If honesty is a seed,the fruit of that seed is trust,that fruit
nourishes a strong relationship.

i agree with you but do you know how many women i've met who won't allow
their selves to trust. it doesn't matter how honest you are they have
their walls up and it can be hard to get through.

You have to remember that a lot of women have been lied to. You have to
earn their trust, and sometimes that is not an easy thing to do. I am
sure that a lot of men have been lied to also, but for some reason,
women have a harder time trusting men...I think its because men are
known to be players. (God, I know I am going to get chit on this one) I
am not saying all men are players, but there are a lot of players out
there. So just give it time for a woman to trust you, if she really
likes you..it will happen

the ones i'm talking about ..they allow themselves in a relationship but
they do things like go through your things and try to get their friends
to hit on you to see if you cheat then get mad when they hit on you but
they take it out on you,,,or have someone follow you around and then she
gets some bad information from a bad friend and you have to sort it all
out , the stuff never ends but you are right there are alot of girls who
do get over it eventually and when they do it's well worth it. the rest
is bull but a part of life.

Yes it is very hard to trust when you have been messed over, it takes a
long time to get over this.

king..to me it sounds like the women you are dating are playing head
games with you. Having girls to hit on you to see if you take the bait?
Thats just childish games to me. Maybe you should try an older woman? :)

that's exactly what i've been saying. her deal was more with being hurt
before and there was some jealousy. i can completely understand the
situation though and some guys will try to work through it. some people
never get over it and i know it's ruined some relationships of mine that
probably would have very good for the both of us but it happens. the
thing is, when you see someone who does come through it and they open
themselves back up to the right person it does wonders for them.
everything changes for the better, we just need more people who are
worty of people's trust. being hurt is unfortunately part of life and
when you stop taking the chance, you're likely to miss out on something.

King, I can tell you how to get every woman I know to trust you.
It's called emotional support. Whenever she needs someone and is at the
end of her rope, you are always there and available. Drop everything if
you have to, (If you love her or think you might). Tell her to call you
24/7 if she needs you, and mean it. You can't believe how having
someone you can call makes you alright and not need to. Never be too
busy to talk or at least give her another time to call if you can't.
And SWP00's right, be honest. Be brutally frank if you have to, but be
an open book and never lie to her. You can say "Don't ask if you don't
want the answer" but if she does, tell her.
My best friend is such a man, and I trust him with my life and more than
I ever have another human being. I'd jump off a bldg if he ask, knowing
full well he would protect me and never allow me to be hurt.
If you get a woman to trust you like that you'll be able to ask the
world of her and she'll happily go along. But just remember, once that
trust is broken it may never be regained. So once you've gained it,
treat her trust of you as sacred.

I know that there is a point that is missing here.
just as men can play,,,so too do th women,as I have been played most of
late...some play just to be playing,while others play
to hurt th ones who court them... M.

HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY

trust
that is the problem with me
is hard to trust,

wat up morena

hey T how r ya! man

chillin say can i get a ride

Hey morena,

I have been lied too so much in the last 2 years, it make it almost
imposible to trust anymore!

you shit try all your life

Its hard to trust anyone.

its hard to trust your self now days

was up chica
what you'r doing chilling?