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I cannot stand my daughters bio father! He's never been there for me during my pregnancy & hasn't been there very much for our baby. He thinks that seeing her twice a month for 3hrs each is okay & he is coming down for fathers day. ****ing really?! Boy do I know how to pick them. He isn't much of a father & I can honestly say he could care less about her. He has made no sacrifice for her. So him, to celebrate being a father to her is redundant!
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Now that we know what he is and is not going to do.... What are you going to do? Think if we could each harness about a mustard seed of all that negative energy and focus it on something positive...
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I hear what you're saying, it's just he is the most annoying person to me in the whole world. Plus there's more to the story but I'll spare you the details. I'm overwhelmed about the situation I'm in, I try to stay strong & do what is right especially for my daughter. I love her & every time I'm in a funk I look at her & I know I can do this by myself :) Dun dun dunnnn Super Mom lol
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Thank you for your story...
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I cannot stand my daughters bio father! He's never been there for me during my pregnancy & hasn't been there very much for our baby. He thinks that seeing her twice a month for 3hrs each is okay & he is coming down for fathers day. ****ing really?! Boy do I know how to pick them. He isn't much of a father & I can honestly say he could care less about her. He has made no sacrifice for her. So him, to celebrate being a father to her is redundant! Nixsters, I realize that your goal in this discussion thread is to express your feelings, and there is nothing wrong with you doing so. Is that all that you want? |
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Yes, I guess. I do feel a bit better but I want to tell him something; but it's like beating a dead horse. But! Lol he doesn't care! I want to be able to find a man who is actually a man & can be a great father. I know that will take time, unfortunately.
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Yes, I guess. I do feel a bit better but I want to tell him something; but it's like beating a dead horse. But! Lol he doesn't care! I want to be able to find a man who is actually a man & can be a great father. I know that will take time, unfortunately. Perhaps you should take a different approach. Years ago, I decided that my life would be better if I sought to be the person that God wants me to be. Thus, I found a way to serve someone who was worse off than me. Doing that led me to meet my late wife. Motherhood is in itself a form of service to others. So, be the mother that you are supposed to be, and enjoy the rewards of doing so. Somewhere there may be a man who is looking for a woman who shines as a mother. |
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first off thanks for reminding me of fathers day I completely forgot..ty
. secondly can we rant in here or is it just your rant.. and yes it sounds like you know how to pick them.. 
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Mon 06/02/14 08:06 PM
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Yes, I guess. I do feel a bit better but I want to tell him something; but it's like beating a dead horse. But! Lol he doesn't care! I want to be able to find a man who is actually a man & can be a great father. I know that will take time, unfortunately. I raise three kids on my own with the same type of father. Any ranting will fall upon deaf ears most of the time. No guarantee in life you will ever find a great father for your kid; I never did, so I had to be both mother and father as best I could and they turned out fine. Keep the well being of your child foremost in your mind and heart and whether that "great father" comes along or not, your child will know he/she is loved and cared for and will grow up fine. Of course, there is the possibility that right one will come along, just saying there are no guarantees and if he does come along, all the better. Best wishes. |
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Yes, I guess. I do feel a bit better but I want to tell him something; but it's like beating a dead horse. But! Lol he doesn't care! I want to be able to find a man who is actually a man & can be a great father. I know that will take time, unfortunately. I raise three kids on my own with the same type of father. Any ranting will fall upon deaf ears most of the time. No guarantee in life you will ever find a great father for your kid; I never did, so I had to be both mother and father as best I could and they turned out fine. Keep the well being of your child foremost in your mind and heart and whether that "great father" comes along or not, your child will know he/she is loved and cared for and will grow up fine. Of course, there is the possibility that right one will come along, just saying there are no guarantees and if he does come along, all the better. Best wishes. |
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