I think he trusts you but it seems like it's some sort of test and that's stupid when you're with someone whom you are protective over. Nothing wrong with some freedom but too much is well, too much.

Why some guys never get jealous?

he actually let me go out with his buddy to go dancing almost every weekend...thats giving a little bit too much freedom and too much trust...There has to be a limit with certain things... there is something as too much freedom

when u trust someone too much thats when they feel they can do anything behind your back and get away with it

Did you find the answer?

I think it will be better if you ask him, right?

Because some men have figured out that with a lot of women no matter what they do they will never "win."

I mean

Implied in all of this is that you bear no responsibility for choosing to go out dancing with another man every weekend.

Almost as though you are sitting there thinking "you know, if that a-hole was just more jealous and didn't give me as much freedom and trust as he did, then we would have had a better relationship, he caused the relationship to fail. Men have to be more controlling in their boundaries in telling me, dictating to me, what I am or am not allowed to do."

He could just as easily have started a forum asking "Why are women never considerate? I was dating a girl and she actually went out every weekend with my buddy to go dancing. I know there's nothing going on between them, I simply know and trust her and my buddy, but why does she take that for granted? Why do women only want people to see things from their perspective and what they want and never try to see it from others?"


Only if you are the type of person to do anything behind their back all while shirking the consequences and responsibility for your own behavior.
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He let me go out with his buddy..he was fine with it..and since i love dancing, i went..i was kinda testing him too, to see how far i can go or how often i can go out like that before he tells me something..if he would say something, then i would stop for sure..but since he didnt mind, so ya i took advantage of it..I just wished he cared more and rather i didnt go out often like that..thats when we started growing apart..i ended going out all the time, come and go as i please and it felt like we were living as roomates..but thats the past..i was just wondering why men in general dont worry or get protective when they should, makes the woman feel cared about..and im not talking about the crazy possessive jealousy, just the normal jealousy..

We're waiting.

He let me go out with his buddy..he was fine with it..and since i love dancing, i went..i was kinda testing him too, to see how far i can go or how often i can go out like that before he tells me something..if he would say something, then i would stop for sure..but since he didnt mind, so ya i took advantage of it..I just wished he cared more and rather i didnt go out often like that..thats when we started growing apart..i ended going out all the time, come and go as i please and it felt like we were living as roomates..but thats the past..i was just wondering why men in general dont worry or get protective when they should, makes the woman feel cared about..and im not talking about the crazy possessive jealousy, just the normal jealousy..

Ya i see what everyone is saying..but i will never understand it..i always liked a guy who is atleast a little protective and shows he cares..cuz giving me all that freedom and everything, didnt make me feel cared about..thats just me..

Im not with that guy anymore..im not with anyone..i was just wondering about the no jealousy thing in guys..

But did you asked him about it? I wonder what he said....

And I agree with Mariah..

Ya there are different ways of showing things...how about u? would rather be with a guy who is protective and shows some jealousy or with someone who gives u so much freedom and trust and makes u wonder if he cares or not?