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Topic: Are there any decent men on this site who arent after sex!
allie0408 Joined Fri 01/31/14 Posts: 129	Sun 03/02/14 08:33 PM
I have been reading this kind of posts for a while now. I know a lot of guys here are into sex chats and all but I mean it doesnt take that long to spot someone that is going on that direction. I have been able to go past the idiots and to be honest I have met unbelievable guys here. I mean I am currently talking to someone that is not only a great guy but has a unique personality and is into so many artistic hobbies that it's amazing every time we talk on the phone. I have also made great friends more than a handfull and so I get really surprised that among thousands of guys people continue to complaint that there are only pervs on this site when I have been lucky enough to find so many that are worth it. Sorry, to hear about your bad luck though and I don't mean to rain on your parade or anything If anything I am looking to encourage you. There is someone just right for you, you just need time.

albanoxls1 Joined Mon 03/03/14 Posts: 1	Mon 03/03/14 05:54 PM
Everyone that is after sex won't say that is after sex... The ones after sex that say "those guys that are looking for sex are disgusting" are the ones that want to really pic under your panties .. They try to be the car�cter that you like to se with intention to jump on your panties...than they jump because you felt for the oldest but always functional trick in the books... just being honest.. If I wanted to jump in your pants i would say something nice to hear.. get it again?? Greats from Portugal

atruebeiler61 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/04/14 03:14 AM
Thx for that answer. Its true I'm a women looking for old fashion values standards and morals..but ladies remember that button u pushed to text that one man who did talk that way well there is a block button too if u do it enough times you'll get to the ones at the top of the barrel that does respect the way they talk to u and you'll know where to stop at and really hv a good conversation...keeplook'n the good ones are on here..just say'n...keep a smiling.

atruebeiler61 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/04/14 03:23 AM
U ain't just a whistlen dixix on that not...if they start to ask ? like so what do u look like I give the basics llike my head is on my shoulders and my feet on planted firmly on the ground oh and by the way did u read my profile? Then I just tell them I will hv a pic up soon for u to view ..if they don't chance the ?'s then I block'm. Then find someone else to chat with....just think'n outloud...LOL...keep look'n there out there...:)

atruebeiler61 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/04/14 03:32 AM
I hv gotten that too and sometimes I will make a joke with them and tell them they hv to come out of training pants b 4 they can walk with the adults..lolsome laugh And some get an attitude.. but I just click the block button and look to chat with others..life is to short to waste on the ones that don't respect you...

atruebeiler61 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/04/14 03:44 AM
I say that is right on with the pic. But I say too make sure your words r straight forward in ye profile also that does make a different. Keep try'n there out there.

atruebeiler61 Joined Sat 03/01/14 Posts: 16	Tue 03/04/14 03:58 AM
Just remember sometimes it is easier for man or women to hide behind in front or even under phone...but when it comes to meet'n them they normally hv to be drinking or doing drugs to be able to do anything....but if they are persistent u could always invite them on a date then bring everyone that helped raise u to the date..LOL..LOL. especially ye later boyfriend and yr dad..and if they do show up they hv a sum sum look on there face and of course u could always hv a Bible study going....c u can hv as much fun as "they want" or "did want"..LOL..keep'a look'n there out there....

Nischupbalok Joined Tue 03/04/14 Posts: 1	Tue 03/04/14 04:07 AM
Try me...

Viper1j Joined Tue 12/04/12 Posts: 803	Tue 03/04/14 06:46 AM
I remember the good ole' days when women thought being frigid was a bad thing..

kessel009 Joined Sat 01/05/13 Posts: 97	Tue 03/04/14 06:57 AM
What's so special about sex just 5min of enjoyment after ur done what's next another gurl so on so fourth its meaningless

kessel009 Joined Sat 01/05/13 Posts: 97	Tue 03/04/14 07:01 AM
I have been reading this kind of posts for a while now. I know a lot of guys here are into sex chats and all but I mean it doesnt take that long to spot someone that is going on that direction. I have been able to go past the idiots and to be honest I have met unbelievable guys here. I mean I am currently talking to someone that is not only a great guy but has a unique personality and is into so many artistic hobbies that it's amazing every time we talk on the phone. I have also made great friends more than a handfull and so I get really surprised that among thousands of guys people continue to complaint that there are only pervs on this site when I have been lucky enough to find so many that are worth it. Sorry, to hear about your bad luck though and I don't mean to rain on your parade or anything If anything I am looking to encourage you. There is someone just right for you, you just need time. well am happy for u if wat ur saying is the truth but trust me almost everyone herE is a perv

Vivagurl94 Joined Mon 03/03/14 Posts: 4	Tue 03/04/14 07:05 AM
You are so correct about what you said mydear.most expecialy the indians.they so much like sex which disgust me alot about.sex is good but too much of it is crazy.:(

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 03/04/14 07:29 AM
Are there any decent men on this site who arent after sex! Yes, but they're Catholic priests. So, you're safe. Unless you're an altar boy. ^^^^ This is offensive to the thousands of priests it unfairly slanders and even the victims of the referenced crimes. Religious bigotry is not funny.

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Tue 03/04/14 03:40 PM
Change your question to "just sex". I'm a dude and all the sex talk is annoying to me. I don't mean risque comments or jokes or flirtatious innuendo. I'm no prude. But the last kind of woman I would want to hug up on is one who starts talking about her "squishy" from the get go. Not only is it debasing both of us but I'm sure NUMEROUS other men would have heard it from her. Save your "dirty" talk for the one you are intimate with. I was an altar boy and not one priest ever did anything to me. Of course I was an ugly child... @PacificStar48 - I apologize but i couldn't resist.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/04/14 04:15 PM
Well i am a decent guy here ... and i bet theres a lot of other decent guys on here too it just takes time to find what your looking for:) have a great day and don't worry to much life's to short ...i hope you find that special guy

danieldupont Joined Tue 03/04/14 Posts: 2	Tue 03/04/14 07:14 PM
Well put hi

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 03/04/14 07:20 PM
I am really shocked that almost every second guy i meet here just want to have sex and all they talk about is nasty things. Please really want to meet decent people. well you say "every second guy" so, apparently you have answered your own question.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 03/04/14 09:55 PM
Everyone that is after sex won't say that is after sex... The ones after sex that say "those guys that are looking for sex are disgusting" are the ones that want to really pic under your panties .. They try to be the car�cter that you like to se with intention to jump on your panties...than they jump because you felt for the oldest but always functional trick in the books... just being honest.. If I wanted to jump in your pants i would say something nice to hear.. get it again?? Greats from Portugal Exactly...thanks for at least being honest...all roads lead to sex, either directly or indirectly

Dave39_S Joined Mon 12/23/13 Posts: 23	Wed 03/05/14 10:14 AM
99% of any guy at or near 20 years old is going to have just one thing on there mind. And that is sex. Even if they claim there not like the rest. Unless they have had there balls cut off and no testosterone in them. The sex drive is what motivates young men to meet women. And also most older men too. It also has to do with the guys you choose. If you keep going for the same kind of looks, and same kind of talk, you'l get the same kind of guys. A good guy won't have all the right things to say. Because he don't get a lot of practice. A player has a lot of practice, and they know what works to get a woman. A good guy will be less confident. A player will have high confidence, because after all.. he's a player.

Dave39_S Joined Mon 12/23/13 Posts: 23	Wed 03/05/14 10:24 AM
I have met unbelievable guys here. I mean I am currently talking to someone that is not only a great guy but has a unique personality and is into so many artistic hobbies that it's amazing every time we talk on the phone. I have also made great friends more than a handfull So how many great guys do you have to meet before you pick one and get off the dating site? You're currently talking to an amazing guy, yet you have not met him yet? And still logging in dating site? This is why guys are pricks and dating sites are so frustrating. Women are like you... out to meet as many guys as they can just for conversation, or collect as many admirers as they can because they love the attention. And never actually intend on picking one, going on dates, and forming a relationship. Personally, I am tired of chat buddy's. If I wanted a chat buddy i'd make a facebook account.