as arrogant and very desperate/needy. It is such a turn off personally. I have met some very immature stupid older men and some very mature well balanced young men. I have 2 male friends..one is 49 and hasn't grown up yet..hes needy..[the woman has to cook and clean for him] He cant commit to anyone and has no clue how to teat a woman and acts like a kid. Theres lots more but I wont go into it. The other one is 33. He is settled..has a good job, wants a relationship and is willing to work on making the relationship better. Has a fair amount of life experiences so far, is respectful, kind and good to me. This is just an example of 2 but I have seen this many times before I'm just saying plz don't judge a book by its cover, you narrow your chances of finding that awesome man. Agree 100% with this Cuddlebunny! 
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Yeah you are very right [cuddlebunny] there a some older ladys who is are judging books by there cover and I know there is lady lying about there personality there is alot of older lady's who love to see young men but they won't admit it
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Yeah as for me I prefer to date old ladys to young ones becoz they are loving,careing n they knw what is right n what a man want to make him happy n they hav more mature xperence.....
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Yeah as for me I prefer to date old ladys to young ones becoz they are loving,careing n they knw what is right n what a man want to make him happy n they hav more mature xperence.....mcinnis_william11@yahoo.com
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I wounder to myself why a woman is hard to get
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sat 09/21/13 05:40 PM
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Be honest, how many times have you viewed a younger guys profile? Most younger women these days are total pains! I've dated a few older women before and it wasnt for financial gain, as im self-employed. I am being honest when I say; I don't look at a younger guys profile. I have had dozens of invites on my mail and delete them without looking at their profile. I have no wish to be a mommy or grandmother to these guys and the fact that they are hitting on me as an older woman only proves just how immature they are. Nothing sexier than an older man with grey hair; a few wrinkles, and a life time of experience. Never found any young man the least bit attractive. I think it is very creepy when a young guy hits on me; it makes my skin crawl. Just reading the posts on the Mingles sites that young guys write shows that a lot of you are very disrespectful of women which is why I suspect younger women won't date you. You also come across as arrogant and very desperate/needy. It is such a turn off personally. I have met some very immature stupid older men and some very mature well balanced young men. I have 2 male friends..one is 49 and hasn't grown up yet..hes needy..[the woman has to cook and clean for him] He cant commit to anyone and has no clue how to teat a woman and acts like a kid. Theres lots more but I wont go into it. The other one is 33. He is settled..has a good job, wants a relationship and is willing to work on making the relationship better. Has a fair amount of life experiences so far, is respectful, kind and good to me. This is just an example of 2 but I have seen this many times before I'm just saying plz don't judge a book by its cover, you narrow your chances of finding that awesome man. I am not narrowing my chances by staying away from young men. These guys being nothing more than users of a woman for sex and even being gold diggers. Yes; there are some immature older men but at least I can have an intelligent conversation with them. Even these older men that are immature aren't as bad as the younger ones. Have you seen some of the posts here? Seriously; they are creeps. I would rather stay alone than to date a younger man. I am not into dating someone young enough to be my son. I would never be that desperate. |
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Be honest, how many times have you viewed a younger guys profile? Most younger women these days are total pains! I've dated a few older women before and it wasnt for financial gain, as im self-employed. I am being honest when I say; I don't look at a younger guys profile. I have had dozens of invites on my mail and delete them without looking at their profile. I have no wish to be a mommy or grandmother to these guys and the fact that they are hitting on me as an older woman only proves just how immature they are. Nothing sexier than an older man with grey hair; a few wrinkles, and a life time of experience. Never found any young man the least bit attractive. I think it is very creepy when a young guy hits on me; it makes my skin crawl. Just reading the posts on the Mingles sites that young guys write shows that a lot of you are very disrespectful of women which is why I suspect younger women won't date you. You also come across as arrogant and very desperate/needy. It is such a turn off personally. I have met some very immature stupid older men and some very mature well balanced young men. I have 2 male friends..one is 49 and hasn't grown up yet..hes needy..[the woman has to cook and clean for him] He cant commit to anyone and has no clue how to teat a woman and acts like a kid. Theres lots more but I wont go into it. The other one is 33. He is settled..has a good job, wants a relationship and is willing to work on making the relationship better. Has a fair amount of life experiences so far, is respectful, kind and good to me. This is just an example of 2 but I have seen this many times before I'm just saying plz don't judge a book by its cover, you narrow your chances of finding that awesome man. I am not narrowing my chances by staying away from young men. These guys being nothing more than users of a woman for sex and even being gold diggers. Yes; there are some immature older men but at least I can have an intelligent conversation with them. Even these older men that are immature aren't as bad as the younger ones. Have you seen some of the posts here? Seriously; they are creeps. I would rather stay alone than to date a younger man. I am not into dating someone young enough to be my son. I would never be that desperate. Yes I have seen the posts and I agree but also know that online dating sites seem to attract these kind of men..young and old. Theres some really nice older men on the forums yes but not many and sad cuz they are never close 
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Yes, you're right, the older gentlemen seem to be so far away from me that meeting would be next to impossible. I just don't think it is an act of desperation to see a younger man. If and when I ever see a younger man, it's not because of the sexual aspect of it. It would be because I actually saw something of substance and intelligence and a spiritual connection, not physical. I've known some younger men who have more maturity, common sense, appreciation for women than their fathers do. My humble opinion for what it's worth.
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Yes, you're right, the older gentlemen seem to be so far away from me that meeting would be next to impossible. I just don't think it is an act of desperation to see a younger man. If and when I ever see a younger man, it's not because of the sexual aspect of it. It would be because I actually saw something of substance and intelligence and a spiritual connection, not physical. I've known some younger men who have more maturity, common sense, appreciation for women than their fathers do. My humble opinion for what it's worth. Again I am sure there are some mature younger men but I personally would have nothing in common with them. I barely have anything in common with guys my age. How can I talk to a 30 year old about what happened 20 years before he was born? How can he relate? How can he relate to how I feel losing my friends to age related sickness when he is only 30? or losing my parents because of age? How about retirement? So I am retired and can't travel anywhere with him as he is still working? Worse yet; what if I get injured or sick? Do you really think some 30 year old is going to care for me. More likely; he will be chasing some 30 year old woman while I was laid up. I hear these guys in the bars talk about being with an older woman; that its a joke as they are using them for sex and money or how they are seeing another woman on the side. I hear the same things from young women about older guys. You would be shocked to hear the horrible things that the younger generation says about the older generation. Sorry; there isn't one 30 year old man on this earth that would be able to relate to me being 20 years older; never mind my military service. It may not seem like desperation for you but it would have to be desperation for me if I dated someone that young. Sorry; I am not a stupid women. I work with young men in their 30s a lot and believe me they don't respect older women. Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like. |
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So I am retired and can't travel anywhere with him as he is still working? i have a 30 days annual leave ... ain't it enough ? 
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Younger men likes older woman for main 2 reasons. There are two types of guys
Type 1 ; majority of younger men wants Good sex. they think older women are more experienced and wanting more. And easier to maintain than a young girlfriend, of course young girls are expensive. Type 2 ; Less number of guys go for older woman for financial benefits. SO BEWARE OF TYPE 2 |
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Quote: Sorry; I am not a stupid women. I work with young men in their 30s a lot and believe me they don't respect older women. Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like.
***** If all you can find to talk about are the old days with a man, or death, and have nothing stimulating or inspirational to talk about then I could understand it would be a mismatch. But you find that at any age, including old men. Frankly by your statement: "Sorry; I am not a stupid woman" you seem to be implying that those of us who differ in opinion are stupid. As to your statement "Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like", everyone is different, you can't put all these men in the same category. Again, just my opinion. |
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Younger men likes older woman for main 2 reasons. There are two types of guys Type 1 ; majority of younger men wants Good sex. they think older women are more experienced and wanting more. And easier to maintain than a young girlfriend, of course young girls are expensive. Type 2 ; Less number of guys go for older woman for financial benefits. SO BEWARE OF TYPE 2 This is so true.
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lolz,all men are nt the same.
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 09/22/13 10:13 AM
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Quote: Sorry; I am not a stupid women. I work with young men in their 30s a lot and believe me they don't respect older women. Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like. ***** If all you can find to talk about are the old days with a man, or death, and have nothing stimulating or inspirational to talk about then I could understand it would be a mismatch. But you find that at any age, including old men. Frankly by your statement: "Sorry; I am not a stupid woman" you seem to be implying that those of us who differ in opinion are stupid. As to your statement "Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like", everyone is different, you can't put all these men in the same category. Again, just my opinion. I never said you women were stupid; just saying I am not or maybe I should say I am not niave. Personally I could care less if you want to date a younger man that is young enough to be your grandson; go for it. Its none of my business and if it makes you happy; my opinion shouldn't matter. Not sure why you even started this thread asking why younger men are looking at your profile if you have already made up your mind that you are okay with it. I am just sharing my perspective on it as I get tired of people saying I am limiting myself by not opening myself up to dating a younger man. I am stating my reasons why. It's just my opinion and you can feel free to disagree with it. Read Tuskki's comment; that sums it up. |
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To Navygirl
I know lots of young men who losr their parent or parents..my grandaughter lost her mom when she was 9. Lots of young men have had militay experience by 30 Lots of young men know more about the music I listened too back in the day than I do and I love todays music as well How many older men look for something on the side when their wives get sick or no longer want intimacy? Tons like that on this site alone. there really is alot of intelligent young men that can hold a conversation very well and have had lots of life experiences. You would be surprised. No way would I have anything in common with a matured redneck People are all different, too many people of all ages don't respect one another..not just the younger generation I think you just attract the wrong young men into your experience. Maybe because thats what you want to see. |
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Quote: Sorry; I am not a stupid women. I work with young men in their 30s a lot and believe me they don't respect older women. Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like. ***** If all you can find to talk about are the old days with a man, or death, and have nothing stimulating or inspirational to talk about then I could understand it would be a mismatch. But you find that at any age, including old men. Frankly by your statement: "Sorry; I am not a stupid woman" you seem to be implying that those of us who differ in opinion are stupid. As to your statement "Just hope you ladies here don't find out the hard way what they are really like", everyone is different, you can't put all these men in the same category. Again, just my opinion. I never said you women were stupid; just saying I am not or maybe I should say I am not niave. Personally I could care less if you want to date a younger man that is young enough to be your grandson; go for it. Its none of my business and if it makes you happy; my opinion shouldn't matter. Not sure why you even started this thread asking why younger men are looking at your profile if you have already made up your mind that you are okay with it. I am just sharing my perspective on it as I get tired of people saying I am limiting myself by not opening myself up to dating a younger man. I am stating my reasons why. It's just my opinion and you can feel free to disagree with it. Read Tuskki's comment; that sums it up. First I didn't say I was dating someone young enough to be my son or grandson. Read Tuskki's comment--since I put no value on material things any younger man who might want to date me would get nothing in the bargain but me. That sums this up! |
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I will date men of all ages if we have common interests and good communication..I don't discriminate
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Most younger guys that I dated, were quite mature. They weren't sex pest's. I can see how it ruins chances for younger men on here, because the older women think no true love will come from it. A lot of older women just think a younger guy will up and leave. No woman wants to feel like a meal ticket. Then be the younger guy women would give their right arm for. Don't act like the rest. Be the guy she'd want.
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