I've gotten kisses and winks from guys I've never seen in the forums and never talked to. And I have no photo, so I think they're creepy; who flirts with a key on a book???

But if they block you after they notice you?

They're playing hard to get

I thought as well

Hegoat offcourse

Hegoat offcourse

Its just like seeing someone you are interested in knowing walking down the street, if you say "Hi" to them and keep on walking,then what would be your thoughts to that? Someone that doesn't respond to my messages i figure as "rude or selfcentered" only caring about themselves not in relationships,or occupied with a very important thought? As for ignorance, Who gave you a key to Heaven and made You God? To me this is supposed to be "a dating site" not a site to ridicule another member by putting yourself in this Godly position, then missing the opportunity meeting a Sincere person on here for the same reason you are!! This is a Dating site afterall?

And as for"Ignore"this was said by many members on here ! This shows your own ignorance and not using the site appropriately!For isn't the first part of the spelling of ignore , beginning the spelling of ignorance?

I don't think we should have the 'Kick in the butt' one, because someone could mistake it for being mean, if one was sent to them. Some people say they want to chat, but after that one "Hi", they never return. Not the majority, but a few. A few have carried on conversating with me, as they apparantely like my humor. And they said they like that I don't take myself seriously. Or "felt that they could go for a few beers with me to the pub". It sometimes makes me wonder, if they felt they had to be too serious in past relationships. Idk, it just sounds that way. The way they tell me.

This lady i agree with,on a kick in the butt option!!

I don't see nudges as offensive in any way, regardless of which nudge they pick. I just find them ineffective. I think I've been kissed, kicked, or hugged by every 24 yr old male from both Nigeria and Ghana.

I only respond to a nudge if it's from someone I recognize from the forums. Same for friend requests.

lol. The nigerian thing, me too. But if I see it's someone from the forum, I know they're not scamming, because they posted a lot in the forums. I sometimes get a few scammers from India, too.

Even if someone NOT in the forums sends an email, I still reply. Some are fairly decent. You'd be surprised. Some are really sweet.

I've not sent Kick in the butt nudge. I think those sending it are trying to call the attension of that person to dirty chat.

This isn't just a dating site, it's also a friendship site, notice the "looking for friends" option on the profiles?

As for people ignoring your emails and being being considered or selfish or arrogant or whatever, um, since when is not wanting to talk to someone being rude? If I don't know you and don't want to know you, what is the point of me engaging in conversation? We ignore people everyday and there's nothing wrong with that. I can see if you're friends with someone and you email them and they don't reply, yeah I can see you being offended, but if you email a stranger and they don't answer, so what? Let it go.

Just because you're interested in someone doesn't mean they're interested in you. We all have preferences. And before you say that someone could reply with "I'm not interested" just to be polite, that doesn't work; that only opens up a stupid dialogue about "why not?" and the assertion of "what a nice guy they are" and blah blah blah, and an exchange of childish insults.

If you email someone and they don't reply, accept it and move on, I assume we're all adults here, not teenagers. Not everyone is interested in you, just like you're not interested in everyone you meet....

Or at least I hope you're not interested in everyone you meet, that would be a more than a little desperate.....

Sadly, most Las Vegas women, I've nudged or e-mailed. They don't share your unique sense of humor here. While I never sent: "Kick her in the butt, nudge" I set winks to No avail. Even a simple "suggestion" for: meeting & chatting over a cup of coffee at Her Local caf�. Doesn't work. It Sounds safe 2 me! One gal got angry and that I was too pushy & thought I expected her to drop everything for her! Go figure! I still wonder what? and why? a woman can't suggest something better. That's Assuming she is really ready 2 date. & Not just bragging 2 her girl friends how many "Hits" she gotten? Your suggestions greatly appreciated.

So, Why NO photo? Indeed, Over 98% of all women post their pictures. But Not U! So, U 2 ugly? 2 insecure or just playing guys? go figure, Bro.

98% of men on here don't make ignorant, childish comments that make them look like a douche, either, yet here you are.....

As for "playing guys," unless he's illiterate, any guy interested in me for anything other than friendship on the forums can read that I am only interested in friendship on this site. Any guy who wants more than that from me is out of luck. If anyone gets butt hurt because they read my posts and thought I was awesome and then went to my profile and didn't find any photos of me, oh well, too bad, life goes on...

This is not just a dating site, everyone uses it for their own purposes, some people have been here for years, some have found mates, some haven't, yet they stay for whatever reason, none of which is anyone's business. To decide that everyone is here for the same reason you are is not only wrong, it's stupid.

And as for calling me ugly and insecure, you sound like a little kid who's been denied dessert because he didn't finish his brussels sprouts. You need to grow up. BRO.

Wow, you're on a fast track to nowhere! Enjoy the ride ...

but does this mean I have to be a Bruins
fan ..love the big bad Bruins

" So you say ya dont give a **** about hockey
never saw anyone say that before
I remember,it was '72,it was me & you & Bobby Orr".
~The Tragically Hip~

Nothing says dirty chat like a kick in the butt.