What is love?
Does it really exist?
Do u grow or fall in love?

Love is a feeling of strong attraction caused by chemicals in the brain. As for the other two questions. The answer is both. You can fall in love with someone when you look at them of talk to them. Which can also just be infatuation. Or you can learn to love a person through talking to them over long periods of time. This can also work in reverse. hahaha

chemicals?

Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing.

romantic love is a cultural ideal,,,

its trial and error

we feel something that feels better than what we felt before and we have the 'never had this feeling' type of 'love'


real love is a commitment we make to care about someone else regardless of their shortcomings and imperfections,,,,

"regardless of their shortcomings and imperfections..."
I think reverse is the case nowadays

hmm...
What if this reaction occurred only in your own brain, i.e. The woman or man dont feel the same with you?

you think so...

I think men fall in love, I don't think women really fall in love they just find someone to make their life a bit easier. I think falling in love is more accurate then growing into love. It feels more like a free fall that you can't stop, but maybe t hats just me.

What is love?.. Me thinks it's a vewy big an shneaky hand,it'll just pop behind you,without a sound, then give you a hard push and before ya know it, you've fallen way down deep,..

Hi,carebear!..you're cool,girl!

Well, it's a type of atatchment that you form with another person or thing. It's not always pure though and there is such a thing as a love-hate relationship.

I believe that I have felt genuine love for women in my life but when you get past the infatuation stage you start to notice their faults and shortcomings. If you can accept someone warts and all you can call it love I think. Other people may disagree and call it something else but that's really what it's about I think. It's not an illusion when you have your eyes open and know what the person is really like. I think that the problem is that most people are looking for someone perfect but I think that's a bit boring and I like women to be individuals with quirks and a real personality.

hmm...
Has it ever pushed you?

Definitely correct!

It sure did! That's how i met love the first time...hence, the definition.. What about you?

By this, you best not think anymore.
Until the emotional constipation wears off.

A philosopher once called it greed and I agree. When a man loves a woman he wants to have her all to himself.

I think you wither in love....or at least I always did. Best avoided.