Topic: Older Men And Younger Women
Mississippigal2003's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:10 PM


Ha 40 is my shut off age for dating. Sex is completely diff tho. I've always wanted to do an older guy tho. Just once to say I did



LOL... Sorry, 45 and ups.

Now, this sex with the older gentlemen... smokin
I can agree that this does get better with age!
oooh girl. Come over and we can gossip about it lol

Mississippigal2003's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:15 PM
@everyone, tee is simply saying she raises her girls to be a certain way. That's her job as a parent to instill HER values and morals in them. Leave her be. They're not ur kids so stop judging. My goodness!!! Y'all have probably made life choices that she wouldn't of necessarily made for herself but she's not pitching fits bout it. Chillax. Have a drink and let's all hug it out. Maybe fondle a little bit too. flowerforyou frustrated :banana: drinks rofl

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Mon 03/17/14 02:16 PM








Well, I think that it's absurd to say that knowledge doesn't come from experience. When your girls were babies did they already have knowledge, or experience? No and I didn't have the knowledge or experience that I do now when I was eighteen.

If there's no difference between younger and older men, and age is just a number (which is what you're saying amounts to), do you think that the same holds for women, or is it just us stupid males that are incapable of learning anything through experience?


However, you swing it TAWT, Age does not EQUATE knowledge.
When I was 18, I was attracted to older men because I thought they held a wealth of knowledge that would benefit me.
CLEARLY I was wrong.

A 30 yr old man, interested in an 18 yr old girl... only has 1 item of experience to show her! Regardless of how smart or worldly She believes herself to be.

There is a BIG differnce between older and younger men, Younger men don't know any better... Older men should!

Let's be clear about older men... a 50 yr old man dating a 35 yr old woman.. That's fine, No one gives a ****

30-35 yr old dating 18-21 yr old girl.. no, It's harmful.




Oh really? What's harmful about it, pray tell?

I dated a girl half my age last year and she told me that she liked older men for their maturity and experience. For sure I knew things that I had learned through experience that we talked about. She was living the same sort of lifestyle that I did at her age. If I had a daughter I would like to think that I was in a position to impart some of my knowledge and experience in a similar way but according to you, that's not possible, although you somehow managed as a female to learn things that you say that you were ignorant about at eighteen that you can teach your girls. Can't you see how contradictory that is?

Not contradiction in this.

I was an 18 yr old girl, attracted to older men. What can a 40 yr old man, tell my 19 yr old girl that is more useful than I, once 18 yr old girl, could tell her?

Young girls, do tend to hold more stock in what an older man says, NOT taking into account that anything He says could be self serving.

and It's harmful... because girls, ( 18 to 25) getting involved with men 10 to 15 years her senior, Never realize what they are giving up to be in relationships like that.

I KNOW from where I speak! Their Dad, great guy, but I gave up many youthful years to be the ADULT, I thought he wanted.


In other words, you don't want your girls listening to a man more than they listen to you. A man could tell your daughters plenty of things that you couldn't and my father told me plenty of things that my mother couldn't or wouldn't. You don't have the monopoly on life experience and you don't know everything. All that you're talking about is telling your girls what you think that men are like; or that's how it seems to me.

What if your daughter gets involved in a situation that you have no experience with? Fair enough to say that a woman is more qualified to teach girls about certain things like tampons and having babies but like it or not, a time comes when kids are going to pay more attention to their friends and partners than they are too their parents and I would say that if that happens, you would want them to be listening to someone with a bit of maturity.

Your statements are contradictory. You say that there's no difference and then you say that there is. You talk about how you don't want your girls to make the same mistakes that you did. I'm saying that I dated a younger woman and I saw her making the same mistakes that I did at her age because I was living the same lifestyle and was immature at her age. It was stuff that I had experience with, which I'll wager that you don't and even if you do, you are just going to have to accept that your girls are adults now and are going to live their own lives and not consider you the ultimate authority about everything like they are five year olds.




It's a good thing I raised indedpendant young women. They do as THEY want, however they take my words into consideration.
I'm not a " Do as I say, Not as I do Mom"
I keep no secrets from my kids when it comes to my choices. I tell Why I made the choice that I made, and WHY it was a mistake for me.

My girls learn from whomever has their BEST interest at heart.

Can you tell me, if you are dating a 22 yr old girl... and she wishes to leave for school, but YOU love her, Would you advise her for her benefit or yours?
She wants to go to Spring break with OTHER kids her age.. Do you advise to go elsewhere with YOU or Party on at Spring Break with her friends?
To me there is no upside for a 18- 21 yr old to date 30-40 yr old man.


Look, the girl that I was dating was twenty three and she was "at school" and I didn't have a problem with that and she told me all about how she wanted to be a nurse and I thought that was cool.

As far as partying with her friends goes; yeah, she did that and I didn't say that she shouldn't, even though from what she told me about them, they sounded a bit dodgy and not what you could really call good influences. Well, the girl was looking for a bit of stability and she had a chaotic lifestyle and was hanging about with a bunch of dodgy people and she didn't have the advantage of a good family. I wasn't too happy when she wanted to spend more time with them than she did with me but it wasn't that so much and those "friends" of hers weren't all a bunch of young people going on "Spring break". They were the sort of people that you wouldn't want your daughter hanging about with and it did end up badly for her.


Reading what you just described... she was looking for a father figure. That can't be good for you either!
Eventually, Children leave their parents.


Well, that's your opinion and there may be some truth in it but it was more complicated than that. What she told me was that she wanted to settle down.

These things sometimes work, however they start and there's certainly no guarantee that an older woman would be any different or a better longterm bet. You either grow together as a couple or you don't. It was cool. I introduced her to stuff like old music that I like and she said that she could be the one to introduce me to the stuff that younger people are into these days. We had plenty in common and it just wasn't possible to plan any longterm future with her because of problems that she had. She did seem to want the sort of stability that she wouldn't really get from a younger guy and yeah, she thought that older guys are better lovers, so I'm still not exactly sure what it was that she wanted from me.

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Mon 03/17/14 02:31 PM

What are the reasons younger women enjoy older men......

Men are like…..Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are:wink:

mightymoe's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:33 PM


What are the reasons younger women enjoy older men......

Men are like…..Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are:wink:


hey... I resemble that remark...grumble laugh

teebee79's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:33 PM

@everyone, tee is simply saying she raises her girls to be a certain way. That's her job as a parent to instill HER values and morals in them. Leave her be. They're not ur kids so stop judging. My goodness!!! Y'all have probably made life choices that she wouldn't of necessarily made for herself but she's not pitching fits bout it. Chillax. Have a drink and let's all hug it out. Maybe fondle a little bit too. flowerforyou frustrated :banana: drinks rofl

Thanks for the back up hon...yeah sign me up for some happy light fondling!

teebee79's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:34 PM


What are the reasons younger women enjoy older men......

Men are like…..Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are:wink:

Then there's thislaugh

88sean's photo
Mon 03/17/14 02:38 PM
i think its wrong but am a young guy as longs the age gap isnt too far apart a suppose its ok

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 03/17/14 04:45 PM


@everyone, tee is simply saying she raises her girls to be a certain way. That's her job as a parent to instill HER values and morals in them. Leave her be. They're not ur kids so stop judging. My goodness!!! Y'all have probably made life choices that she wouldn't of necessarily made for herself but she's not pitching fits bout it. Chillax. Have a drink and let's all hug it out. Maybe fondle a little bit too. flowerforyou frustrated :banana: drinks rofl

Thanks for the back up hon...yeah sign me up for some happy light fondling!


I think that you were saying more than that. You actually made some pretty strong statements about age gap relationships being destructive. I don't agree and I think that you make too many generalisations. Not every kid wants to go on spring breaks and that doesn't even exist in this country. What if I'm chatting with a twenty one year old on here right now and she's already got kids and tells me that she's looking for a longterm relationship? Why would it be bad for me to date her and fine for some younger guy?

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Mon 03/17/14 04:52 PM



@everyone, tee is simply saying she raises her girls to be a certain way. That's her job as a parent to instill HER values and morals in them. Leave her be. They're not ur kids so stop judging. My goodness!!! Y'all have probably made life choices that she wouldn't of necessarily made for herself but she's not pitching fits bout it. Chillax. Have a drink and let's all hug it out. Maybe fondle a little bit too. flowerforyou frustrated :banana: drinks rofl

Thanks for the back up hon...yeah sign me up for some happy light fondling!


I think that you were saying more than that. You actually made some pretty strong statements about age gap relationships being destructive. I don't agree and I think that you make too many generalisations. Not every kid wants to go on spring breaks and that doesn't even exist in this country. What if I'm chatting with a twenty one year old on here right now and she's already got kids and tells me that she's looking for a longterm relationship? Why would it be bad for me to date her and fine for some younger guy?

The fathers of most 21 year olds would kill you. That's not meant to sound nasty at all, it's just plain fact.

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 03/17/14 05:01 PM
yeah I get hit on by younger women often enough to have made me reconsider my thoughts on my four year rule. I couldn't shake the guilty feeling of knowing I have friends with kids their age.

TawtStrat's photo
Mon 03/17/14 05:10 PM




@everyone, tee is simply saying she raises her girls to be a certain way. That's her job as a parent to instill HER values and morals in them. Leave her be. They're not ur kids so stop judging. My goodness!!! Y'all have probably made life choices that she wouldn't of necessarily made for herself but she's not pitching fits bout it. Chillax. Have a drink and let's all hug it out. Maybe fondle a little bit too. flowerforyou frustrated :banana: drinks rofl

Thanks for the back up hon...yeah sign me up for some happy light fondling!


I think that you were saying more than that. You actually made some pretty strong statements about age gap relationships being destructive. I don't agree and I think that you make too many generalisations. Not every kid wants to go on spring breaks and that doesn't even exist in this country. What if I'm chatting with a twenty one year old on here right now and she's already got kids and tells me that she's looking for a longterm relationship? Why would it be bad for me to date her and fine for some younger guy?

The fathers of most 21 year olds would kill you. That's not meant to sound nasty at all, it's just plain fact.


Welll, they haven't yet, is all that I can say to that.

teebee79's photo
Mon 03/17/14 06:19 PM
@Tawt
1st and foremost..it's none of my business who you date. but if asked my opinion, a 21 yr old with kids already is in a different league. She already has baggage that your average 21 yr old will not have.

teebee79's photo
Mon 03/17/14 06:21 PM
A fresh face 21 yr old should have experiences along with the person she's with . Not a middle aged man that lived her life 10 or 15 years ago!

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 03/17/14 06:43 PM


What are the reasons younger women enjoy older men......

Men are like…..Bananas.
The older they get, the less firm they are:wink:



Franky,

And you know this how?

Mississippigal2003's photo
Mon 03/17/14 08:46 PM

A fresh face 21 yr old should have experiences along with the person she's with . Not a middle aged man that lived her life 10 or 15 years ago!
I agree but i def wouldn't turn down Hugh Hefner. Come on money bags!!!

Looking38965's photo
Tue 03/18/14 01:06 AM

Well for me it's simply because they appreciate more, and hey, most think that they're less of playing and more into steady relationship?

Looking38965's photo
Tue 03/18/14 01:14 AM
As an older man I feel we focus more on the relationship we're in and not looking for the next one!

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Tue 03/18/14 02:14 AM
I like older woman with some fat

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Tue 03/18/14 02:54 AM

I like older woman with some fat

Is that grilled or BBQued