Topic: How Soon....
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Wed 09/05/07 11:50 AM
.... should you give someone your personal info?

ex: cell or home phone, personal email address, etc.

I feel you should get to know them online before moving to the next step....

Am I wrong to wait longer than 1 email?!?

What happened to getting to know someone before telling all your personal business???

I am curious as to how everyone deals with this issue...

nu2topcat's photo
Wed 09/05/07 11:57 AM
i dont have a set time, but always has been after several emails, and i feel perfectly confortable with them, but im a guy and if you make me mad, i would be very mean to you. i think women should maybe go slower

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Wed 09/05/07 11:58 AM
thanks for sharing topcat
I appreciate it

baby_gurl's photo
Wed 09/05/07 11:58 AM
i don't think there should be a time limit, when u fee comfortable with them, and u feel like u can trust them, then maybe u are ready for the next step flowerforyou

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Wed 09/05/07 12:00 PM
I can relate to no time limit
I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings
but I have to get to know something about them before giving out that kind of info

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 09/05/07 12:00 PM
It is a good idea to know someone much better- before giving them any personal info...

Alot of people on here know me as teddy rather than my name.
Only people I have known awhile have my e-mail.

You can never be too careful on the net!!!

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Wed 09/05/07 12:00 PM
thanks baby_gurl

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Wed 09/05/07 12:01 PM
thanks teddy bear
I feel the same way

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Wed 09/05/07 12:04 PM
never give personal info unless you know someone, for me that takes a while. if you ever regretted giving you number to someone in the street then the internet should be no diffrence. create a a public meeting place instead

baby_gurl's photo
Wed 09/05/07 12:05 PM
like i waited a month before giving out my info to the guy, but we talked like every night for like 4 hours and all that so i know we are comfortable together.

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Wed 09/05/07 12:10 PM
ok , I just don't see why anyone really needs our personal e-mail address?? we have e-mail here, and IM here, what does our personal e-mail have that this site doesn't?

iRon's photo
Wed 09/05/07 12:13 PM
What ever you feel safe with and if they will not wait and be understanding..... RED FLAG.....move on

rivergirl301's photo
Wed 09/05/07 12:25 PM
I got an e-mail from one guy (not this site) asking where we should meet. I was like, I think I need a little more info first!

pkh's photo
Wed 09/05/07 12:40 PM
Get there full name,address,date of birth,email,phone number and still run a security check.No I'm just kidding I think you'll know yourself when your ready.

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Wed 09/05/07 02:12 PM
chatting for at least 6 months 4 hours 16 minutes......then you can talk on yahoo......much cheaper than a phone call!!!:wink:

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Wed 09/05/07 02:35 PM
HeartSoul-

You know what you feel comfortable with. Don't let anyone push your personal limits. Stay on site for a while if you wish.

Get as much of THEIR personal info as you want if you do decide to meet. Make sure you meet in a PUBLIC place and people know where you are and when you plan on returning.

Hugs, M

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Wed 09/05/07 07:16 PM
thank you all for your input
you guys have been a big help