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Topic: Peoples' Profiles
456tessa's photo
Wed 08/06/14 01:49 PM

I am so curious as to why people do not fill out their profiles? Your a member looking for... whatever your looking for- why not say what your about and who you are. Some just say "Ask". Do we just go by your profile picture .... if you even have one. Who wants to try and get to know someone and have to drag a conversation out of you. Most people who read what they might have in common with you has absolutely nothing to go on. Just ask... I can't help but laugh at that. You can tell right off the bat- communication maybe one sided. Replies will be short. Ask me! LMAO now that is some funny **** right there.


I have been asking myself this same question for ages...:thumbsup:

It's not only that they have a one line or even one word description of themselves, many have "No answer" with things like marital status, children, religion, even body type etc. I really don't get it how these people think they will make somebody interested in them as much as to have a conversation with them if they are not ready to give out some info. about themselves. To me this is essential -- if they don't have so much trust, openess, and honesty and are just so lazy, then they are probably not for me anyway ...:angel:

I was even thinking of suggesting that the site should be so designed or administered that not fully filled-in profiles would not be accepted...laugh . Of course, that still wouldn't be an obstacle for liers and cheatters, but maybe it would make some people complete their profiles...

Rock's photo
Wed 08/06/14 04:55 PM
I'm seeking a three holer, but filled my profile anyway.

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 08/06/14 07:28 PM
Whats A Three Holer??

Im Deft At Internet Lingolaugh

patriciamae14's photo
Wed 08/06/14 07:53 PM
I don't get it either, i just don't reply to those mysterious and creepy ones.. :laughing:

no1phD's photo
Wed 08/06/14 07:57 PM
my guess would be.. how many orifices does a woman have..
surprised noway

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 08:10 PM
I am so curious as to why people do not fill out their profiles?

Lots of reasons.
Such as:
1. They got bored of sitting there staring at a screen and just moved on to looking at the pictures and never looked back.
2. They don't care what their profile does or doesn't say.
3. They are too scared of saying the "wrong" thing so don't say anything at all.
4. They are updating their profile (sometimes constantly) and it takes them a couple of days to figure out what they want to say, and you happen to look at their profile in the middle.
5. They screwed up by hitting the wrong keys or something and never checked their work.

no1phD's photo
Wed 08/06/14 08:11 PM
probably because they're just looking for.. hmmm...a hook up

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 08:13 PM
See? I hit enter accidentally and posted. I thought of not adding more.

Who wants to try and get to know someone and have to drag a conversation out of you

Some people have no problem starting conversations.
And in my experience people tend to like those people.
So they say nothing in the hopes they will find someone that will start a conversation with them.

If you don't want to start a conversation with them, or drag one out of them, then you aren't whom they are seeking.

No different than saying something like "not looking for one night stands."
It's just a means to weed out people they wouldn't get along with.

communication maybe one sided
Communication is never one sided.
People simply rely on different methods that are sometimes incompatible.
Mostly falling into the categories of direct and indirect.
Most people don't really understand what they are actually communicating, intending to say one thing and believing it's an absolute everyone else will just "get."

no1phD's photo
Wed 08/06/14 09:12 PM
Hmmm.. ^^^I don't get what you're trying to say...laugh jk..flowerforyou

LUNG1954's photo
Wed 08/06/14 09:59 PM
Edited by LUNG1954 on Wed 08/06/14 10:03 PM

See? I hit enter accidentally and posted. I thought of not adding more.
Who wants to try and get to know someone and have to drag a conversation out of you

Some people have no problem starting conversations.
And in my experience people tend to like those people.
So they say nothing in the hopes they will find someone that will start a conversation with them.
If you don't want to start a conversation with them, or drag one out of them, then you aren't whom they are seeking.
No different than saying something like "not looking for one night stands."
It's just a means to weed out people they wouldn't get along with.
communication maybe one sided
Communication is never one sided.
Many didn't up load a real photo cold you tell me why?
People simply rely on different methods that are sometimes incompatible.
Mostly falling into the categories of direct and indirect.
Most people don't really understand what they are actually communicating, intending to say one thing and believing it's an absolute everyone else will just "get."

Many didn't up load a real photo could you tell me why?

LUNG1954's photo
Wed 08/06/14 10:04 PM

Hmmm.. ^^^I don't get what you're trying to say...laugh jk..flowerforyou

Many didn't up load a real photo could you tell me why?

patriciamae14's photo
Wed 08/06/14 10:14 PM


See? I hit enter accidentally and posted. I thought of not adding more.
Who wants to try and get to know someone and have to drag a conversation out of you

Some people have no problem starting conversations.
And in my experience people tend to like those people.
So they say nothing in the hopes they will find someone that will start a conversation with them.
If you don't want to start a conversation with them, or drag one out of them, then you aren't whom they are seeking.
No different than saying something like "not looking for one night stands."
It's just a means to weed out people they wouldn't get along with.
communication maybe one sided
Communication is never one sided.
Many didn't up load a real photo cold you tell me why?
People simply rely on different methods that are sometimes incompatible.
Mostly falling into the categories of direct and indirect.
Most people don't really understand what they are actually communicating, intending to say one thing and believing it's an absolute everyone else will just "get."

Many didn't up load a real photo could you tell me why?

Maybe they're shy? blushing

LUNG1954's photo
Thu 08/07/14 07:09 AM


See?

Many didn't up load a real photo could you tell me why?

Maybe they're shy? blushing


Rock's photo
Thu 08/07/14 05:19 PM
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Whats A Three Holer??

Im Deft At Internet Lingolaugh


I'll 'splain it in email, if you remind me.

4Browneyes's photo
Fri 08/08/14 09:19 AM
I look at the marital status also. I am single! I do not want to communicate to a man who is married- when I am looking for a potential relationship. It is very irritating to me when someone tries to fool you into thinking they are single. Shame one them. If you are looking for a homewrecker... then put that on your status. Be honest. I will throw this out there.... I want to talk to someone Single, Divorced, and or Un-attached. :wink: And Yes, those "Hi" profiles- they make me laugh also. To All that took the time to make a comment- Thank You! flowers

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