(In my Stephen A. Smith's voice) I didnt wanna say this, but I am going to do so because it needs to be said: If you want to find love, you have to search EVERYWHERE in the United States (if you are a United States citizen). It's fair to say that you may find someone locally, but also not fair that you might overlooked for someone, that fits your requirements, because he/she lives in a different city, county or state. I mean, there are people that are WILLING to find love in a different place and I see them get shut down, including myself. I believe that I can find The One in a different area than where Im at...that's just me!! At the same time, Im still looking locally and outside of my local area because I always wonder, "What if God has a woman for me and she lives in a different area (particularly different state). I would consider a LDR because I can handle it and Im faithful. You have other people who have a similar belief and a similar mindset like myself. But, for the other people who are the opposite of us, I hate to say this but they are somewhat stubborn. They think just the Inside of the Box, not the outside. I mean, try it out at least and if ur in the LDR (Long Distance Relationship) and it's troubling, find the strength and courage to hold on...HOLD ON!!! Because again, the person that is NOT in your local area could be the man/woman of your dreams!! You know how many people would make sacrifices for you and talk to you? If you get hornified, pleasure yourself by a *****, finger, masterbate, etc. Didnt mean to say it like that, but Im just being real. All Im saying is that, if a person wants to talk to you and they are LOCAL, dont shut them out...talk to them and get to know them and see where it goes. EXPAND YOUR SEARCH FOR A GOOD PERSON THAT YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE!! Again, if you find someone locally, thats great but dont count out the people that are not local, but can be good and/or better than the locals. Please feel free to comment on this and I do not mind responding...this is a website where we can express our thoughts and feelings and desires!! Thank you all and God Bless You All

Sounds good in theory but realistically LDRs don't work. I tried many times and it never worked. I disagree that you need someone in your life. If it was meant to be; you will find them. For some; fate has decided that the some people are not meant to be with someone which is why the population of men to women is not equal.

I got a puppy

LDRs do indeed work, though eventually one has to be willing to move. Communication is key. The LDR relationship I'm in is becoming local.

LDR? Just how far is your hand from your crotch?

Hmmm, doesn't come out as that funny, but I like the line, will work on it; edit and revision is the key to polished comedy

Hi Superhero,
I read your post and will share my opinion for whatever it's worth.

First, I think many people locally get over looked. I have many people tell me they wish there was someone like me close to them.
I ask them if they have looked because im just your average person. mostly nice. ordinary looking. kinda smart. kinda smart aleck. really there aren't many qualities that make me stand out in a crowd. so I imagine there is at least one similar person in every town or city the world over.
another thing I agree with is about not setting a lot of limitations on what you find acceptable in a partner. I don't mean date every one you come in contact with. however, don't limit yourself to a particular type because you miss out on so much more.
The part about long distance relationship, I can never say never again. I can say it would take some convincing. I've had the experience. the person from the last relationship I was in ended up in another country.
we kept in touch and kept hope alive for another year after he was gone.
it's just not the same when you need that person in front of you in the here and now to have a shoulder to cry on. to help you be strong when you feel like your world is collapsing.
it wasn't that either of us entered another relationship. it was needing someone to lean on and not being there.

I find the use of the word 'requirements' somewhat bizzare.
Almost like love is a 2nd hand car or something.
Not sure if it's just me who was kind of stunned by that word but hey ho