Topic: How do l control my rage
larsson71's photo
Thu 01/23/14 05:04 AM



Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou

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Thu 01/23/14 05:12 AM




Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou


Guid mornin!waving ...Hou ar ye Jon?...It's always nice to be told you're correct even when you are not...Thank ye!flowerforyou

larsson71's photo
Thu 01/23/14 05:24 AM





Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou


Guid mornin!waving ...Hou ar ye Jon?...It's always nice to be told you're correct even when you are not...Thank ye!flowerforyou
On my lunchbreak and sitting in Subway, having a munch Leigh. Gonna be finishing this job off today and then my favourite part? Getting paid for the job! Whoo-hoo! Hows you?

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Thu 01/23/14 05:28 AM






Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou


Guid mornin!waving ...Hou ar ye Jon?...It's always nice to be told you're correct even when you are not...Thank ye!flowerforyou
On my lunchbreak and sitting in Subway, having a munch Leigh. Gonna be finishing this job off today and then my favourite part? Getting paid for the job! Whoo-hoo! Hows you?


Fine and dandy, thanks!bigsmile ....My American made batteries are working like a charm...:wink: ...Have the 12 inch, it's your best buy for the $...pitchfork laugh

larsson71's photo
Thu 01/23/14 06:35 AM







Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou


Guid mornin!waving ...Hou ar ye Jon?...It's always nice to be told you're correct even when you are not...Thank ye!flowerforyou
On my lunchbreak and sitting in Subway, having a munch Leigh. Gonna be finishing this job off today and then my favourite part? Getting paid for the job! Whoo-hoo! Hows you?


Fine and dandy, thanks!bigsmile ....My American made batteries are working like a charm...:wink: ...Have the 12 inch, it's your best buy for the $...pitchfork laugh
Ha ha, bet it's got 64 gears on it? A prototype from Ann Summers? Well the only 12" tool i've got is my electric Stihl saw and a couple of 9" petrol ones in my work van also! drinker flowerforyou

uche9aa's photo
Thu 01/23/14 06:51 AM
Edited by uche9aa on Thu 01/23/14 07:15 AM
You were probably fixated at a certain level in your childhood or the environment(nuture)you were brought up was less than peaceful,or some nasty experience that refused to be defused from your unconscious realm.You really need psycho-therapy

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Thu 01/23/14 06:51 AM








Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


That settles it then, nothing, absolutely nothing, is better than everything, absolutely everything, Scottish...whoa


:angel:
Considering all the inventions through history, that's came from a Country my size, then you're correct Leigh? ha ha. flowerforyou


Guid mornin!waving ...Hou ar ye Jon?...It's always nice to be told you're correct even when you are not...Thank ye!flowerforyou
On my lunchbreak and sitting in Subway, having a munch Leigh. Gonna be finishing this job off today and then my favourite part? Getting paid for the job! Whoo-hoo! Hows you?


Fine and dandy, thanks!bigsmile ....My American made batteries are working like a charm...:wink: ...Have the 12 inch, it's your best buy for the $...pitchfork laugh
Ha ha, bet it's got 64 gears on it? A prototype from Ann Summers? Well the only 12" tool i've got is my electric Stihl saw and a couple of 9" petrol ones in my work van also! drinker flowerforyou


Not quite 64, but the next one will!...About the tools, good to know mukker!:thumbsup: ...Had me worried for a minute there!:wink:

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Thu 01/23/14 08:53 AM


Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


Oh that's right, you drink tea in the UK.
You obviously can't appreciate getting hyperjacked on Mountain Dew.
Those Mountain Dew stealing aliens are soabs! :angry:
That's what they are! Always trying to steal my Mountain Dew!
Also I don't have a clue what Irn Bru is but it sounds awful.

drinks

larsson71's photo
Thu 01/23/14 09:18 AM



Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


Oh that's right, you drink tea in the UK.
You obviously can't appreciate getting hyperjacked on Mountain Dew.
Those Mountain Dew stealing aliens are soabs! :angry:
That's what they are! Always trying to steal my Mountain Dew!
Also I don't have a clue what Irn Bru is but it sounds awful.

drinks
I don't drink tea or coffee, so you're wrong! Half your nation need their caffeine fix also, as all you hear about is coffee, coffee, coffee? A horrible drink! Now give me an ice cold pint of Bud, or Stella Artois, after I finish work and now we're talking? You have to try Irn Bru though? Brilliant!

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Thu 01/23/14 09:34 AM




Find those Mountain Dew stealing alien soabs and kick them all in the face 1,000 times.
That always helps.
Just make sure to drink lots of Mountain Dew before you do it.

:angry:
That Mountain Dew, is crap! They sell it here in the UK and I don't know why, as nobody I know drinks it! So those Aliens must be idiots? Ha ha. Wait til you try Irn Bru? You'll sack that Mountain Dew overnight, guaranteed!


Oh that's right, you drink tea in the UK.
You obviously can't appreciate getting hyperjacked on Mountain Dew.
Those Mountain Dew stealing aliens are soabs! :angry:
That's what they are! Always trying to steal my Mountain Dew!
Also I don't have a clue what Irn Bru is but it sounds awful.

drinks
I don't drink tea or coffee, so you're wrong! Half your nation need their caffeine fix also, as all you hear about is coffee, coffee, coffee? A horrible drink! Now give me an ice cold pint of Bud, or Stella Artois, after I finish work and now we're talking? You have to try Irn Bru though? Brilliant!


I don't drink coffee.
I don't drink alcohol either. Not my style.
Mountain Dew, Powerade, and black tea is all that I drink.

Candiapples's photo
Thu 01/23/14 01:48 PM

I have a problem with controlling my temper,m a very nice person,very quiet @ times,m caring but when i get angry there's no stopping me... I get seriously worked up by small things that when m calm they sound silly bt aren't when m angry,i've been like this since my childhood do one outgrow this or what else must i d,any advice?

maybe try wrestling or boxing.. a good stress releaser

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Mon 01/27/14 07:58 AM
Your therapist will start asking you question's about your childhood. Just saying, so that you feel better prepared. Are you sure half of your anger isn't because of how that girl treat you? I remember you telling us about her a while back. Your problem reminds me of how I felt when one of my pets once deteriorated infront of me. I felt angry, because I at least expected a hug, or even just an "Are you alright?", but family members just seem to dismiss things at times. I did have a heart to heart with my gran about it, though, so that's something. Are you sure anyone's death hasn't suddenly crept up on you as a delayed reaction? Actually, ANYTHING can cause a delayed reaction. If you were shocked that something had happened when it did, your mind would have stored it. I remember getting into comedy, as a way to turn it around on myself. I think it's true that behind every comedian, there's a heartbreaking story or two. The less you think about the problem, the better. Distractions can be a good technique.

Porsche1985's photo
Thu 01/30/14 02:37 AM
Tnx Rawrr-girl nah its nt that my psychologist really helped me remind me of a childhood experience i had,i did remember that i grew up in a domestic violence household until i was in high school i kinda suppressed exactly what happened *teary eyes* it really was bad i don't how i managed to forget that n then there was a molesting thing i always tried to forgot n almost being raped for being homo wow *sad*

Porsche1985's photo
Thu 01/30/14 02:37 AM
Tnx Rawrr-girl nah its nt that my psychologist really helped me remind me of a childhood experience i had,i did remember that i grew up in a domestic violence household until i was in high school i kinda suppressed exactly what happened *teary eyes* it really was bad i don't how i managed to forget that n then there was a molesting thing i always tried to forgot n almost being raped for being homo wow *sad*

Mississippigal2003's photo
Thu 01/30/14 02:41 AM



Oh that's right, you drink tea in the UK.
You obviously can't appreciate getting hyperjacked on Mountain Dew.
Those Mountain Dew stealing aliens are soabs! :angry:
That's what they are! Always trying to steal my Mountain Dew!
Also I don't have a clue what Irn Bru is but it sounds awful.

drinks


Cheers to that blushing drinker

larsson71's photo
Thu 01/30/14 03:42 AM




Oh that's right, you drink tea in the UK.
You obviously can't appreciate getting hyperjacked on Mountain Dew.
Those Mountain Dew stealing aliens are soabs! :angry:
That's what they are! Always trying to steal my Mountain Dew!
Also I don't have a clue what Irn Bru is but it sounds awful.

drinks


Cheers to that blushing drinker
Tea my arse! I don't drink tea or coffee. Ice cold beers after work is what I like! Mountain Dew is crap! I tried it, so I know! Irn Bru, is class. Ask any Brit on here, or look it up online? Tea? Ha ha ha, you're having a laugh? Some Americans, haven't got a clue about us Brits?

larsson71's photo
Thu 01/30/14 03:42 AM
Edited by larsson71 on Thu 01/30/14 03:45 AM
Oops, double post. This crazy phone at times!

uche9aa's photo
Thu 01/30/14 04:08 AM

Oops, double post. This crazy phone at times!
Thats one of the symptoms of that psychological problem she narrated

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Thu 01/30/14 04:56 AM
Edited by David8976 on Thu 01/30/14 05:26 AM
I would take notes on what causes you to get angry. Is it memories, biological or your environment. Notice how you feel and what you think. Be aware of how you are physically before and during your anger. After you figure out the source address it or take steps to diminish the effects (cut out caffeine, etc...). I would probably go to an anger management course. I knew a guy who was sent to one and he managed to stay very calm. Getting angry is a waste of time and energy. It's not useful.

For your bad memories there's a process to rewrite them. I can't find the post in the reddit psychology forums but the idea was to write a letter to someone about an event that makes you angry. Then write a letter from them to you basically apologizing, etc... Apparently this reduces/gets rid of the memory.

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Thu 01/30/14 12:48 PM
Mild antidepressants, or if your against them, st John's wort ,give them a whirl if they dont work you have not lost anything if they do work happier calmer you