Most women choose to follow guys who play them but find it hard to even give those who will sincerely love them a chance. Can i say they judge the book by its cover.

Bc they enjoy it but lying to themsleves

Ridiculous, both statements actually.

Hummm judging women and putting them all in one category is really going to get you far with them....NOT..

But then it helps us to ignore those that whine....

All I can say is your hanging around the wrong women, they do not see you as the one they want to be with....

I don't know any men/women that want to be treated bad in a relationship. No one enjoys being hurt....

Most likely the ones that don't give you a chance be thankful they are not the ones for you... and move on....

Hi I would like to put my input if I may. Sometimes most women don't know what love is and go looking for love for love for all the wrong reasons, and if they would only learn to love themselves then they will know there self worth, and most women don't want to be alone so when someone is showing some; kind of attention it feel good to be wanted even if it's negative, by the time he is done sending her on that emotional roller coaster she is no longer good mentally for herself let alone another, and the damage is already done so when a decent guy does come along she will never know it because she has been broken and it will take a strong man to show her otherwise, then and only then will she begin to heal, trust and hopefully love again, some just don't know what love is so if you don't know how can you love another if you can't even love yourself and it started from home that is if she ever had one that was not border line dysfunction.. I hope this has answer your question

I found this thing on the internet the other day where you could supposedly learn how to get women by using psychology. They said that there are techniques that you can learn and you can get any woman that you want with them, even if they're in a relationship with someone else. Don't really know how well that it works but we all know that there are things that are turn offs, turn ons, body language and so on. I suppose that there are guys that know how to play women and according to the video that I watched about it, they aren't even aware that you're doing it.

Exactly. Just because they get rejected, their ego can't take it. So they find the nearest excuse. Not attractive in the slightest.

alternate title : Why do men play the women who love them?

michaelgodvdon,

Such a generalization about women is illogical.

The fact that the women you are interested in aren't interested in you doesn't automatically mean that there is something wrong with those women.

I know a lady that still hangs around a guy who hits her always yet there is another guy who she always embarrass all the time just because the guy was trying to show her real love. What do you call that?

Hahahah! For your alternate title. I dont have an answer because am not a player.

Personally i think most women enjoy the challenge of a player and want to be and believe that they will win the war, battle or game against other women and that makes them love it.
She wants to see that he wants other women but she's the reason that he doesn't. To feel special or most desired.