Topic: Asian Women
James7248's photo
Mon 02/17/14 08:16 AM
I'm a educated, employed, tall, athletic, confident, good looking, White man living in Dallas, TX. The population of Dallas is fairly diverse with a large Hispanic, African American, and Caucasian population with a smaller Asian, Indian, and Middle Eastern population. I think I'm a good catch, of course that is subject to a woman's personal preferences. What I don't understand is why I have such a high success rate with Asian women and such a low success rate with White women. If we ate all individuals wouldn't I then be consistently successful or unsuccessful with all ethnicities. It may seem like an extreme simplification but it is true. I'm most successful with attractive Asian women and often have them give me their number without having to ask but when I ask for the contact information of a White girl, even after putting forth tome in conversation, she acts shocked as if she had assumed I just wanted to be her friend or I was gay or something. Women of other races never make that mistake. When I decide I want to avoid all confusion I minimize interacting with attractive White women or I interact with them only with polite professionalism then they often het frustrated that I'm not giving them the attention they've grown to expect.
I'm more successful with all other races than Caucasian, Why?

sybariticguy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 08:28 AM
Your generalizations are not sufficiently based on large numbers to bear out. Asian women are more tolerant and have different standards than their counterparts and are more receptive and less suspicious and appreciate honest direct communication. All groups do not share the same degree of flexibility and openness you desire from one group I suggest you enjoy all and hopefully find whom you seek Regards

soufiehere's photo
Thu 02/20/14 09:41 AM

I'm a educated, employed, tall, athletic, confident, good looking, White man living in Dallas, TX. The population of Dallas is fairly diverse with a large Hispanic, African American, and Caucasian population with a smaller Asian, Indian, and Middle Eastern population. I think I'm a good catch, of course that is subject to a woman's personal preferences. What I don't understand is why I have such a high success rate with Asian women and such a low success rate with White women. If we ate all individuals wouldn't I then be consistently successful or unsuccessful with all ethnicities. It may seem like an extreme simplification but it is true. I'm most successful with attractive Asian women and often have them give me their number without having to ask but when I ask for the contact information of a White girl, even after putting forth tome in conversation, she acts shocked as if she had assumed I just wanted to be her friend or I was gay or something. Women of other races never make that mistake. When I decide I want to avoid all confusion I minimize interacting with attractive White women or I interact with them only with polite professionalism then they often het frustrated that I'm not giving them the attention they've grown to expect.
I'm more successful with all other races than Caucasian, Why?


Ummmm..you a cannibal?
This would explain a lot..

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 02/20/14 09:53 AM
I have a different answer as to why this might happen, but for fear of offending asian men, I can't say why, on a public forum. I'm wondering if it isn't a similar reason as to why I get a lot of asian men after me. Then again, some turned out to be just scammer's, but I know what they want white women for. So I understand. Sort of.

hellsboy's photo
Thu 02/20/14 09:56 AM

I have a different answer as to why this might happen, but for fear of offending asian men, I can't say why, on a public forum. I'm wondering if it isn't a similar reason as to why I get a lot of asian men after me. Then again, some turned out to be just scammer's, but I know what they want white women for. So I understand. Sort of.


Lol!!! What u saying is correct but I personally have got over racism. .. I believe one shud have a good heart n attachment with one... whats in colour??

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 02/20/14 09:59 AM
I have the idea non-Caucasians prefer having a white partner/lover/date. Seems to be some status thing or something. Esp if you're tall(ish). Guess it's still in the genes after a long time of colonies etc. I don't mean this in a prejudice way, just that centuries of "white is better" doesn't get erased within a decade.

White women wouldn't see you as special based on you being white, so for them it comes down to personality, behaviour and so on. The normal stuff.

prashant01's photo
Thu 02/20/14 09:59 AM

I have a different answer as to why this might happen, but for fear of offending asian men, I can't say why, on a public forum. I'm wondering if it isn't a similar reason as to why I get a lot of asian men after me. Then again, some turned out to be just scammer's, but I know what they want white women for. So I understand. Sort of.
laugh laugh laugh laugh

Must be some funny assumption....good luck!

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 02/20/14 10:26 AM


I have a different answer as to why this might happen, but for fear of offending asian men, I can't say why, on a public forum. I'm wondering if it isn't a similar reason as to why I get a lot of asian men after me. Then again, some turned out to be just scammer's, but I know what they want white women for. So I understand. Sort of.
laugh laugh laugh laugh

Must be some funny assumption....good luck!


It's from experience. What you think I'm about to say, may not be what you think. Not sure what you think I'm gonna say about them, but you know where to e-mail me IF you want to know, as I'm not here to cause an arguement on a forum. Seen enough of that, anyway.

JohnDavidDavid's photo
Thu 02/20/14 02:41 PM
I was coupled for over ten years with a Chinese-American woman. Although raised in Chinatown culture, she rejected Asian males because (in her words) "They are either effeminate or are trying to be macho, not much in between" and "They think they are better than women." Recognizing that I was neither extreme and was respectful of women, she was not at all timid about developing a relationship.

Ethnicity was not ever a factor in our relationship and I see no reason it should be in any relationship.

Brizzlekicks's photo
Thu 02/20/14 02:47 PM


I'm a educated, employed, tall, athletic, confident, good looking, White man living in Dallas, TX. The population of Dallas is fairly diverse with a large Hispanic, African American, and Caucasian population with a smaller Asian, Indian, and Middle Eastern population. I think I'm a good catch, of course that is subject to a woman's personal preferences. What I don't understand is why I have such a high success rate with Asian women and such a low success rate with White women. If we ate all individuals wouldn't I then be consistently successful or unsuccessful with all ethnicities. It may seem like an extreme simplification but it is true. I'm most successful with attractive Asian women and often have them give me their number without having to ask but when I ask for the contact information of a White girl, even after putting forth tome in conversation, she acts shocked as if she had assumed I just wanted to be her friend or I was gay or something. Women of other races never make that mistake. When I decide I want to avoid all confusion I minimize interacting with attractive White women or I interact with them only with polite professionalism then they often het frustrated that I'm not giving them the attention they've grown to expect.
I'm more successful with all other races than Caucasian, Why?


Ummmm..you a cannibal?
This would explain a lot..


Lmfao beat me to ithappy

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Thu 02/20/14 02:52 PM

I'm a educated, employed, tall, athletic, confident, good looking

I'm glad you think so