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Topic: Does the Good Guy ALWAYS finish last?
thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:11 PM
I've noticed over the years that the really awesome women seem attracted to...for lack of an acceptable term...Bad Guys. Is it the "tough guy" attitude that attracts them, or the challenge of "making him better"? I'm confused, surprise surprise lol.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:11 PM
A good guy always lets his woman finish first....so yeah, he finishes last. Hahahahaha...

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:14 PM
That's the way I rationalize it in my mind too, but letting her finish first requires there to be a "her"... first lol:)

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:16 PM
Well, if you're really a good guy, you shouldn't have trouble finding a her. Most women want good guys, even the ones who settle for the bad ones.

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:18 PM
Hahaha, I wish it was that easy Julie:) EVERY woman I know says the same thing about me, "Your probably the coolest guy I know". What's the female/male translation for that? lol:)

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:18 PM
Ummm, yeah. The friend zone. Maybe they're scared to lose you as a friend? I dated a friend of mine once, it didn't work out and we're not friends anymore. I won't do that again.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48926	Sat 02/15/14 07:20 PM
Oh no! Not another "Good Guy" thread.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/15/14 07:20 PM
Friend Zone.....at least that's been my experience.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:20 PM
They need to make a horror movie and call it Friend Zone....you're stuck there forever, hahahaha.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/15/14 07:20 PM
Damn! She beat me to it....

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:22 PM
Oh no! Not another "Good Guy" thread. Do you get a lot of those on here?

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:23 PM
Hmmmmmmm:/ Let me see if I understand. I need to find a woman, but NOT become her friend...before I try and get closer to her?? lolol. Now I'm more confused;) No surprise.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Sat 02/15/14 07:24 PM
Oh no! Not another "Good Guy" thread. Do you get a lot of those on here? Way 2 much! Apparently all the guys think they're a "Good guy". ^^^But not this guy.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:25 PM
You can be friendly, but don't stay there. Once you're stuck in the friend zone, it's over. Say up front that you're into her, and let it go from there. If she says no, you can choose to be her friend or leave, but if you let it dangle there, like you're not sure, you're screwed. Or in this case, you're not screwed.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:25 PM
Damn! She beat me to it.... Ha, great minds.

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:26 PM
thanks guys/gals. More research may be required:)

thatdomguy Joined Wed 06/05/13 Posts: 21	Sat 02/15/14 07:27 PM
You can be friendly, but don't stay there. Once you're stuck in the friend zone, it's over. Say up front that you're into her, and let it go from there. If she says no, you can choose to be her friend or leave, but if you let it dangle there, like you're not sure, you're screwed. Or in this case, you're not screwed. Yuppers!

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Sat 02/15/14 07:27 PM
Yes. Ask her out before befriending her. Guys fall into a trap of trying to get a girl to like them before asking them out. Change it around, ask them out and then get them to like you.

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:29 PM
Oh no! Not another "Good Guy" thread. Do you get a lot of those on here? Way 2 much! Apparently all the guys think they're a "Good guy". ^^^But not this guy. You're not a good guy then? What kind of guy are you?

juliemeyers800 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 139	Sat 02/15/14 07:30 PM
Yes. Ask her out before befriending her. Guys fall into a trap of trying to get a girl to like them before asking them out. Change it around, ask them out and then get them to like you. Exactly. Once a girl starts thinking of you as her friend, it's hard to stop. Once she starts thinking of you as her lover, it's also hard to stop.