I'm glad 2 see we are on the same page. I've hated myself 4 so long,now I realize that I love me. I look in the mirror and I see something that I havnt seen in ages. "ME"

good for u brotha

Is that you in the photo, or your Dad?

On the floor!!....

it is so 420 I just had to say that lol...



dude don't get sidetracked always keep seeing You~

well I am again going to be the unpopular again I guess because I will share that he OR she who cannot learn from elders has rock stuck in between the ears in the spot where normally we find a brain :)

doesn't mean you have to agree. learning does not equate with agreement

Am sooo very sure that you are not alone in this boat!

Just make you strong again... Make you happy! Enjoy being you and having you around!!

Life is sooo good Crow,just don't let others spoil it for you!

Whoever doesn't like it,let them go hang!!

I don't know why you should care what someone older thinks of your shirt. That just seems silly to me. I don't like all the hello kitty crap. But that doesn't mean I get mad at everyone who sports a hello kitty pipe. Some people are just unable to let certain things go and want to rip into those who are different. That's part of the reason I stopped caring so much what other people thought of me.

Yikes - please don't tell me I look that old =)

Well, then we'll be unpopular together, I agree with you.

ha you don't look old at all!!! I dont even think you look the age you listed! Stay strong and be happy! Best wishes!

Not so long ago my "EX" said that I should grow up! She's 25 and has since then had a child with a 55 year old. It seem like the Jerry Springer show 2 me LOL. Here where I come from most guys wish they could sport a 100 dollar shirt and 200 dollar shoes... Make no mistake I buy what looks good regardless of the price. I have my own Maintenance company and I'm an Property Administration partner. The crazy thing is that I'm well respected in the work place and people actually like my casual aproach! Don't fix it if it's not broken is my philosophy. I've been a dark dark place for most of my adult life. Now that I wana spread my wings I'm not gona let anyone clip them......

keep that attitude and don't look back!!!

Maybe what she was saying wasn't grow up. But that she wanted to you to get old fast. lol

to his credit, it sounds like he took her advice. best wishes to the OP in his new endeavours. I doubt anyone wants to clip your wings....stay strong :)

(advice from one of those....yanno.....old people...lol)

My only thought is this, the only opinions that really matter are from people you know and care for, all the others don't matter. You listen to everybody(meaning those that don't matter), then ya eventually it`ll do damage to ya without you even realizing it. I know, I`m still having to take this approach in life. and I'm glad I do for most in what life offers.

OK....there is just one small issue here.

we are supposed to take advice on wisdom and learning from someone who posts a picture of himself on a DATING site (of all places) wearing a canine jumpsuit complete with collar


.....wait....he's wearing a collar!!! where's CrystalFairy??? lol

Ruh Roh!