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Topic: WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 07/02/14 08:51 PM
to cheat.. is to allow oneself to drink from the forbidden waters. so to speak... to allow yourself to for fill a fantasy ! with someone you desire. .. or perhaps your partner did something to hurt you. are perhaps your partner doesn't give you the attention you desire.. .. maybe you like kink once in awhile.. and your partner doesn't... . if I like vanilla ice cream.. and my partner doesn't.. should I go my whole life without vanilla ice cream...hmm...ohh.this should be good..!!.. release the hounds...lmao

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Thu 07/03/14 05:28 AM
Two words No Honor Short, to the point, and highly accurate!

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3510	Thu 07/03/14 05:28 AM
so I'm assuming opie is speaking of being in a committed relationship? Yeah, that's why I would not commit in the recent past. I will not have someone pinning me down to control me. Dating is dating. I was waiting on the one I will commit to. Too old for games anymore. If I'm not feeling the love, I am just an object of your attention at the time.

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Thu 07/03/14 02:51 PM
In communism there is no such thing as "cheating". Everyone is entitled to have as many sexual relations with as many people as they like. I think Karl Marx coined the term "free love". People tried it during the sixties and from what I've heard they had a bloody good time.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Thu 07/03/14 03:25 PM
I for one ,have never cheated on anybody... are been cheated on.. . if I no longer have interest in you.. I leave..!...end of story...lmfao..

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Thu 07/03/14 06:32 PM
Because GOD doesn't immediately punish them. Getting STDs aren't quick enough.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Thu 07/03/14 06:39 PM
Because GOD doesn't immediately punish them. Getting STDs aren't quick enough.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Thu 07/03/14 07:08 PM
I know the reason I did cheat on a relationship. I'm in NO way saying this makes it correct to do so, or saying it made things hurt anyless. 2 wrongs don't make it feel right either. I cheated out of spite and revenge when I was in Europe and my girlfriend at the time was cheating on me back home. Now I can say, I was very immature at the time, being it was just a month after High school graduation when this occurred. I really don't understand why someone wouldn't end the relationship, before resorting to cheating.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Thu 07/03/14 08:59 PM
I know the reason I did cheat on a relationship. I'm in NO way saying this makes it correct to do so, or saying it made things hurt anyless. 2 wrongs don't make it feel right either. I cheated out of spite and revenge when I was in Europe and my girlfriend at the time was cheating on me back home. Now I can say, I was very immature at the time, being it was just a month after High school graduation when this occurred. I really don't understand why someone wouldn't end the relationship, before resorting to cheating. That way they have somewhere to lay their head if it don't work out.

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Fri 07/04/14 08:17 AM
"I really don't understand why someone wouldn't end the relationship, before resorting to cheating." Well, for guys its best to always have some female stinkem on them as women want what other women have. If you go too long the stinkem dissapates. Then you have to start from scratch again. Which eventually forces you to use dating sites.

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Fri 07/04/14 08:49 AM
stinkem? I just cant relate to that. (stinkem, my term) are pheromones released when two are bonding and continue to be released for some time. The chemicals change depending on if mating is occurring or not. Women, subconsciously, pickup the sent from the male and are attracted to them. We are all just animals. Guys not "gettin any" have zero of that special stinkem and women continue to ignore them. Hence, the phrase, "Bang a few fatties." And, you have to either "get into the game" or get out. It's difficult without that special stinkem unless the guy is very physically attractive and/or tall.

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 08:54 AM
stinkem? I just cant relate to that. (stinkem, my term) are pheromones released when two are bonding and continue to be released for some time. The chemicals change depending on if mating is occurring or not. Women, subconsciously, pickup the sent from the male and are attracted to them. We are all just animals. Guys not "gettin any" have zero of that special stinkem and women continue to ignore them. Hence, the phrase, "Bang a few fatties." And, you have to either "get into the game" or get out. It's difficult without that special stinkem unless the guy is very physically attractive and/or tall. Axe body spray works wonders...