I know this isn't all guys but , Why do some of you send messages like " Hi" or " Hey" or my favorite " What up wit u "?

Do you feel it's corny or unmanly to say " Hi, My name is ---, I like your profile. Would you care to talk"

This is strictly for those guys who have said " Hi, Hey, or What up"

It screams " I'm not really interested in you, but I have nothing better to do" which is why I just delete it.

If you are bored, you'd just make me bored with you.

Hello Teebee, nice to meet you, hope all is good with you x

Hi !
Hey !
What's up ?

" I'm not really interested in you, but I have nothing better to do"
{Giggitty}

That's because they either don't have the necessary skills to strike up a decent introduction and conversation with a woman, or they think that they only have to say ' hi ' and a woman magically drops in their lap? Sad, but true?

I put 'Hi" in the topic then pretty much exactly My name is ---, I like your profile. Would you care to talk" I also try to talk about something in common she has written on the profile

What Larrsons saying mainly,I sure as sh_t wouldn't
say what you are saying either,it sounds like
'you'learnt English out of a book..you have to
have more game that as a western man
even if its just someone you want to extend friendship to or say hi to through the forums
that your talking to for the first time privately.
I like to not be basic..but I don't mind a woman
to be a little short but if I don't know
her from the forums then "Hi" doesn't cut it.
If I write a woman back that contacted me and
she replies with "what part you live in"? after a
day or 2 like one did, then I'll ignore her.
I think many that I see on an open forum that say
stuff like "Hi" and "Hi Dear" that's generally
Indian & African males and that's just how they
have learnt so far..Doesn't mean they are not
cool in their mother language. just sayin'
If I was to ask a woman in Montreal to go on a
date in French learnt in school then I would come
across a just a geek..lol "May I accompany you to
the theater this evening mam"? But in English?
"Load up b_tch! the boats leaving the dock"
I'm so joking ooooor am I

Thank you! That's all that I ask!

They may as well lead with this Kik... cause that's how I'm feeling!

@ridewytpony....hmmm I don't know about that?
French, African.. pig latin... even if you only know "Hi" or "Hey" in English...darn it fill out the introduction in your own language
and draw pictures

Or in Scottish :- ' Alright there doll? Whant tae go to the pictures and then doon the pub for a wee swally? ' That's ' Hello there lady, would you like to go to the Cinema and then down the pub, for a little drink? ' Use that one next time you ask a lassie out Pony? Aye, don't be doing a Scottish accent like Scotty, from Star Trek either? I only talk like that after 10 pints and im bursting for the toilet mate!

Are you wanting me to give away my secret identity?

Only if you think it won't hurt your stud status

I'm more concerned about the Alien Task Force finding out.

Thought you were going to say ' My name is what? My name is who? Alfs name is huh, Slim Shady! ' Ha ha, Eminem, is a really a Melmacian? Cool !

Yeah, I remember when I had my first beer.*















[*American comic Steve Martin said that in response to an audience member who disrupted his routine by shouting a question.]

i never know what to say the first time chat, but i have found out a question besides how are you usually gets a response... i usually ask something about their profile

hilarious !

hilarious !

That's perfect!It shows you read the profile and you're interested!

I said a beer, not a Budweiser.