Topic: Handsome, Intelligent, and Good Behaviour.
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Wed 11/20/13 03:00 PM



Can a man be handsome, intelligent and at thesame time well behave?

>He might be handsome, intelligent and not well behave.

>He might be intelligent, got good behaviour and not handsome.

>He might have got good behaviour, handsome and not intelligent.

Can a man have them all?
yes..although no one is perfect and everyone has good and bad sides,it is still possible to have all these qualities..you can find them in the church trust me.any man who is a fully devoted Christian,understands God and walks in the spirit has these qualities..I can prove it if you doubt me..LOL


And this is how they try to get you. My mum is always trying to tell me that if I go to church I'll meet women but my argument is that they probably won't want to have sex with me before marriage and they will go on about Jesus all the bloody time and be no fun at all.


Depends on the woman you pick at church. Yea that might be true about some. Other's might just be trying to figure out what it means to love and be loved unconditionally. You look at the people Jesus a
and Christian's usually hang out with they aren't perfect they are just trying to be better than what the devil usually makes folks.

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Wed 11/20/13 04:29 PM
Few and far between

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Wed 11/20/13 04:35 PM




yes..although no one is perfect and everyone has good and bad sides,it is still possible to have all these qualities..you can find them in the church trust me.any man who is a fully devoted Christian,understands God and walks in the spirit has these qualities..I can prove it if you doubt me..LOL

I will probably find as many in a church as I could find in the library or at the grocery store!
I have seen too many church-going people do terrible and dishonest things during times outside of church!
Just telling the truth here. And good for you if this excludes your behavior.

Let's all remember that those 3 qualities are very subjective.
One person's idea of good behavior, etc. can be very different than the next person's idea.
Beauty is fully in the eyes of the beholder! flowerforyou


Ouizee, this is so true. I prefer someone who truly lives the proper life without going to church than one who goes to church regularly but cannot seem to understand what a proper life is. :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


It is good to serve God and obey His command and not being religious. I've met so many religious fanatics that preaches love your nabour as you love yourself but their lifestyle does not predicts what they preach. If perhaps any of his/her friend needs help and he/she can afford to help, he/she wont render the help rather he/she'd ask the friend to pray. Isnt that deceit? Would you see him/her as one that behave well?


If you are a Christian you should go to a church that is close to what you believe so that you might find a partner with closer to the same beliefs.

There are those who will pretend to be Christians and are wolves in sheep's clothing.

So you might find a compatible mate at your local church, you may also find a lot of pretenders. Pay close attention to them, and you will be able to pick out the pretenders.

Some pretenders don't even know they are pretenders.




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Wed 11/20/13 04:36 PM
well those qualities are somewhat subjective, particularly "handsome," but I think almost every guy I've talked to on here fits those qualities. at least as far their online presence and when I know what they look like. If they don;t have a photo I can say they are handsome in words :)

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Wed 11/20/13 04:41 PM





yes..although no one is perfect and everyone has good and bad sides,it is still possible to have all these qualities..you can find them in the church trust me.any man who is a fully devoted Christian,understands God and walks in the spirit has these qualities..I can prove it if you doubt me..LOL

I will probably find as many in a church as I could find in the library or at the grocery store!
I have seen too many church-going people do terrible and dishonest things during times outside of church!
Just telling the truth here. And good for you if this excludes your behavior.

Let's all remember that those 3 qualities are very subjective.
One person's idea of good behavior, etc. can be very different than the next person's idea.
Beauty is fully in the eyes of the beholder! flowerforyou


Ouizee, this is so true. I prefer someone who truly lives the proper life without going to church than one who goes to church regularly but cannot seem to understand what a proper life is. :thumbsup: :thumbsup:


It is good to serve God and obey His command and not being religious. I've met so many religious fanatics that preaches love your nabour as you love yourself but their lifestyle does not predicts what they preach. If perhaps any of his/her friend needs help and he/she can afford to help, he/she wont render the help rather he/she'd ask the friend to pray. Isnt that deceit? Would you see him/her as one that behave well?


If you are a Christian you should go to a church that is close to what you believe so that you might find a partner with closer to the same beliefs.

There are those who will pretend to be Christians and are wolves in sheep's clothing.

So you might find a compatible mate at your local church, you may also find a lot of pretenders. Pay close attention to them, and you will be able to pick out the pretenders.

Some pretenders don't even know they are pretenders.

Yea very true. False Prophets, Fallen Angels, and all that. I don't mind a person that can spend some times on their knees praying for guidance or God's intervention but if he sees other's as someone he has to save I am backing up fast.





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Wed 11/20/13 04:52 PM
LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?

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Wed 11/20/13 04:53 PM
Yea very true. False Prophets, Fallen Angels, and all that. I don't mind a person that can spend some times on their knees praying for guidance or God's intervention but if he sees other's as someone he has to save I am backing up fast.



At he very least, if a man you meet at church professes he is looking for a "good Christian woman" he can't very well start pressuring you for sex right away.

I would never get involved with a fundamentalist Christian though, I don't like sermons. LOL





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Wed 11/20/13 04:55 PM

LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


Really? I missed it. Please direct me to the smut and dirty comments.

laugh

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Wed 11/20/13 04:58 PM


LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


Really? I missed it. Please direct me to the smut and dirty comments.

laugh


I thought he meant women sent him smut and dirty comments..I haven't seen any in the threads....what

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Wed 11/20/13 05:03 PM

LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


On a serious note, yes there are good women out there! Keep searching, you'll find one. I try to stick to the forums, those are the people I trust! :smile:

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Wed 11/20/13 07:10 PM
Of course it's possible to be all three. My nextdoor neighbour is a single mother, and I personally think she is all three. There quite a few forum peeps here that I think also have all three. Male OR female. I don't think I am all three.

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Wed 11/20/13 07:17 PM
A lot of female's think Harry Styles from One Direction is quite handsome, but I think Zane Malik looks way hotter. Just personal taste. I agree that Harry looks slightly like Mick Jagger.

I don't get the sex appeal of Barry Manilow or Rod Stewart [can't you tell I was born in the eighties?], but I'm sure lots of women would disagree with me on that. drinker

Some men have told me I'm quite pretty. I guess I just don't/can't see that. What they see. When you're you.

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Thu 11/21/13 04:16 AM



Not too sure you can find one with all the 3 qualities. its a rare combination. 3 out of 10 men can posses those 3 qualities from my point of view.


You cannot get 100% of what you want in a man. If I were a woman, I'd go for a well behave and intelligent man. Geting married to a man because of he's handsome is like buying a house because of the paint.
Soon it'll fade.


1200% agree with this!!! Well said.

Lions comment about perception is true also.

If a guy, or gal for that matter has the character elements a person is looking for they take on a beauty that once was called seeing through the rose colored glasses of the heart.

Nice one

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Thu 11/21/13 04:23 AM

well those qualities are somewhat subjective, particularly "handsome," but I think almost every guy I've talked to on here fits those qualities. at least as far their online presence and when I know what they look like. If they don;t have a photo I can say they are handsome in words :)


Do you know what 'Kik2me' looks like?

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Thu 11/21/13 04:37 AM

LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


Yes, I'm very sure there are good women on here that are Beautiful, Intelligent, and have got good behaviour.
Should I list them?

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Thu 11/21/13 04:57 AM

Yea very true. False Prophets, Fallen Angels, and all that. I don't mind a person that can spend some times on their knees praying for guidance or God's intervention but if he sees other's as someone he has to save I am backing up fast.



At he very least, if a man you meet at church professes he is looking for a "good Christian woman" he can't very well start pressuring you for sex right away.

I would never get involved with a fundamentalist Christian though, I don't like sermons. LOL







Um! Jeannie, who offended you? Why are you talking like this?

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Thu 11/21/13 05:04 AM


LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


On a serious note, yes there are good women out there! Keep searching, you'll find one. I try to stick to the forums, those are the people I trust! :smile:


Here's wisdom!

Toks88's photo
Thu 11/21/13 05:05 AM


LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


On a serious note, yes there are good women out there! Keep searching, you'll find one. I try to stick to the forums, those are the people I trust! :smile:


Here's wisdom!

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Thu 11/21/13 07:50 AM
Edited by dcastelmissy on Thu 11/21/13 08:00 AM

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Thu 11/21/13 08:02 AM



LOL, all's I get is smut and dirty comments pft really it's a turn off but wtf can you do no class I guess. Seriously are there still good woman out there?


On a serious note, yes there are good women out there! Keep searching, you'll find one. I try to stick to the forums, those are the people I trust! :smile:


Here's wisdom!


:smile: :thumbsup: